.Top five signs you're about to get dumped.

**uyen** · 15-06-2007, 10:38 PM

Top five signs you're about to get dumped

1. Picking fights. No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.

2. Forgetting to call. Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date.

3. Changing their stripes. A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off their hair, lost 40 pounds or gone from a bold brunette to a sultry blonde, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.

4. Criticizing. If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered.

5. Losing sexual interest. A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss.

Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup.

If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance.

All the best to everyone . ^^

**fuyumi** · 15-06-2007, 11:15 PM

I think #3 is one of the major signs.

**genzo2106** · 16-06-2007, 12:48 AM

i think #4 is a very common way to hint that you are going to get dumped

**Tristanity** · 16-06-2007, 01:19 AM

All are true to a certain extent. For example, #1 occur even when the couple love each other very deeply just that they quarrel due to their temper or maybe for the length of time they have been together.

**Shyraiiyann** · 16-06-2007, 01:52 AM

Heng no signs showing.

if not i sure take knife. :devil2:

sky5triker · 16-06-2007, 01:57 AM

#2 is promising to breaking up...

**Tristanity** · 16-06-2007, 01:58 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Shyraiiyann
	Heng no signs showing. if not i sure take knife. :devil2:

... a love for a life...?? haha

if all these signs start to show up, its time for us to think about how to rectify this issue.

:biggrin4:

**SledgeHammer** · 16-06-2007, 03:26 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by uyen
	Top five signs you're about to get dumped 1. Picking fights. No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail. 2. Forgetting to call. Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date. 3. Changing their stripes. A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off their hair, lost 40 pounds or gone from a bold brunette to a sultry blonde, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo. 4. Criticizing. If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered. 5. Losing sexual interest. A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss. Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup. If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance. All the best to everyone . ^^

how true...and yet and the same time not true. i guess it applies to individuals. but the signs of breakups are quite obvious. like no more sex....:speechless:

**huishan** · 16-06-2007, 03:47 AM

i agree with number #3 .

**kkboy1** · 16-06-2007, 09:34 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Shyraiiyann
	Heng no signs showing. if not i sure take knife. :devil2:

Wahaha...:devil2:

15-06-2007, 10:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
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15-06-2007, 11:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
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Tristanity Envy No Man On Earth Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,393 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: SAFTI MI SGC$: 605.15 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 605.15	Re: .Top five signs you're about to get dumped. All are true to a certain extent. For example, #1 occur even when the couple love each other very deeply just that they quarrel due to their temper or maybe for the length of time they have been together. relentless pursuit for perfection; thats taking a toil in my health. Somebody said they saw you, the person you were kissing wasn't me. And i will never ask you; I just kept it to myself. I dont wanna know; if you playing me, keep it all a low. Cause my heart can't take it anymore. What do i do to make you love me What do i do to make you care What do i do to make you want me Its sad, Its so sad, Its a sad sad situation

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