Relationship with a NS man

**porcelaindoll** · 30-10-2006, 05:13 PM

SIGH...i find it really difficult to date a NS man lor...

my bf is one lah. & he has to stay in everyday except weekends. sometimes weekends must stay in as well.

he is always sian when he thinks about camp...it makes me down as well. one sat we didn't even meet cus he was too tired. (fri book out, sat night booking in again) :speechless:

if i have a choice il NOT date a NS man ever!!!!!!

**wangzi<3** · 30-10-2006, 05:33 PM

lol.. live with it and try to adjust to it..

**restless** · 30-10-2006, 07:31 PM

ya, being in NS is tough for us also. staying-in is boring. everyday is like eat, slp, wake up train..

**MamaRos** · 30-10-2006, 07:35 PM

The advantage is your guy will look solid man when he ROD....:biggrin4:

**wangzi<3** · 30-10-2006, 08:38 PM

super manly! woohoo! :biggrin4:

**.phoenixity.** · 30-10-2006, 10:06 PM

lucky my dar dar ORD lo~

**patrina** · 31-10-2006, 04:49 AM

Dont scare me leh..My bf havent go in! Going in I think next year :cry3:
Making me nervous nia

**wangzi<3** · 31-10-2006, 09:25 AM

what is ORD?
any girls can explain to me?

i don't want guys to explain ar!
always make me blur de.. :/

**germaine** · 31-10-2006, 10:14 AM

haha.. tink have to endure lorz.. my bf last time oso like tat.. most of his time is in camp.. we seldom meet up oso.. sometimes onli for a few hrs lorz.. but luckily he ord le..
wangzi, i tink it means aft service the national service lorz.. i oso duno lehz.. haha

**porcelaindoll** · 31-10-2006, 10:24 AM

haha he was quite fit to begin with la...cus he was in water polo team ma

Dan · 31-10-2006, 11:52 AM

But if your are able to endure through this 'most-dangerous' period for any relantionship, he will love you to death, lol. Only like 5% of couples will go through NS.

**germaine** · 31-10-2006, 11:55 AM

haha.. im one of the 5%..

**Igtenos** · 31-10-2006, 12:38 PM

Who doesn't wans to spend time with their love ones.
Guys in NS dun have enough time to spend themselves.
Monday to Friday - Training
We have to spend our time wisely (Sat and Sun)
I am going into NS next year and lucky i have no gf

**violette** · 31-10-2006, 01:07 PM

luckily i never had a NS bf before.. i will be bored to death..

u have to understand him lah cos training from mon-fri very shiong de.. left sat & sun nia, already not much personal time left.. still have to accompany buddies/family/gf...

**fuyumi** · 31-10-2006, 01:09 PM

I had relationships with NS man too but it was the fact that he was in camp that cause strain between us. At a young age, I think what we all want is attention from our bfs but as we grow older, we have more commitments or we get more independent.

Nsmen also fear the lost of their gfs to other guys when they are in there. I think most of the time, its the insecurities and loneliness or even mental strain that just stresses each other up.

30-10-2006, 05:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
porcelaindoll 公主 Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,333 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: far far away SGC$: 421.20 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 421.20	Relationship with a NS man SIGH...i find it really difficult to date a NS man lor... my bf is one lah. & he has to stay in everyday except weekends. sometimes weekends must stay in as well. he is always sian when he thinks about camp...it makes me down as well. one sat we didn't even meet cus he was too tired. (fri book out, sat night booking in again) :speechless: if i have a choice il NOT date a NS man ever!!!!!! Last edited by porcelaindoll : 30-10-2006 at 05:14 PM.

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wangzi<3 Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,926 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Jurong West SGC$: 804.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 804.50	lol.. live with it and try to adjust to it..

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restless Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,624 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: North SGC$: 3,497.66 Bank: 928.47 Total SGC$: 4,426.12	ya, being in NS is tough for us also. staying-in is boring. everyday is like eat, slp, wake up train..

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MamaRos Piak piak Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,886 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Bedok Reservoir SGC$: 0.00 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 0	The advantage is your guy will look solid man when he ROD....:biggrin4:

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wangzi<3 Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,926 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Jurong West SGC$: 804.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 804.50	super manly! woohoo! :biggrin4:

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patrina Happy Girlie Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,612 iTrader: (13) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Hougang SGC$: 812.58 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 812.58	Dont scare me leh..My bf havent go in! Going in I think next year :cry3: Making me nervous nia

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wangzi<3 Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,926 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Jurong West SGC$: 804.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 804.50	what is ORD? any girls can explain to me? i don't want guys to explain ar! always make me blur de.. :/

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germaine Cool SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 264 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: bt merah SGC$: 672.00 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 672.00	haha.. tink have to endure lorz.. my bf last time oso like tat.. most of his time is in camp.. we seldom meet up oso.. sometimes onli for a few hrs lorz.. but luckily he ord le.. wangzi, i tink it means aft service the national service lorz.. i oso duno lehz.. haha

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porcelaindoll 公主 Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,333 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: far far away SGC$: 421.20 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 421.20	haha he was quite fit to begin with la...cus he was in water polo team ma

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germaine Cool SGClubber Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 264 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: bt merah SGC$: 672.00 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 672.00	haha.. im one of the 5%..

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fuyumi Ice Princess Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,209 iTrader: (28) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Eastern Tranquinity SGC$: 111.30 Bank: 1,098.37 Total SGC$: 1,209.67	I had relationships with NS man too but it was the fact that he was in camp that cause strain between us. At a young age, I think what we all want is attention from our bfs but as we grow older, we have more commitments or we get more independent. Nsmen also fear the lost of their gfs to other guys when they are in there. I think most of the time, its the insecurities and loneliness or even mental strain that just stresses each other up. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.