theright0ne

suddenly recall bak about my 4 yrs plus r/s. during the start of de r/s. during de 2 yr being together was a so sweet moments. doing everything together. chit chats on fone need to see each other daily and more.

but after being together for 4 yrs. we tend to meet up only once a week. seldom chat on the phone anymore. somehow, dont need each other anymore. feelings started to go lesser. and both flares up easily when the things dont get its way.

mayb of wat my fren always say. starting is bcoz everything is new. so tends to get curious and alot of things to talk about.
bcoz she is having a 6 yrs r/s herself. and they both are still very sweet just like freshly couples.

Anyone has de same problem too? sweet during the start but everything started to fade away as time goes.

babyto0ns

Me me~!! but i one year already sian liao~ Its like say until nothing to talk, u lead ur life i lead my life~~ Occassionally hold hands only no kisses no romantic words (he thinks its a waste of time!) anymore... Quite sad lor.. Abit den quarrel and attack each other..:cry3:

Love is waking up beside you, to see the sunrise on your face, to know that i can say i love you, in any given time or place..
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Tristanity

Words are still going but lesser of touchy stuff like kissing and hugging. Feel like an old coupple walking along orchard road with the idea of relaxing and keeping each other company. Will flare up easily over minor or major issues but things are easily resolved depending on the effort put in by either of the party to rectify the situation.

relentless pursuit for perfection;
thats taking a toil
in my health.

Somebody said they saw you,
the person you were kissing wasn't me.
And i will never ask you;
I just kept it to myself.
I dont wanna know;
if you playing me, keep it all a low.
Cause my heart can't take it anymore.

What do i do to make you love me
What do i do to make you care
What do i do to make you want me
Its sad, Its so sad,
Its a sad sad situation

theright0ne

ya. when we go out. we nv hold hands or hug each other anymore. and no more goodbye kisses too

Shyraiiyann

Woah, i read you people's post i damm scared sia!

I'm currently in a 8 mths+ rship wif BF,
My case is opposite one.

When he was chasing after me, he wil call like mad, every moment also want to talk to me, after i became his gf, i realised he chiong game like mad. He no longer want to push away a session of Dota because i want to talk to hiim. because of this we quarrel really really alot, imagine quarreling in the first 1st month of your rship...

Later, as days draw to him being in NS, he would spend more time being with me. just a bit more, cause we meet up more. but nevertheless, he is still the heckcare type, but i have to admit, he never once flare up with me despite the many temper i threw at him.
He also never like to hold my hand when we go out, imagine you first month only you never hold hands le.
i ask him before, he say i wan to hold i should hold him.
_l_ i was super dulan ok! MCP!

Now he's in NS, i realised this change, he calls me everynight, book out first one to call me, spend all the weekend with me, and he is the one who holds my hand first. One ocassion when i was having trouble with his aunt, and ignoring him, he actuali cried, beggin like mad. In the past when i talk to him about this aunt, he would ask me to ignore, when i flare up and leave, he would just allow me to leave. maybe he just scared ns gf run away.

butl,
From the lesson, i learnt i should never give up half way no matter how much i think this thing might just fade away.
Times are difficult, yes, but
You've come so far together, dont throw it away.

Have a talk and understand why the coldness, often in life, we take things for granted, and need a few reminders here and there.
Tomorrow must only get better, guard this love well because its part of your life girls!

SG FTW!

Tristanity

Yea and im going to NS soon. Wonder wad will happen to my love. Hope my gf will be there for me=.

relentless pursuit for perfection;
thats taking a toil
in my health.

Somebody said they saw you,
the person you were kissing wasn't me.
And i will never ask you;
I just kept it to myself.
I dont wanna know;
if you playing me, keep it all a low.
Cause my heart can't take it anymore.

What do i do to make you love me
What do i do to make you care
What do i do to make you want me
Its sad, Its so sad,
Its a sad sad situation

Shyraiiyann

she will be there, if you are there =)
hehe.goodluck!

SG FTW!

chinkai

@Shy: You're a lucky girl. Treasure your relationship. =)

Anyway a relationship always has its 'honeymoon period'. When it is over, reality sets in, and THAT will be the real challenge - to keep the love going.

皆さん、こんにちは。僕はチンカイです。どうぞよろしくお願いします。


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ellabaretto

me.

and till now im still sad ok. its been 2yrs and he changed drastically.
i miss the old time. sad.

EmoLeoN

Sweet at begining but its ended up in disaster...
her father forbided us to be together,he abuses her till i leave her...
at the end i had no choice but to leave her...
Its hard to make things last forever....

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Em0LeoN

theright0ne

well said. i wonder issit de partner get tired of her/his partner already tats why like this. :handsup:

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