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**boaz** · 19-10-2006, 06:02 PM

Taken fromsomewhere in cyber space so i just post..
not everything is perfect...:biggrin4: don't know how true is it...

8 types of relation that won't work:
1)you care more about your partner more then he/she care about you.
(vice versa)
2)in love with your partner potential.
3)on a love rescue mission
4)you look up your partner as a role mobel.
5)you infatuated in your partner's external physical.
6)trench bubby
7)chose apartner in order to be rebellious.
8)partner unavailable(eg:attach/always busy/married)

8 total flaws in a relationship:
1)easily anger
2)victim conscious
3)control freak
4)sexual immorality
5)your partner hasn't grow up
6)emotionally unavailable
7)hasn't recovered from past relationship
8)suffer from emotion damage during childhood(trauma)

5 compatibility time bombs:
1)age different by a lot
2)spiritual/religion different
3)different social circle/education background.
4)over bearing of in-law
5)long distance relationship

9 qualities to for in a mate:
1)commitment to personnel growth
2)emotion openness
3)integrity/honesty
4)maturbility & reponsebility
5)healthy self-esteem
6)positive attitude toward life
7)teachable & learnable
8)quick repent & quick forgive
9)chemistry

**fuyumi** · 19-10-2006, 08:09 PM

Most of the points are quite true and it happens in so many relationships no matter how you see it.

**boaz** · 20-10-2006, 07:27 AM

no wonder now a day it is hard to find someone who is serious:cry3:

funnysnow · 20-10-2006, 09:19 AM

Thanks for sharing.

**fuyumi** · 20-10-2006, 11:50 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by boaz
	no wonder now a day it is hard to find someone who is serious:cry3:

There is la, u may not have bump into them yet.

**boaz** · 20-10-2006, 03:32 PM

bump into them..sure..but when is it?:cry3:

**mystic.Id** · 20-10-2006, 04:01 PM

true love will come when u stop searching

the r.s part logically true and inventable [cfm wrong spellin]

if everyone knw n trully understand , will be lesser short term r.s

**boaz** · 20-10-2006, 05:16 PM

is it how come my friend an uncle older than me by 8 years..still single.
as he has neber search for true love...:confused2:

**mystic.Id** · 20-10-2006, 10:39 PM

he is not ready? cause true love don't come by e time u waitted...
u juz fall in love ...maybe he still enjoy singlehood..nt sure abt it too=x

**deedee** · 20-10-2006, 10:48 PM

i hv friends in 30s still single also... some searching while some not, and some just can't be bothered.

**fuyumi** · 22-10-2006, 02:29 AM

Patience and preserverence will pay off one day.

**mecindy** · 27-10-2006, 03:27 PM

there's 1 more flaw not mentioned =x
-lack of trust
or isit the same as victim conscious? ^^

**violette** · 29-10-2006, 11:59 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by fuyumi
	Patience and preserverence will pay off one day.

yeah, i agree too

19-10-2006, 06:02 PM	#1 (permalink)
boaz mr yang (bei ru) Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,660 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: sg SGC$: 657.15 Bank: 2,500.00 Total SGC$: 3,157.15	relationship Taken fromsomewhere in cyber space so i just post.. not everything is perfect...:biggrin4: don't know how true is it... 8 types of relation that won't work: 1)you care more about your partner more then he/she care about you. (vice versa) 2)in love with your partner potential. 3)on a love rescue mission 4)you look up your partner as a role mobel. 5)you infatuated in your partner's external physical. 6)trench bubby 7)chose apartner in order to be rebellious. 8)partner unavailable(eg:attach/always busy/married) 8 total flaws in a relationship: 1)easily anger 2)victim conscious 3)control freak 4)sexual immorality 5)your partner hasn't grow up 6)emotionally unavailable 7)hasn't recovered from past relationship 8)suffer from emotion damage during childhood(trauma) 5 compatibility time bombs: 1)age different by a lot 2)spiritual/religion different 3)different social circle/education background. 4)over bearing of in-law 5)long distance relationship 9 qualities to for in a mate: 1)commitment to personnel growth 2)emotion openness 3)integrity/honesty 4)maturbility & reponsebility 5)healthy self-esteem 6)positive attitude toward life 7)teachable & learnable 8)quick repent & quick forgive 9)chemistry

19-10-2006, 08:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
fuyumi Ice Princess Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,211 iTrader: (28) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Eastern Tranquinity SGC$: 111.30 Bank: 1,098.37 Total SGC$: 1,209.67	Most of the points are quite true and it happens in so many relationships no matter how you see it. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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funnysnow Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 8,398 iTrader: (1) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Singapore SGC$: 799.45 Bank: 0.17 Total SGC$: 799.62	Thanks for sharing. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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mystic.Id seeker Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 79 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: . SGC$: 168.00 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 168.00	true love will come when u stop searching the r.s part logically true and inventable [cfm wrong spellin] if everyone knw n trully understand , will be lesser short term r.s :runnynose: 真的都过去了... add me if u geniuly wanna be fren'z friendster ' To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

20-10-2006, 05:16 PM	#8 (permalink)
boaz mr yang (bei ru) Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,660 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: sg SGC$: 657.15 Bank: 2,500.00 Total SGC$: 3,157.15	is it how come my friend an uncle older than me by 8 years..still single. as he has neber search for true love...:confused2: Last edited by boaz : 20-10-2006 at 06:01 PM.

20-10-2006, 07:27 AM	#3 (permalink)
boaz mr yang (bei ru) Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,660 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: sg SGC$: 657.15 Bank: 2,500.00 Total SGC$: 3,157.15	no wonder now a day it is hard to find someone who is serious:cry3:

20-10-2006, 03:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
boaz mr yang (bei ru) Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,660 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: sg SGC$: 657.15 Bank: 2,500.00 Total SGC$: 3,157.15	bump into them..sure..but when is it?:cry3:

20-10-2006, 10:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
mystic.Id seeker Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 79 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: . SGC$: 168.00 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 168.00	he is not ready? cause true love don't come by e time u waitted... u juz fall in love ...maybe he still enjoy singlehood..nt sure abt it too=x :runnynose: 真的都过去了... add me if u geniuly wanna be fren'z friendster ' To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

20-10-2006, 10:48 PM	#10 (permalink)
deedee deedeelicious Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 565 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: West SGC$: 91.30 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 91.30	i hv friends in 30s still single also... some searching while some not, and some just can't be bothered. ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ I'm a fat ass, motivate me! ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡

22-10-2006, 02:29 AM	#11 (permalink)
fuyumi Ice Princess Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,211 iTrader: (28) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Eastern Tranquinity SGC$: 111.30 Bank: 1,098.37 Total SGC$: 1,209.67	Patience and preserverence will pay off one day. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

27-10-2006, 03:27 PM	#12 (permalink)
mecindy (: Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 205 iTrader: (0) Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: confeito SGC$: 549.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 549.50	there's 1 more flaw not mentioned =x -lack of trust or isit the same as victim conscious? ^^

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