uyen

Hi friends ,would you marry a person who has very different background from you?



男朋友的学历

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　　一个女孩子说，她是大学生，她男朋友连中学也未毕业。她爱他，但是心里难免有点介意他的学历太低。她问 我，如果我是她，我会否介意有一个学历比自己低的男朋友。
　　你爱一个人的话，你根本不会介意他的条件。一旦你介意他的条件，那不是证明你现实和势利眼，而是证明你 根本不够爱他。你爱他还不至于爱到忘记他的学历很低。无论跟他一起多久，你始终还是会介意的。既然如此，不 如好好考虑一下。
　　一个人的学历并不能反映他的智慧。有些硕士生和博士生的智慧只及一个中学生，人格比不上贩夫走卒。这些 博士硕士，你要嫁给他吗？
　　一个女人选择嫁给金钱，是可以理解的，无论快乐与否，她是拿了自己的幸福来投资买卖。一个女人嫁给学历 ，那就很难理解了。嫁给学历有什么好处？大学毕业证书是一份很好的嫁妆，却不是一份很好的聘礼，学历比不上 学问重要。
　　有些女人不介意男朋友的学历比她低，因为他虽然学历比不上她，他在其他方面却有才华、有成就。大家无法 沟通的话，他的学历再高也没用。
　　一旦有嫌弃和介意，那只能证明你还没找到最好的。

:mellow3:

sgalextoh

Hahaha.....
I don't really understand the chinese words.....
But personally I don't mind at all if there's ways to change this person to the better.....
Just take it as a helping hand for those that have or are doing bad things before and improve them so that they can actually stand up again.....

lkarren

i agree with this sentence:

一旦有嫌弃和介意，那只能证明你还没找到最好的。
:biggrin4:

finaldust

I dont mind if we are able to communicate and live together

2 fall in love is always easy
2 start a relationship is always simple
2 build it, is always tough
2 maintain it, is better said than done
2 break off, is easier said than done
2 remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
2 forget the memories is always doing but never succeeding
2 heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has 2 try 2 heal your own heart
the heart belongs to u
memories will never be forgotten
the scar will never go

zel

i dont really mind la.. but i dont want to be looked down by my the other part in the future...
so if that case happens on me, i will strive hard to have equal status as her... or try to be better than her ba...

人生如果能夠从来, 是否仍选择相同旅程

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uyen

well said ,everyone .:biggrin4:

sgalextoh

Thank you.....
:biggrin4:

valentinelove1977

nope... don't mind... what matter most is the character that suits.... of coz, if personality is good, rich, and high education, is the best lo... =D

xlng8aaron

I wouldnt mind too~ But if she hint here and there, then think will have to work on it right? :speechless:

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grinmonzter

I agree with this sentence: 大家无法 沟通的话，他的学历再高也没用。

But, usually, if the academic difference is higher, there is higher tendency of communication problem. Its not really that simple as 1+1=2. When there is quarrelling, this will become a one of the subject, such as:
"I'm earning more now, so dont argue with me"
or "I know u despise me, coz i did not study as much as you", etc, etc

So, I'll say I'll 男朋友的学历, unless can really communication well.

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silencedreamer

i dun really mind, coz i feel tt its not impt compared to the connection we have together. however, i will still ask him to work hard in his studies, coz its still for our own future. its not becoz i look down on him, but becoz i want to have a better future with him, n in a way eliminate this possibility of quarreling becoz of this issue.

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genzo2106

i dnt see wh not. though education may be impt, but in a relationship, it is the least of priorities.

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killtheblackkat

to me...education doesnt prove loyalty, true love and honesty. there shouldnt be any restrictions when it comes to loving somebody... coz what i love is that person. not his looks, not his money nor his family background etc.

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