Should guys pay the expenses of the date or go dutch? - Page 4 - Singapore's Online Community

**fuyumi** · 25-10-2006, 11:50 PM

Having a stalker is scary. You never know what they are capable of doing.

**wangzi<3** · 26-10-2006, 12:10 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by deedee
	oh i remembered... once this guy that i knew online one, he wanna ask me out... meet in city hall... at 7pm. his request: meet after dinner. in other words, i eat dinner first then meet him. he treat me to tea only... at city link... and the worse thing was he brought all his photos from young till current and told me his life story... it was quite shocking at first to see all his baby photos blah blah, and later boring as he told me his life story. i felt like in a blind date session. somemore very long and surviving on a cup of tea. well at least he treated me.

lol..
he like to tell grandpa story ar?

**tracia21** · 26-10-2006, 06:55 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by .phoenixity.
	wah so sweet! you went out with his mum also? cool lah.

haha i guess it's more frequent than i go out with my own mom... :mellow3: coz my mom is always busy with her wanton mee stall... no time for me oso..

	Quote:			Originally Posted by deedee
	oh i remembered... once this guy that i knew online one, he wanna ask me out... meet in city hall... at 7pm. his request: meet after dinner. in other words, i eat dinner first then meet him. he treat me to tea only... at city link... and the worse thing was he brought all his photos from young till current and told me his life story... it was quite shocking at first to see all his baby photos blah blah, and later boring as he told me his life story. i felt like in a blind date session. somemore very long and surviving on a cup of tea. well at least he treated me.

wow.. it's such a turn off... den i will open my hp gallery n tell him all of the details of the pictures i have inside (provided he is more to good looking kind.. if cannot make it, den i will say i wan to go window shopping..) haha... i oso can tell alot of stories..arbo u meet up with me n i tell u stories? hehe... :devil2:

**.phoenixity.** · 26-10-2006, 11:34 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by tracia21
	haha i guess it's more frequent than i go out with my own mom... :mellow3: coz my mom is always busy with her wanton mee stall... no time for me oso..

so good lol. so sweet :love4:

**tracia21** · 26-10-2006, 11:45 PM

haha... ya lor... now his mom oso used to it.. my bf go overseas to work.. she kept reminding me to visit her whenever im free..(in fact is every weekend) aniway i feel that it's safer that i go out with her as she's old le.. dangerous to go out alone.. (opps off topic le..)

my bf brought me n his parents to have seafood feast before he left to Nigeria... but sadly i wasted the food.. *kena food poisoning*

**porcelaindoll** · 09-11-2006, 12:31 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by funnysnow
	No, it is investment.. LOL!

my bf say it is an investment to pay for my stuffs & buy me things...
cus he said i'll be his wife in future anw...

AWWWWWWWWW....*heart melts*

**starshine** · 09-11-2006, 02:58 PM

i think guys should pay for the first time..
but for me, i don't mind going dutch. or we can pay for each other for different things. yup.

**solidsin** · 09-11-2006, 09:17 PM

Actually going on dutch is betta for gals leh . so that guys will be able to save up more money den liddat buy them more presents

**xnattumsx** · 10-11-2006, 12:37 PM

Hmm I think I'd consider the guy's family background and stuff la. Like if he can afford to pay ahahaha. Is it true then that most (student) couples go dutch?

Sheng4Eva · 10-11-2006, 08:15 PM

hmmm ... depends lor ... got money den guy pay ... no money den go dutch .. simple

**ix0r4** · 22-11-2006, 11:42 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by funnysnow
	Generation are changing. Last time, guys paid because girls don't work, and they would be housewife in future. Therefore the guys paid. At this generation, woman are becoming stronger and more independant. Woman earn same income or some even more than guys. Now, why must girls still expect guys to pay? Just because girls every month went through a few days of period? In Singapore, we guys went through 2+ years of NS, wasted 2+ years which girls dont have to. Which means 2+ years of income and freedom. Girls can earn 2+ years of income more than guys. Why do girls feel it right? To show our gentleman manner? As what people say. Most girls are spender, while guys are spendthift. Does this make it a reason that allow guys to always spend our money on girls? In my personal experience, sometimes I just cant stand it when girls keep saying she is poor or say no money to the guys, and expect guys to pay for everything. If she is really from poor family, I can understand. But no, these girls just don't wish to spend their own money. They have the money, but just want the guys to pay for them. I remembered when I was in secondary school life, without an income, only allowance. I save and save, eat less, just to buy a gift for a girl. When I think back, I feel like a FOOL. Sorry for any harsh remark. It just my two cent worth comments.

Yeah i agree.. why shld gurls make guys pay all the time? 1st time mayb yes. If frenz, mayb dutch.. In a r/s, i think it doesnt matter who pays ya? There's this chi saying 'speaking of money hurts e feelings'.. i think in a r/s, sometimes e gurl pay, sometimes e guy pay is alright..

**raccon82** · 22-11-2006, 12:17 PM

If the guys ask for date, of cos the guy will pay de...

**Shannie** · 22-11-2006, 12:30 PM

The guy should pay, if not then go dutch!

**loonshi** · 26-11-2006, 12:28 AM

If both r in relationship then guy should pay for gal to show their gentleman-ism...I think this is the basic thing as a boyfriend should do for their girlfriend.