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Old 24-05-2008, 07:26 PM   #101 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

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Well, I believe its wrong to classify categorise guys and girls. There are rich guys who treat their gf good. There are also rich guys who treat their gf like dirt. On the other hand there are also poor guys who treat their gf like queen, and likewise... there are also some who treat their gf like dirt. Same goes to girls as well... some love their bf for the way they treat them (eg. knowing how to be there when she needs u... offer her advice... hug her when she cries etc) and there are also some who loves the guy for his wallet. It depends on situation... but whatever it is... most important is to be happy in a relationship. BE HAPPY!!
Yup, you're right, there are many kinds of people, and many outcomes from the union of 2 people. Can't really categorise, I think. While some girls may prefer their guys to be able to at least support both of them (don't have to be rich), I'm of the doctrine whereby the guy must just be able to feed himself.

I am the type who tends to date guys with potential, rather than already-successful / already-rich guys. Somehow it's more worthwhile for the relationship, when it has to go through some form of struggle, and if the girl struggles with the guy, and eventually they succeed, the relationship will be stronger. I guess?

This is like what people say, "be the woman behind a man's success"...
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Old 24-05-2008, 07:33 PM   #102 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

Wonders whether rich or poor got affect whether the guy will love you more or less one meh ?

Maybe its just the different lifestyle and upbringing ?

Richer people be more ego and decides to play more cool?
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Poorer people try to make the occasion as best he could with the amount he has to work for
so thus becoming more touching?

Blahx though i can see a little connection but it really looks like stereotype lor =) Everything
can work out with a bit of communication and a good memory =)
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Old 25-05-2008, 01:25 AM   #103 (permalink)
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I'll stick with my guy through thick and thin.. =]
Money's hard to come by.. But a guy that works hard to keep us both alive is even harder to find..
Good attitude! Whoever marry you really blissful. Keep it up!


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Old 28-05-2008, 06:12 PM   #104 (permalink)
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Here is something true.. AND ITS TRUE.
if ur BF is rich and wants to show off about it. he had done many bad things(like bullying?)
if ur BF is poor but has education. he studies hard and has not done bad things.
if ur BF is good looking. wants to be even more good looking to attract girls.
if ur BF is not good looking. he just keeps on caring about you and nothing else.

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Old 28-05-2008, 08:00 PM   #105 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

seriously,
i would rather go for the poor bf who loves me.

to me,
money doesn't make the world goes round.

i rather be happy, than to live in agony with lots of money.


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Old 28-05-2008, 08:15 PM   #106 (permalink)
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Here is something true.. AND ITS TRUE.
if ur BF is rich and wants to show off about it. he had done many bad things(like bullying?)
if ur BF is poor but has education. he studies hard and has not done bad things.
if ur BF is good looking. wants to be even more good looking to attract girls.
if ur BF is not good looking. he just keeps on caring about you and nothing else.
dunnid to guess that you have education, n u r BUANG

but seriously, the views that the girls reflect, absolutely not like most sg girls...
or maybe all the girls with these views all at home using sgclub.com so outside cannot find
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Old 28-05-2008, 09:10 PM   #107 (permalink)
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I think going out with a poor bf is ... I just don't like
Its like ... we must think of cheap places to eat although I have the money
Then go out also cannot go anywhere because he has no money
so truthful.....

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When a Ger earns more thn a Guy... she will look down on the man she's with and ~ she will difinitely not say gd stuff abt him... so... relationship fails~
even more so
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Old 28-05-2008, 09:12 PM   #108 (permalink)
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He can be poor but he has to be witty and intelligent so that we won't starve.
Haha.

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Old 28-05-2008, 09:36 PM   #109 (permalink)
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in the end, still about money

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Old 28-05-2008, 09:40 PM   #110 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

actually does it really matter 1 is loaded or another is not? just go with ur heart and believe in urself. And when get hurts.... just take it as an experience. thats what the whole thing is abt i guess..
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Old 28-05-2008, 09:51 PM   #111 (permalink)
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it is the sad truth, most guys go for gals with looks
most gals go for guys with money

still talk about heart like an old romantic?
aiyo....

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Old 29-05-2008, 02:16 PM   #112 (permalink)
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I was with my ex gf for more than 2 yrs... all those while i had always wanted to meet her mum... i was a student back then btw,.... she always rejected the idea... until she left me for an RSAF pilot... within 2 weeks of them getting together... they already went to bintan together... and he met her mum after 1 month... makes me wonder sometimes
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Old 29-05-2008, 02:18 PM   #113 (permalink)
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I was with my ex gf for more than 2 yrs... all those while i had always wanted to meet her mum... i was a student back then btw,.... she always rejected the idea... until she left me for an RSAF pilot... within 2 weeks of them getting together... they already went to bintan together... and he met her mum after 1 month... makes me wonder sometimes
Awww! Thats dam sad lo.
Sorry le bro.
Some girls are like that de.

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Old 29-05-2008, 02:20 PM   #114 (permalink)
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I was with my ex gf for more than 2 yrs... all those while i had always wanted to meet her mum... i was a student back then btw,.... she always rejected the idea... until she left me for an RSAF pilot... within 2 weeks of them getting together... they already went to bintan together... and he met her mum after 1 month... makes me wonder sometimes

face the fact, you are poor, he is rich....

when you are richer than him, you can have her back

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Old 29-05-2008, 02:23 PM   #115 (permalink)
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so the only thing that materialise dreams is none than money?