Why some guys can really cheat on their loved ones??? - Page 4 - Singapore's Online Community

**diesopain** · 22-04-2008, 05:34 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Artemis86
	I get what u mean. We can't live in isolated world and we may meet new people in our workplace, through friends n stuffs. What i mean is that when attached, one shouldn't make extra effort to find new pples to know like through friendster or irc or chatrooms. Some couples have opposite sex good friends, but that dun mean that they r in r/s, they cannot continue to hang out with their opposite sex friends. However its how they do it -whether they go out alone n din tell gf/bf - that matters. If u dun go looking for trouble, trouble less likely find u. SHould trouble finds u, then ur self control should come into play. Bottomline is, each of us gotta know what we want from a r/s. If we want commitment, we should do the same. Reciprocity breeds reciprocity. =)

erm yeah....but there are case scenarios whereby Self-control is in-place but the gf or bf just happens to caught them in the act or that third-party make it look like that bf/gf commited betrayal in front of him/her and he/she trust their eyes instead of trusting his gf / her bf...so not really trouble less likely to find u...trouble can find u anytime...

**Artemis86** · 24-04-2008, 01:23 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by diesopain
	erm yeah....but there are case scenarios whereby Self-control is in-place but the gf or bf just happens to caught them in the act or that third-party make it look like that bf/gf commited betrayal in front of him/her and he/she trust their eyes instead of trusting his gf / her bf...so not really trouble less likely to find u...trouble can find u anytime...

True...well that will depends on the level of trust between the couple. If the girl knows the guy has always been trustworthy, she may give him a chance. Its quite arbitrary cuz its depends on couple. Still in the 1st place, if the girl/guy know the 3rd party well and the 3rd party has feelings/interest in him/her, he/she should avoid the 3rd party as much as possible if he/she has self control la.

Also true that girls and guys are flattered by the attention of opposite sex even when they are attached. Being flattered is one thing, but if he/she always seek for such attention, there is something wrong liao. Either within his/her relationship or well his/her character.

Sometimes life will throw u a curveball..and u may make mistakes. However if u really acknowledge ur mistakes and repent for those, U will become stronger and better.

We cannot control others' reactions but we CAN control ours own, no matter how tough it seems! With determination and belief.

**yeecks** · 24-04-2008, 03:30 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by sihwee
	most guys are liike tad one. think guys are the types that cant control themselves better. if some sexy hot babe temp them den they will probably forget abt their comittments.

i disagreed, lolxxx