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Old 29-01-2007, 08:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I have a problem, and I know some of my friends have it too.
Is the problem that we are scared, scared in different ways.

One is scared of perfection. We always try to do think in prefection but then we tend to cancel everything and do it again like in art. But i heard today art is not perfection is "anyhow" But still now many of us is scared to do it anyhow >< And we are scared that we do wrong...

Another one is mostly me and another one of my friend >< Scared to stand up, scared to talk loudly , something like that.
Because my class is very LOUD, You must speak LOUD just to be heard, And sometime their comments are hurtful >< So we tend to be scared to say out what we want and comments. Just because we are not one of them...


Can someone help me >< I cannot afford to be scared but still i have that fear inside which I cannot let it go ><

There are a few more =X But i forgot again.... :disgust2:


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Old 29-01-2007, 09:07 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Lol forgive me. You really sound like u have mental problem.

Scared of perfection? Sorry I am not into art and dun really get it.

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Scared to stand up, scared to talk loudly
Do u mean scare of speaking up?
If you mean scared to talk loudly, i suggest u do nth. I mean y tok loudly for?

If its scared of speaking up, then go tok to urself in the mirror and have some willpower and determination that you gonna do it.


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Old 29-01-2007, 09:37 PM   #3 (permalink)
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why be scared, just do it


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Old 29-01-2007, 09:43 PM   #4 (permalink)
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hmmm ... i dont understand scare for what ... dont wan to annouce publicly ... den annouce it privately ?


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Old 29-01-2007, 09:55 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I have a problem, and I know some of my friends have it too.
Is the problem that we are scared, scared in different ways.

One is scared of perfection. We always try to do think in prefection but then we tend to cancel everything and do it again like in art. But i heard today art is not perfection is "anyhow" But still now many of us is scared to do it anyhow >< And we are scared that we do wrong...

Another one is mostly me and another one of my friend >< Scared to stand up, scared to talk loudly , something like that.
Because my class is very LOUD, You must speak LOUD just to be heard, And sometime their comments are hurtful >< So we tend to be scared to say out what we want and comments. Just because we are not one of them...


Can someone help me >< I cannot afford to be scared but still i have that fear inside which I cannot let it go ><

There are a few more =X But i forgot again.... :disgust2:
This is funnysnow.

It actually a matter of dare or not. Whether you dare to take a step forward and try. You need to overcome your own fear.

Like example, you are scare of lizard, scare of pool. Make yourself go near it, slowly and improve. You need to take the step to try. If you willingly to take the 1st step, I am sure sure got success in overcoming your pobia.
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Old 29-01-2007, 10:06 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I have a problem, and I know some of my friends have it too.
Is the problem that we are scared, scared in different ways.

One is scared of perfection. We always try to do think in prefection but then we tend to cancel everything and do it again like in art. But i heard today art is not perfection is "anyhow" But still now many of us is scared to do it anyhow >< And we are scared that we do wrong...

Another one is mostly me and another one of my friend >< Scared to stand up, scared to talk loudly , something like that.
Because my class is very LOUD, You must speak LOUD just to be heard, And sometime their comments are hurtful >< So we tend to be scared to say out what we want and comments. Just because we are not one of them...


Can someone help me >< I cannot afford to be scared but still i have that fear inside which I cannot let it go ><

There are a few more =X But i forgot again.... :disgust2:
ermm scared...?!
den when u saw ur klazmate shouting across de klaz...or whole klaz very noisy de shi hou..
oso tok loud loud...
cuz dey noisy le maa... den whole klaz oso cant hear wat u saying den no nid scaared.. den at de same tym can train ur voice to tok louder.. haha

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Old 29-01-2007, 11:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
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When i mean scared of perfection I mean of ... Ok maybe I put it in a wrong way =X >< My english is not that good. Now in this time , Many say that we need to do everything perfect then you will get high marks If you don't do prefectly nice You will fail... So many of my classmates are still scared As in... Don't dare To do it the "anyhow ,hack care way" And to the perfect way which is.... =\ 1 sketches = almost 15 sketches... And we got scolding for that...

For the loud one... I don't know what Im like that... I cannot stand up for myself >< I feel that if I do everyone will hate me >< And if i shout anything wrong.... Everyone would stare and then news will pass on to my class.. If news will pass on to my class.. They talk alot and tease you non stop.... Which is very... annoying because they pick on you... take your stuff and .. doo all sorts of things ...


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Old 30-01-2007, 12:19 AM   #8 (permalink)
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When i mean scared of perfection I mean of ... Ok maybe I put it in a wrong way =X >< My english is not that good. Now in this time , Many say that we need to do everything perfect then you will get high marks If you don't do prefectly nice You will fail... So many of my classmates are still scared As in... Don't dare To do it the "anyhow ,hack care way" And to the perfect way which is.... =\ 1 sketches = almost 15 sketches... And we got scolding for that...

For the loud one... I don't know what Im like that... I cannot stand up for myself >< I feel that if I do everyone will hate me >< And if i shout anything wrong.... Everyone would stare and then news will pass on to my class.. If news will pass on to my class.. They talk alot and tease you non stop.... Which is very... annoying because they pick on you... take your stuff and .. doo all sorts of things ...
I advised you to stay low profile. Things will get better once u get into Poly/JC or ITE.


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Old 30-01-2007, 12:36 AM   #9 (permalink)
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well...my friends like to say bad comments abt me..almost everyday i kanna suan like there's no tomorrow x.x they tease me non-stop, annoying..but i still dun care them~ wen they did that i just stop replying them..and heck care them ><
As long as u do wat u like..can ler~
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Old 30-01-2007, 12:46 AM   #10 (permalink)
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ya ... stay low-profile is better ... or else lots of politics will come to u


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