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Old 25-12-2007, 06:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
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well well...

i dun understand y men r so undecisive? y cun they make up their mind wat they wan?

there's this guy where i know him quite sometimes alreadi. he fell for me even b4 he gt to know his wife but yet he still go ahead with the marriage and den after tat y still tell me that he still got feelings towards me (within a year of his marriage)?

and yet showing so much care and concern and even bought me a ring!

since he married his wife, which this means he loves his wife more then me. but if since he loves his wife so much den why still feels for me? why still tell me and even falls deeper for me now?
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Old 25-12-2007, 07:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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lolz..he wan 2timer...bad guy
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Old 25-12-2007, 09:25 PM   #3 (permalink)
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actually, guys are also complicated creatures.....
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Old 25-12-2007, 10:27 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 25-12-2007, 11:40 PM   #5 (permalink)
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lolz..he wan 2timer...bad guy

if he's only want to be two timer, den why is he gettin himself soo involve in this?
if this is just another fling of affair, he do not have to go to the extent of offering to
met me every now and then.

i have no doubts against his feelings towards me but it is confusing.
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Old 25-12-2007, 11:45 PM   #6 (permalink)
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gian soong la... maybe he like lian ai de gan jue ma ... fun and exciting. hee hee
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Old 25-12-2007, 11:51 PM   #7 (permalink)
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the things u haf is foreva not the things u wan.

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Old 25-12-2007, 11:54 PM   #8 (permalink)
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gian soong la... maybe he like lian ai de gan jue ma ... fun and exciting. hee hee
gian soong???
not exactly, he's not high sex drive.


lian ai de gan jue???
i don't know, perhaps. he's the only guy that i trust - i mean before i come to know about his feelings. but now, it makes me wonder how astray can a guy be even he's so much in love with his wife.

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Old 26-12-2007, 12:13 AM   #9 (permalink)
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gian soong???
not exactly, he's not high sex drive.


lian ai de gan jue???
i don't know, perhaps. he's the only guy that i trust - i mean before i come to know about his feelings. but now, it makes me wonder how astray can a guy be even he's so much in love with his wife.
any guy that 2 time is not a good guy. if he is really that good, y cheat his wife. divorce and come to u la... he just like gian soong.
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Old 26-12-2007, 12:30 AM   #10 (permalink)
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i think just ignore him ba...as a guy and married, he had to be responsible for his action and as a husband...i dun think he is sincere at all and maybe just "playing" ba...well basically up to you to judge wat kinda if person he is.... just an humble opinion

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Old 26-12-2007, 12:31 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Girl, cheat his money and make him go bankupty, oh i am so bad boi^^
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Old 26-12-2007, 01:33 AM   #12 (permalink)
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actually, guys are also complicated creatures.....
agree... even i dunno how to make the correct and right decisions..((:

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Old 26-12-2007, 02:48 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Not every men are indecisive. If you don't want to have miserable life, left him as soon as possible.
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Old 26-12-2007, 04:28 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I think the thread title should be "Why is he like that?"


I personally don't think that men are indecisive, maybe is just him. Men are not really indecisive, sometimes, we are just too lazy or do not want to make a simple decision, i.e: where to eat, where to go. But for this scenario, I would say is the man himself.


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Old 26-12-2007, 12:35 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Don't fall for his trick! Since he married his wife, it means that he is committed towards her already. He just wants to have a fling with you. It's like keeping a spare tyre. If his wife is angry with him, he will go to you. Don't be a spare tyre!
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Old 26-12-2007, 01:34 PM   #16 (permalink)
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maybe he wans to keep a spare juz in case his wife is not ard?

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Old 26-12-2007, 02:07 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Hmm. Everyone is jumping to conclusions XD (which may be correct).
He may like you for real, but being married, he shouldn't be doing all these extra stuff. Have a nice long chat with him about it if possible.

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Old 26-12-2007, 09:56 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Any guy who wants to play around outside of marriage will do anything and be anyone the girl wants him to be. In this situation, men can be really good actors. They will say anything to make the girl believe that he loves her.

Sometimes, to be frank, even the men may mistake their own feelings. Instead of making a strong effort at making his marriage work, he will take the easy way out. He'll look for someone he can "share" his feelings with. This is just a form of escape. Instead of working hard at opening up channels of communication with his wife, he is just taking the easy way out of talking to the next available girl who will believe him.

Some will look for the karaoke girls who will do whatever he wants for money. In your case, he just looks for the ex-love who is willing to be his kaki whenever he wants a listening ear.

So make your decision and don't spoil someone's marriage. Take care.
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Old 26-12-2007, 10:39 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Girl, cheat his money and make him go bankupty, oh i am so bad boi^^
i do not have to go and cheat his money, he's very willing to buy things i want even though i did not ask him to....
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Old 26-12-2007, 10:44 PM   #20 (permalink)
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hi gal..cool it..just ignore him will do if it for his own good and also dun wanna spolt their relationshio since he is married...well unless you gonna ask your self..u still like him...lolz

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