princealex

After my last relationship 3 yr ago i decided not to step into a relationship till now, in these time i felt really depressed and lonely :cry3: . . . my pass relationship is due to my ex betrayed me and 2 timed me. Right now i wish to get into another relationship, anyone can give me advice on how to get into a stable and loving relationship?thks

Bel1987

hmhm at least rite nw u have someone jio u lei.. maYbe u can try it oUt can't be u keep sinGle for life rite? nt all guys are zo bad like ur ex.. Me azo abt the same as u different is bo ppl jio la.. but 3 years is veri long healing peri0d le.. hmhm.. best wishes ^6

princealex

:runnynose: hmm btw i'm a guy here, and there no ppl jioing me now is just that i wanna find a ger to start a stable and loving relationship but its like diffcult to me right now

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KaLeen

learn to forgive and forget abt ur past relationship,go for a new life mayb u will feel better loh

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princealex

for the past 3 yr i've been trying to put down and try to forgive them(both are my friend) but i just can't forget the feeling of being betrayed and being cheated on by my friend :handsup:

' ģuāřđīāή Aήģέl fřŏzέή přīήcέāĽέx ' Lv`Sa 爱本来就该独一无二 我开始后悔,也开始心碎
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KaLeen

aiya,if u continue like tis even u hav a new relationship u oso would'nt be happy de,cos u kept thinking abt them.

think abt ur future,u still want to keep hating them,mayb ur nex gf is ur true loves one?

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funnysnow

You cannot rush a relationship, the more you rush to get one, that one is not the right one. Just wait for the suitable to appear. Let nature take course. Make more friends.

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princealex

yea i know that but how to forget it, its been 3 yr i've been trying to forget about the incident..any idea how to solve it?

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funnysnow

you mean you cant get over your past relationship? Maybe you should open your eye and ear more.. Listen about people, there are good and bad, you are not the worst. Maybe that will make you feel better.

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ah_lei

u need ur friends and buddies. =)






Love was when you touched me
Love is how I knew
Love is what it felt like
when I danced with you.

Love is unpredictable
Love is always there
Love is all I think about
It doesn't matter where.

Love was oh so hurtful
Love could always stop the pain
Love was you who broke me down
and my friends who helped me up again

Love is very special
Love is really there
Love is who you think about
it is all the ones who care

Love is for the doubtful
Love is in every inch of land
Love is for the unforgivable
and anyone who knows they can.

what's over, its over.

simplepris

just 看开一点 bah..

being hurt by this ger doesnt mean ur next ger will also hurt u.

besides, many many ppl have been hurt in love before.. like for me.. i've been hurt by my ex-bfs before.. and i dare to say, SO WAT? life goes on. no big deal. i was sad. but i can get over it eventually. besides, my ex-bfs have already hurt my feelings before.. am i going to sabotage my next relationships cos of them..? NO WAY!

be bold, dun be scared! move on!

my current bf also cheated on me before. in fact, more than once. so wat?

he was truly sorry. so i gave him another chance. he really changed a lot for the better.. it's been 2 yrs.. he nv cheat on me le.

actually.. if u think abt it.. ur ex was still quite young when she cheated on u.. she was immature bah.. and probably din foresee the consequences of her actions.. maybe she's sorry abt it? maybe she's remorseful? maybe she regretted?

release urself bah.. jia you!

maybe it's not easy for u.. so let time heal u.. dun be in a hurry to forget the incident. besides, if u keep reminding urself, "forget my ex, forget my ex".. ur brain will only remind the key words.. which is "my ex, my ex"..

just live life as usual.. know more frens.. (for me, i think frens help to distract me away from my worries).. when ur memories of her has faded, so will the heartache..

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simplepris

actually y do u get into a relationship? cos u love a ger and want to be with her.. rite? and not simply cos u want to have a gf.

i find the lyrics of 决定爱你 (by 徐若瑄) very meaningful.. (note: this is not the full lyrics.. i picked out the parts that i think may be more meaningful for u.. hope they can encourage u!)

"爱情并不是生活里全部的事情
只要此时此刻我们爱得很用心
就足够我一辈子去回忆"

"付出去的感情就算都没有回应
可以碰到你已经觉得非常幸运"

"失败做错了也没什么关系
换个发型或是唱唱歌发泄情绪
不要浪费时间一直躲在后悔里"

"决定要谈的爱情不要随便就放弃
幸福全部要靠自己去努力争取"

"有天我一定会等到生命里那位英雄
有天我一定会找到被我的爱感动的人耶~!"

"喜欢赖在你身旁 看你说话的模样
就算我们不能地久天长
喜欢为了你而忙 看你开心的模样
就算没有我想要的答案"

of coz, at times i'd also feel insecure and wonder if my bf will cheat on me again. though i dun intend to give him another chance if he does that again.. but still, in the meanwhile, i've decided to treasure him while he's still mine.. so that even when we have to be separated, i know i've done all i can already.. no regrets. *smiles*

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snoozy

I would suggest you go out with frens more.. spend ur time on some other things, then you wouldnt feel so lonely. I dont advise you to step into a r/s so fast.. dont get into a r/s jus becos you wan someone to be beside you. YOu sure that you already get over the previous r/s? If not it kinda unfair to the present one. Try to sort out the feeling first ..

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