what are your turn ons/offs? - Singapore's Online Community

**n_height** · 13-11-2006, 02:37 PM

*Disclaimer*
please read on ONLY if you feel comfortable with both the turn ons and turn offs. if you feel in any way that the comments are offensive, please refrain from replying and just leave the thread. thank you. =)

so what turns you on or off about the opposite sex? [can be same sex or both too, depending on your sexual orientation larr]

well for me...

TURN ONs
* is my age
* is around my height
* doesn't question my beliefs and opinions or try to change them

TURN OFFs
* litters
* talks too much
* asks too many questions
* bullies
* likes to lepak
* has rebonded hair
* heavy smoker/drinker
* is a beng or mat

**angelica** · 13-11-2006, 02:54 PM

TURN ONs
* older then me at least by 3 yrs
* 1.75 and above
* english speaking
* nice dressing sense
* hardworking
* thin lips

TURN OFFs
* ill mannered
* too vulgar
* flirts
* love to sweet talk
* smoker

**hina** · 13-11-2006, 03:14 PM

turns on
mature
humourous
able to understand me
able to keep me to see my preceptive in view
a nice smile. dimples is a bonus.
strong hands - that indicates strength
nice styled hair.

turns off
every single word of his accompanied by a swear word -.-
smokers.
flirts
mind-fxxkers.
shorter than me

**BlackBlackCat** · 13-11-2006, 03:15 PM

Turns-On
- Tall
- Nice chest muscles
- Intelligent
- Confidence
- Gentlemanly
- Slightly MCP, but not overly of course
- Neat, overall appearance
- Thin lips (same as angelica!

Thin lips are sexy)

Turn-Offs
- Skinny guys
- Longish hair
- Smokers/clubbers
- Awful manners
- Talk crudely
- Act smart but isn't
- Gu niangs
- Too hairy
- Big eyes (very intimidating to me

)

**porcelaindoll** · 13-11-2006, 03:29 PM

Turns-On
*Patience, kind, mild-tempered & sweet
*Taller than me even though I have heels on
*Intelligent
*Manly

Turn-Offs
*Chao ah bengs
*spoilt brat
*bad temperedness
*not outgoing enough

**angelica** · 13-11-2006, 04:56 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by BlackBlackCat
	Turns-On - Tall - Nice chest muscles - Intelligent - Confidence - Gentlemanly - Slightly MCP, but not overly of course - Neat, overall appearance - Thin lips (same as angelica! Thin lips are sexy) Turn-Offs - Skinny guys - Longish hair - Smokers/clubbers - Awful manners - Talk crudely - Act smart but isn't - Gu niangs - Too hairy - Big eyes (very intimidating to me )

we've almost got the same taste.

thin lips are way too hot to handle. hahaha :love4:

**BlackBlackCat** · 13-11-2006, 05:11 PM

Guys with thin lips are usually very chatty too, and very charming. You just feel like overpowering those lips with your own. Yum. :love4:

**angelica** · 13-11-2006, 05:23 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by BlackBlackCat
	Guys with thin lips are usually very chatty too, and very charming. You just feel like overpowering those lips with your own. Yum. :love4:

yes yes,
when they're talking my main focus will be mostly on their lips..
AWWWW..:love4:

Sheng4Eva · 13-11-2006, 05:29 PM

hmmm ... something i wanna mention regarding this thread... why not we just post out Turns-On list will do ? Or else people will get hurt and dare not to be friend with you if they are listed under ur Turns-Off list when they saw the Turns-Off list ...

**BlackBlackCat** · 13-11-2006, 05:50 PM

I disagree. This way, guys will know what kind of guys girls prefer what.

And people with turn-offs mentioned, usually won't be friends with them also... It's like, I rather don't befriend someone who has awful manners and act smart buay smart. Won't bother.

Some I won't mind lah, I still have smoker/clubbing friends, friends who are skinny, friends who have over-developed hormones resulting in being very very hairy (not like it's their fault mah)... but I wouldn't want one as my bf, know what I mean?

I simply cannot hug skinny guys... feel like hugging tree. :devil2: I like got bak one, lol.

Sheng4Eva · 13-11-2006, 05:59 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by BlackBlackCat
	I disagree. This way, guys will know what kind of guys girls prefer what. And people with turn-offs mentioned, usually won't be friends with them also... It's like, I rather don't befriend someone who has awful manners and act smart buay smart. Won't bother. Some I won't mind lah, I still have smoker/clubbing friends, friends who are skinny, friends who have over-developed hormones resulting in being very very hairy (not like it's their fault mah)... but I wouldn't want one as my bf, know what I mean? I simply cannot hug skinny guys... feel like hugging tree. :devil2: I like got bak one, lol.

quite contradicting with ur words ....
'turn-offs mentioned, usually won't be friends with them also '
'I still have smoker/clubbing friends, friends who are skinny, friends who have over-developed hormones resulting in being very very hairy'

yeap ... this is what i trying to say also ... eg. smokers in ur turn-off list u dont wish to befriend with ... and that person will feel bad just because u will turn-off when see smokers ... anyway ... im not a smoker ... haha

**BlackBlackCat** · 13-11-2006, 06:03 PM

I said "usually". Haha.

I try not to make smoker friends though, because I'm allergic to smoke. >_< Will fall sick. So either of us must siam with he/she smoke, and it's very ba huan, haha.

Nothing against the character.

Maybe I never phrase my sentences that clearly also. o_O

Turn-off for being bf. Not necessarily for friend. Depends lah.

Sheng4Eva · 13-11-2006, 06:07 PM

but its kinda bad to even say ... you are my friend ... but u make me turned-off ... his/her friend will feel sad ...

**patrina** · 13-11-2006, 06:12 PM

Turn Ons

-nice personality

then i dont know already =x lols