Black_Beauty

I can't get to sleep because I have not said my piece yet. I cannot understand why he must treat me so bad. Did he not love me when he married me? I just do not understand why does he treat me like his enemy. Am I that detestable?

He claims that I am always in the wrong but does not admit it. He claims that I never listens to him. He feels he is always right. Maybe it was my fault that made him felt that way. I have never pointed out what he does wrong and tries not to get angry. I am a very easy going person and do not get angry easily and thus forgets easily which probably made him thought that he has never done anything wrong. On the contrary, he picks a fight at very chance he can get and points out every little thing he thinks I have done wrong.

Why does he marry me when he hates me so much?

Voodoo Vince

Maybe you need to sit down and talk.

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MelvinLee

i think you two communication got problem, and not fit to be together, i think should get a divorce better, that the better way to solve the problem, or else it will get worst

I made a terrible mistake That I can't take back.Now when I close my eyes, All I see is black.Whoever thought,That this would happen to me I'm not chained physically,But mentally,I'll never be the same,Never again.I deeply regret ,what I did.The mistake I can't take back.I regret it deeply, I just have one plea....God please forgive me.

Cherubic

marriage is owaz lyk tt. My parents owaz scoldin each other despite their loving pictures hangin on e wall.

delight

divorcing is not a solution unless there is abuse or infidelity. It is smth losers do. to run away from problems, hide and avoid. am sure the thread starter wld not be here asking for solution if she one.

I guess you must first make him feel less defensive. once he feels that way he will be more receptive. maybe you can talk to him and say sorry. you know you could have handled some things in better ways. let him know you will try. let him know you really love him etc. after that once he is less defensive then can raise the other issues with him.

most imptly is to let him know any confrontation is only because u care and want things to be better.

i am sure he doesnt hate you. its just tiredness and everything else makes him forget to treat u niely. i guess it happens over time when ppl start to take each other for granted.

shingshing

Think problems realli come in when 2 persons stay together. Perhaps you want to sit down and talk to him. Even if you're a tolerant person, you can't be the only one tolerating and giving in to him for the rest of your life. Guys will never appreciate tolerant woman. Only take it for granted.

Or perhaps both of u need some time to cool down. Probably u can stay at your parents' house a few days and see how things go. I noticed daughters always end up going back to parents' house after marriage..

Hopefully things will sort out for you. Cheers.

Javier

please, if u dont know how to advise pls dont bother.

where got people encourage divorce?

jus talk it out.. maybe the husband is facing alot of stress in work.. i believe theres a reason for his moodswings..

MelvinLee

Divorce not really a bad way, if her husband can't take good care of her, and alway like quarrelling, how to live like that, As outside have lot of good guys to choose, if really can't stay on might well divorce, then find a better man to marry lor, that is one of the very GOOD advice

I made a terrible mistake That I can't take back.Now when I close my eyes, All I see is black.Whoever thought,That this would happen to me I'm not chained physically,But mentally,I'll never be the same,Never again.I deeply regret ,what I did.The mistake I can't take back.I regret it deeply, I just have one plea....God please forgive me.

Ican

Got to be firm and know your options. Sometimes, people don't realize how hurt you are until you tell them...in a nice way. I realize the art of communication is....communicate.....without doing that, you will never know what is going on inside his head....guess what, I believe you are just guessing whether he really hates you...Guesses don't make it real...it juz make you wonder...

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communicate with a calm head

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trino

If you really had nothing better to say, please kindly, Shut up.
I dun think people need this kind of your advice.

People are trying their best to find out the problem, comforting, trying to make it better.
And you are here to say this kind of nonsense.

To TS,
Every house had its stories to tell.
Maybe you should try and sit down with your husband, talk to each other nicely,communicate. Find out what the problem is about?

Is it about character? Temper?
Did you guys know each other for long before getting married?
These are really some factors. Find out before doing any decision. All the best to you TS.

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MelvinLee

Divorce i think is the best way, what wrong with it?? if alway like have to look at husband face and have to see his temper alway, this is also very torturing , how to live with this type of life, maybe she can try to talk to her husband about her feeling, but human heart is hard to change, that is alway less other ways, the best way is to divorce or maybe see a doctor

I made a terrible mistake That I can't take back.Now when I close my eyes, All I see is black.Whoever thought,That this would happen to me I'm not chained physically,But mentally,I'll never be the same,Never again.I deeply regret ,what I did.The mistake I can't take back.I regret it deeply, I just have one plea....God please forgive me.

Sonic Bear

hahaha......that is so typical of u lor..always trying to suggest the easy way out.....hahaha

think next time u also will divorce every time things does not work out for u and yr wife or gf !!!
But i think u will not get married one la, coz u are so impotent le. nvr think of sex one.........

hmmm....next time go temple and visit u ba...

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