yujie`-

Hais.. So long no gf liaos..
Don't really understand girls also

now girls mostly see looks and money..
if don't have 1 of this hard to find gf..
what do girls exactly want lehs?

i'm a person with low confidence and self esteem.. anyone can helps??
i don't dare meet girls or wad de coz i know i'm ugly
sighs... u all got any tips?

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toh_3312

i share the same sentiment as you do.......

so , could some one plz lend us a helping hand .... hehe

我对天空说你是那么温柔
我深爱的人现在抱着谁呢

:biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4:

finaldust

low confidence and self esteem --> try to build up ur confidenece and sefl esteem before finding bah

just be confidence bah it will help u bring out ur charm all this bah

if u dont improve then it is hard to find bah must also try bah but prepared to get hurt and reject bah but if u never try u never know

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

Lonely_Guy

leT iT be LA.. iT wiLL cum 1 dai.. HahA.. =D

LiFe sO borEd!!!

toh_3312

my friends once told me , it is better if the ger love you more than u do . Hence wait for ur miss right to go woo u lo ...... ha ha :love4: :love4:

我对天空说你是那么温柔
我深爱的人现在抱着谁呢

:biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4: :biggrin4:

icyOrange

have to agree. but then again, its all about experience, sometimes the truth hurts but it always makes u better. have confidence dudes. for me, i dont really like short term relationships, so sadly enough i rejected a few girls because i thought they cant really be those type really really loyal and sincere. haiz..its really hard to find someone. But its all patience my friend..

Love means nothing when its comes out from your mouth..

But it means everything when its comes from the heart..

Dont fall in love..
Walk thru it..

~A simple guy with a complicated life~
^_^ icyOrange ^_^

finaldust

lol wait is hard bah furthermore not all gals will woo de bah but i think it is better to fight than wait bah it is like shou zhu dai du bah i rather die in battle then never battle before

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

funnysnow

You sound desperate to look for girlfriend. Dont worry much, you are not the only guy though, there is alot people who are same boat as you. So, dont have to be upset.

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vgohyk

First, are you ugly at all? Why think that you are ugly? If you have a kind and faithful heart, I'm sure your personality will shine and overweighs any other features!

The thing that I don't understand is, why do guys have to view women as materialistic and that we love good looking guys and we want lots of money!? That's pretty much an insult to us and I believe most women would agree.

What exactly do girls want, you asked. Now, let me tell you and clear your doubts. It's so damn easy and we are not what you think we are.

We ladies need no gorgeous guy with well-built body or a person who earns a million dollar every month. We need no guys who can shower us with expensive gifts everyday. We are simple, we need:

• A guy who can give us a good impression in the very 1st time we both met. Hence, keeping yourself in a good "condition" is very important. You got to learn to love yourself and be presentable in appearance!
• Next, we will probably be looking at your personality. Let it shine, let it shine! If you are not confident about yourself, where on earth can you give security to a lady? How on earth can you secure them with your love?
• If everything goes perfectly fine, like the chemistry and all, then yes, congratulations. You have the chance in wining her vulnerable heart.
• Once you do and both started a beautiful relationship, be prepared to face difficulties and don't always be so self-centred that everything will go on smoothly!
• You are a guy, you ought to give in.
• Ladies need a guy who can give them the love they deserve and the security they yearn for.
• Ladies need a man who can spend the rest of their life with, but, of course, with stable income. If you can't even support yourself, how can you be sure that you'll provide her with a good family? If you're that "gigolo", then definitely you won't mind her to spend money on you all the time, and paying off bills for the family as well as buying a house for the both of you!? I mean, please. I believe men have their basic ego.

So, please. Understand us, and understand why we need money from guys. We don't expect much, if you're not earning that much to support the both of you and the future family, then it's ok. At least you should be ambitious enough and are willing to work hard. You can make a little contribution here and there, as long as your lady sees it.

Take our "love requests" as a motivation for you to work hard and strive in your career/life, rather than to say "why do girls have to be so money-minded", etc.

If you throw such remarks, then I suggest you not to find a gf now as you just don't understand women. Learn to love yourself and understand women first before you start to date any of them. Women need to be treated with respect as they are vulnerable.

& I believe you're not desperate, you just need a direction in life, somebody who can accompany you through ups & downs. You can find one, so long you believe in Love and, yourself.

:mellow3:

icyOrange

if u really mean it, your one in a thousand in singapore. quite impressive if u really really really really mean it. hard to find someone like you..

Love means nothing when its comes out from your mouth..

But it means everything when its comes from the heart..

Dont fall in love..
Walk thru it..

~A simple guy with a complicated life~
^_^ icyOrange ^_^

djchris

I look at your avatar..ok wad. If it helps, I think I'm worse.

You're only 20 yrs old..I 24 also never think like you yet...dun worry lah..
Many years ahead..

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vgohyk

If you are unlucky and happen to come across that "one lousy lady", that doesn't prove that the statistic of the women in the world is that "lousy". :mellow3: