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Why gals usually give constructive advise while guys usually give crap advise?

Why is it that, IN GENERAL, gals usually give constructive advise while guys usually give crap advise?

Let's say you post a topic "How to study?"

Most of the time guys would post useless advise like "burn your notes and drink the ashes"

While gals would usually give good useful constructive advise

Come share your views!

Those who are skilled in combat do not become angered, those who are skilled at winning do not become afraid.
Thus the wise win before the fight, while the ignorant fight to win ~~~ Zhuge Liang

wcong

ohwells. i think that gotta do with personality?

for me, if the topic is on how to study,
it'll be taking important notes downs to get myself to memorise.. (:

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elf

is it because gals are more serious while guys like to be more humourous? hahaha. actually it all depends on who u ask. ive crappy girlfriends too

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shingshing

Eh, I've read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and it says women are creatures that love to share and give advices/suggestions to each other, even tho deep down they knew what actions they're going to take but when they share, its more like pouring out their feelings to feel better dats all. Whereas for men, they rarely give advice coz they are not such creatures. When it comes to problem solving, they prefer to solve it themselves den to ask around for help.

noti.

yup I've read that book before! Very meaningful and really gives an insight to the opposite sex. Men hardly open up and ask for advice from other parties - be it guys or girls. Hence when they do, most of their male counterparts take it as a joke perhaps.

Also, I feel girls are more mature-thinking and tend to take things seriously especially if you're asking for proper advices. Guys tend to be a little more playful, more the "talk cock" attitude. Then again, it varies with individuals... some guys could just be as serious when it comes to advising.

Situations matter as well - It depends on how you actually phrase your request for an advice - if you ask it playfully or teasingly you'll get a stupid reply, if you're genuine about it, you'll get a serious response. If it's online, it's even harder to tell if one is sincere about asking for advice.

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id_peace

We do only give stupid answer when there is stupid question ask. Girls are more willing to give the benefit of doubt and advice accordingly.

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sgalextoh

It's up to individual on how they look at the comment. In your case of burning the book and drink it, you might feel that it's crap when you are in the serious mood. But take another point of view. It's just a joke. Everyone has their own way of looking at comments or things. Some might be common but still got people might differ. So it's not really true that guys always give crappy advice while gals give constructive advice.

a|ex

to me not every1 do that

its jus a different defintion of "constructive advice"

if the advice doesnt help..u then....u consider it as crap

n when it does...u call it constructive?

RED.ADEN

Because guys are more anyhow while girls are not.

Example, a sexy girl ask "have sex?"
Guys : Ok
A handsome guy ask "have sex?"
Girls : No


Understand?!
But of course, this example only pointing to certain girls and guys, not all.

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tingz

cos we gals are more helpful? hahax. but i will usually also give crappy advice lar..

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micxiao

girls help ppl.
guys help girls.
that's how things work.

jencrs

What the....? You mean that doesn't work?

teriyaki