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Old 21-04-2007, 04:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

Just curious whether most couples nOwadays quarrel anot.
For me, my bf very gd de, we NV quarrel b4 coz he always give to me, Haha.. even thOugh sOme times im abit Unreasonable. :lonely:

last time becOz always quarrel with my ex, he dun give In, neither i would give In to him, After a long period of time = CMI (cant make it) de relationship.

So plz share. whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often Or....? If no bf/gf, Can share whether You would give in to Your partner when quarreling anot?

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Old 21-04-2007, 08:43 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

hehe me n my bf never really quarrel before lahz.. we do have small disagreements here n there, but usually either one of us will give in lorz..


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Old 21-04-2007, 11:23 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

which would anyone prefer? quarrel everytime? or silent all the time?

i believe the 2 extremes does not help much in r/s. quarrel sometimes would be ok, but throwing tantrums ard or arguing over small matters will tend to strain the r/s in the long term.

for me, it depends on my gf... if she ok, i oso ok one haha

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Old 21-04-2007, 03:35 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

Well I dun quarrel with my gf all these years although she got a bad temper but she dun throw it on me. We also seldom have any disagreements too so no need each other to give in so oftentoo.
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Old 21-04-2007, 09:19 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

It's good to have that bit of tension and discord in the relationship - that is what pushes both parties to try and make things work for his/her partner.

However, a relationship with no arguments or too many arguments is not good too.

No disagreement = not good? Actually it really depends on the situation. Personally I don't think that guys should always give in to girls, ESPECIALLY if she's in the wrong. Too much and the girl MAY take it for granted.

However, I believe that guys should always take the initiative to mend things after a quarrel. That is different from giving in.

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Old 22-04-2007, 03:39 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 22-04-2007, 01:08 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

ii used to quarrel very often with my current bf. i'm always throwing temper because of the way he does things, yet he doesnt know he is at fault.
one night i woke up and decided to talk things out instead of plainly throwing temper coz he doesnt even know he got on my nerves!

since then, we never reali quarrel le. occasionally each will agrue or say something to gain that extra attention, sometimes PRONE-TO-BE quarrels will end up in physical PLAYIN-kind-of-fights [box la, kick la.]before we reali get angry. we try to be happi lah, both must know their limits, rest of the time we live in harmony, still wif the physical fights though. LOL.

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Old 22-04-2007, 01:51 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

erms.. everytime me and my gf quarrel, we patch up very fast de.. =D


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Old 22-04-2007, 03:32 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

when i with my ex.. we quarrel alot.. break n patch alot.. then after abt 2yrs, we start to quarrel lesser.. My first love with my ex was really tough.

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Old 22-04-2007, 04:54 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

sometimes quarrel oso can bring e relationship even closer but depends loh

for mi....no idea...cos gt no bf...hehe


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Default Re: whether You and ur gf/bf quarrel often or...?

we owaes quarrel..
his temper very bad.
owaes i give in de lors.


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Old 23-04-2007, 02:19 AM   #12 (permalink)
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ii used to quarrel very often with my current bf. i'm always throwing temper because of the way he does things, yet he doesnt know he is at fault.
one night i woke up and decided to talk things out instead of plainly throwing temper coz he doesnt even know he got on my nerves!

since then, we never reali quarrel le. occasionally each will agrue or say something to gain that extra attention, sometimes PRONE-TO-BE quarrels will end up in physical PLAYIN-kind-of-fights [box la, kick la.]before we reali get angry. we try to be happi lah, both must know their limits, rest of the time we live in harmony, still wif the physical fights though. LOL.
Lol. Physical fIghts ar. mIne oso gt fIght, bUt more Of i punch hIm nia. Haha

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