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Old 03-11-2007, 02:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
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S'poreans less keen to marry outside race, religion: Study

But findings show racial and religious relations are robust, say authors

By Lynn Lee


Singaporeans are more accepting of co-workers, political leaders, policemen and teachers from another race or religion.

But race gets in Cupid's way when it comes to matters of the heart. Many are less enamoured of themselves or their siblings marrying someone of another race.

This picture of a distinct difference in preferred attitudes between relationships in the private sphere and those in the public sphere emerged in a poll of 1,824 citizens aged 15 and older.

The survey looked at whether race and religion shape how Singaporeans prefer to interact with each other.

One key takeaway: It depends on the situation - and whether it has to do with private life or public interaction.

In politics, for example, all Chinese and all the minority respondents would not mind a Chinese PM. And 94 per cent of Chinese said they would not mind an Indian for a Prime Minister while 91 per cent would not mind a Malay as PM.

In the social sphere, some 82 per cent of Chinese said they would celebrate special events with Indian friends.

But only 31 per cent said they were willing to tie the knot with someone of that race.

The study's authors, Assistant Professor Norman Vasu and Ms Yolanda Chin of the S. Rajaratnam School of International Studies, said the findings suggested that inter-racial and inter-religious harmony, while not perfect, were 'robust'.

Yes, Singaporeans seemed 'conservative' in terms of whom they preferred to interact with privately, but 'civility in the public sphere is maintained despite personal preferences,' they noted.

Added Assistant Professor Vasu: 'They are mature enough to put aside racial and religious differences in the public sphere.'

Respondents were given 19 scenarios where they would come into contact with another race - on the bus, in school and in the family - and were asked how receptive they were of this.

Academics interviewed, such as sociologist Tan Ern Ser, found the results heartening. But several were also wary of inferring more from the findings rather than just a sense of preferences or preferred attitudes - and not actual relations or behaviour.

Said National Institute of Education Professor Ooi Giok Ling: 'It would have been good to discuss behaviour or practice.'

Others suggested the results could be viewed with some sceptism.

Grassroots leader Henry Low, 60, for one, did not wholly believe the findings that people were highly receptive to politicians of other races. People had not yet reached the stage where they were 'colour blind', he said.

Noted Dr Gillian Koh of the Institute of Policy Studies: 'The findings are always good news. The policy-makers and leaders never trust such good news.'

In response, Dr Vasu stressed that the aim was to gauge one's willingness to interact with people of different backgrounds.

'We wanted to eliminate responses where people said, 'Oh I've never been in that situtation before,' he said.

Both he and Ms Chin pointed out that their study was meant as a 'snapshot' of how communities related to each other and was the first publicly-available one that asked people about their attitudes towards specific races.

'It gives a baseline picture,' said Dr Vasu, adding that the findings should be seen together with results from other studies.

Asked whether interviewees gave politically correct answers, the authors pointed to the variation in results, with acceptance figures dipping to as low as 27 per cent, when Buddhists/Taoists were asked if they would marry a Muslim.

But one possible inference that could be made, said Ms Chin: Activities in the public sphere were not as important as those in the private sphere. So in those cases, race mattered less.

The experts also offered their own conclusions of findings that struck them.

Asked for his take on the findings, Singaporeans like Major (Retired) G. Shanmugam, 74, married to a Chinese woman for around 50 years said: 'Education is very important. That's how people will realise that race, and relgion is really not an issue.'

http://www.straitstimes.com/Latest%2...ry_173017.html


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Old 03-11-2007, 04:05 AM   #2 (permalink)
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but nowadays i seen many couples of different race and religion de lo... my aunt convert to christ when she married my uncle... den my mum's fren married a muslim lady, den he converted to muslim wor...

u go clubbing (infact no nid clubbing la, go shoppin oso can see) u see chinese girls with eurasian guys, malay girls with chinese guys, even caucasian girls with indian guys... etc... U see, Singapore is a well-mixed country... and wad above ppl mentioned : 'Education is very important. That's how people will realise that race, and relgion is really not an issue.'

but end of the day hor... u and who together, oso mus go thru parents... so if u walk pass tat test den congrates lo...

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Old 03-11-2007, 08:41 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I agree... The final test is your family.
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Old 03-11-2007, 12:02 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Asked for his take on the findings, Singaporeans like Major (Retired) G. Shanmugam, 74, married to a Chinese woman for around 50 years said: 'Education is very important. That's how people will realise that race, and relgion is really not an issue.'
Hmmmm, I really disagree with that. It's a ridiculous statement. No matter how educated a person is, he/she may still have religious convictions, or have race/cultural differences, which may become an issue in a relationship.

Is he saying that if 2 people have difficulties in their relationship because of racial/cultural or religious issues, they must be less educated or less "enlightened"? That's a very narrow-minded point of view.
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Old 03-11-2007, 11:35 PM   #5 (permalink)
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But I do see couples around my estate which are of inter-race marriage.
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Old 04-11-2007, 03:18 PM   #6 (permalink)
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as long is pretty, sweet, gd figure gals, i dun care wat race lah.:biggrin4:

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Old 04-11-2007, 04:17 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I agree... The final test is your family.

doesnt apply to me. its the heart that counts, not the race or the looks or what so ever. IMO, we choose who our life partner to be, not family, they're there to give us support not to break us up apart.


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But it means everything when its comes from the heart..

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Old 04-11-2007, 04:40 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: S'poreans less keen to marry outside race, religion: Study

no no, if you say this marrying thing is a two person affair, if you are in the situation, its not that easy anymore if both families object,
alot of problems will be caused, straining both parties, end up both will not be happy until the families finally give in leh

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Old 05-11-2007, 08:54 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: S'poreans less keen to marry outside race, religion: Study

I do see many of my friends that marry outside race and religion... Some of the guys actually marry Indonesian girls and some of my classmates also marries Malaysian and Australian guys...

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Old 05-11-2007, 05:23 PM   #10 (permalink)
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a chinese marrying an indonesian chinese or malaysian chinese is not very surprising. afterall its still the same race.

seriously a better reason to say why we will not marry someone else of a diff race is because of our values and cultures. ppl tend to mix with ppl of the same values etc.
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Old 05-11-2007, 05:30 PM   #11 (permalink)
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It's just normal phenomenon.

And as usual media always makes it sounded worse, and sometime with carefully quoted baseless comment.

That's all.


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Old 05-11-2007, 08:35 PM   #12 (permalink)
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i do not want to start an racism here but going to tell what i think.
hope no people get offended, if yes i am very sorry.
i think we chinese is the most open group, marry malay, indian, westerner and others also no problem.
for a chinese to marry an muslim, he/she has to totally give-up almost everything and must convert to muslim else will not be to do it...

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Old 05-11-2007, 11:44 PM   #13 (permalink)
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having a gf/bf of another race may be easy..but the real test comes when you are married...anyone who passes that test....kudos to them.....why worry about others when you made up your own life...i dont think you took a specific course in school coz ur parents told you to?..the harder part is the acceptance within..

You think you're unsafe but it's not over. Accept for who you are, You are not alone.... There is always beauty in one's imperfections, so do not go hysterical about anything you deemed to see not up to your liking..... I am not one of them....
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