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Old 17-05-2008, 12:02 AM   #76 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

loving someone should not have anything to do with money. when u love a person u wouldent care about these materialistic stuff
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Old 17-05-2008, 01:36 AM   #77 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

guess its down to basically either one would love for money, or one would love for love.

in terms of situation where you have a poor bf, instead of soughting out places that are expensive to go, seek things that both can enjoy yet doesnt waste too much, like a stroll on a beach. then obviously get ur bf to save, so one day you guys can enjoy something more affordable like a candle light dinner.

rich bf? comes with car, money, basically anything u want you literally can have it. but comes down to love, if he is doing it cause he love you. well i believe those who are rich must also experience how to be poor @ times also, least can understand more haha.

just my 2 cents.
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Old 17-05-2008, 01:42 AM   #78 (permalink)
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but what make mi so touch is dat poor bf give with what ever little dat they hav
I see, by saying poor bf give with whatever "little" they have, are you saying rich bf has more to give? So rich bf can give more if he choose to, he can give whatever he has as well.. and a part of that is lots of money.

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Old 17-05-2008, 01:48 AM   #79 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

2 cents 3 cents

in the end
girls love money
if this girl is considering going with the rich guy and no love, this kind of girl is not in real love with anyone
YOU DONT DESERVE ANY OF THE GUYS!

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Old 17-05-2008, 10:51 AM   #80 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

Ai Ya....
Care about love or no love for what..
In the cruel world you are the KING/QUEEN when you have cash in your hand.
So got loaded BF but dont really love you so what, can suck how much $$, then suck lah.

Its not everyday I get to have a loaded GF, so whenever I got the chance I will sure make use one.....

Then poor chap can buy you Prada, LV, Gucci, or whatever super high class things mah??

Got love also a bit no use mah, can you imagine if you really stick to the a poor chap who loves you. And when you got married, the house you live in is a one room flat, only got one small TV and table in the living room, no sofa, kitchen got nothing but a small rusty fridge. Bedroom no fan, no aircon only got a torn and tatter mattress.

Whats worse is that you got 4 to 5 kids need to feed, but your husband become so useless only know how to drink beer everyday....

So remember love cannot buy you food, only $$ can
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Old 17-05-2008, 11:17 AM   #81 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

rich or not rich isn't permanent. I'd seen ppl marrying rich ppl but when business fails, they're back to square one & marriage was on the rock.

Rich may become poor, poor may become rich. If you remove the delusion, you shall find happiness.


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Old 17-05-2008, 11:23 AM   #82 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

Let's be realistic, no matter how much you love someone, money WILL be involved somehow.
The romantic dinners you bring her out to, the nice gifts you give her, the way you care for her by picking her after work with your car...

I'm not saying you have to be rich, but you definitely have to have a decent amount of money.
Work hard and earn more money. Being poor does not give you an excuse to remain poor. I'm sure if you are ambitious and hardworking, girls will like you as well. Just don't be a loser and think it's fate that you're poor.

That and if you're a girl and you wan o start a family, you think you want to find a poor husband meh?
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Old 17-05-2008, 11:28 AM   #83 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

I think otherwise leh...
Hate it when my very poor bf's mother ask me for $50, because her son waste too many sms on me. I refused to pay her then end up in breakup.
Rich bf is better, at least can let me feel some love (fake love also nevermind)
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Old 17-05-2008, 01:27 PM   #84 (permalink)
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I like lady who like to doll up herself...more womanly...honestly i cannot help spending on her as long as i can afford.Of course i will love myself more before i can do that thus I won't allow myself to fall into poor category.This is my motivation in life.It keeps me going !!! ^ ^

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Old 21-05-2008, 12:02 PM   #85 (permalink)
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When a Ger earns more thn a Guy... she will look down on the man she's with and ~ she will difinitely not say gd stuff abt him... so... relationship fails~
Even when the girl doesn't mind the fact that she earns more than the guys.. the guys will feel v small and minute I guess? And whenever she gets him expensive gifts, he'll feel like he's useless -.-"
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Old 21-05-2008, 12:04 PM   #86 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

last time ppl lives in the caves where got $$ these kindda stuff.

but true also, no $$ no love.
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Old 21-05-2008, 04:31 PM   #87 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

its true la
can u eat love?
please lor be practical also
a girl wont want to be with a guy and suffer forever
not worth it
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Old 21-05-2008, 05:37 PM   #88 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

cus..loaded bf think that you will like his money or he think that he can get any girls he want with money. While poor b/f will treasure things that are important to them or thinks that..money is nothing and could be earn if you got a job xD
Though it's unfortunate to say..most of the girls would want a loaded bf =(

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Old 21-05-2008, 06:10 PM   #89 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

yea. most girls..nth much we can do bout that...


Love means nothing when its comes out from your mouth..

But it means everything when its comes from the heart..

Dont fall in love..
Walk thru it..

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Old 21-05-2008, 08:57 PM   #90 (permalink)
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Default Re: Well to do bf VS poor bf

money has nothing to do with who is better.

i believe its mutual acceptance of each other. u gotta accept ur partner for who they are. if u are bothered abt something like money. something is wrong.
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Old 21-05-2008, 09:06 PM   #91 (permalink)
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cus..loaded bf think that you will like his money or he think that he can get any girls he want with money. While poor b/f will treasure things that are important to them or thinks that..money is nothing and could be earn if you got a job xD
Though it's unfortunate to say..most of the girls would want a loaded bf =(
agree. but i think poor ones will strive for $ for their gf.
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Old 21-05-2008, 11:51 PM   #92 (permalink)
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