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Old 07-08-2008, 06:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
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"I cant have a relationship with someone who cant get along with my friends.".
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Old 07-08-2008, 06:47 PM   #2 (permalink)
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ehhh... why is this thread in the welcome centre??

agree.


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Old 07-08-2008, 07:20 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Yeah, why is this thread in the Welcome centre?

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Old 07-08-2008, 08:06 PM   #4 (permalink)
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wron section.

anyway i agree to your question. lols

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Old 07-08-2008, 11:50 PM   #5 (permalink)
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it depend. but sometime is better to find someone with the right key with ur friends.

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Old 07-08-2008, 11:57 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Disagree...

You and your friends is one circle, and with your partner another. Why must integrate both together?

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Old 08-08-2008, 12:08 AM   #7 (permalink)
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u dun have to share the same group of frens le.
as long as they're not hating each other.. then shud be ok la.
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Old 08-08-2008, 12:28 AM   #8 (permalink)
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"I cant have a relationship with someone who cant get along with my friends.".
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agree & disagree.

agree if she/he is using it entirely coz she/he wants to spend time with you and also her/his friends.. she/he doesn't wanna neglect her/his friends or you..

disagree if she/he is using this as a measure to forcefully make you agree to let her/him carry on with her/his friendship..


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Old 08-08-2008, 12:39 AM   #9 (permalink)
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My boyfriend doesn't like my friends. Over the time, i slowly drifted away from them coz i spend alot of time at work and what's left will be spent with him. Eventually when i do meet up with them, they felt more like old friends whom i havent met for 10000 yrs, rather than the sistas i used to have in the past. It gets quite tough when my boyfriend felt that i'm wasting my life hanging out with these gals but i felt super lonely without them. 4 yrs down the rd, i've missed out so much of their lives i know it will never be the same again.
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Old 08-08-2008, 12:49 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Must click with my friends, otherwise, forget it.
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Old 08-08-2008, 02:25 AM   #11 (permalink)
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hm? If she can get along with you, how come she cant get along with your friends?
I think gf and friends dont necessarily nid to mix together.

But if she's got personality issues with ur frens den something must be done. Try finding out why they cant get along?

If she just cant click on certain likes and dislikes or hobbies and topics to talk about den its ok bah.
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Old 08-08-2008, 04:33 AM   #12 (permalink)
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It makes things a lot easier if the person you are dating gets along with your friends. If there is tension there, then either your friendships will suffer of your relationship will. And people have different tastes. Even amongst my friends, there are some who don't get along with each other. So if you are dating someone, I think it would be highly unlikely that all your friends will like that person.

But ultimately, you're the one who might be spending the rest of your life with the person you're dating, so even if all your friends don't get along with your partner, it still needs to be your decision whether you want to to continue to date them.
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Old 08-08-2008, 09:08 AM   #13 (permalink)
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disagree until gf force me to leave from them then is something wrong already

other than is ok bah

if force u to leave from ur friends then suddenly break up will end up no where bah
friendship and love is equally important to me bah

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 08-08-2008, 10:09 AM   #14 (permalink)
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it is just better if ur other half can get along with ur frens.
my guy doesnt really know my frens.
but coz he come my school to fetch me, they sort of seen each other.
dun really have contact.

bu im ok with his close frens.

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Old 08-08-2008, 10:32 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Old 08-08-2008, 11:29 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Dont need to be super click with my friends but at least not totally cannot click
coz sure there must be some interactions for him and my friends


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Old 08-08-2008, 12:02 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Last time i got a friend who veri close to me. Then both of us never had gf b4, then i find my 1st gf. My 1st gf veri sticky type. Then last time, weekend i n that friend and other friends always go out la kopi, snooker, bowling etc one. Then suddenly i weekend always go out with gf. Then kip gana mistaken for chee hong. Then my friend unhappy with her. Then my gf aso start dun like him. Then i stuck in the middle.
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Old 08-08-2008, 12:21 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Disagree.....my gf not even close to my friends and she don even know most of my friends too. And im also hardly know hers too.... For me, what most important is that we love each other.....


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Old 08-08-2008, 04:38 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Disagree.....My gf got nothing to do with my circle of friends.

It's just a lame excuse..


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Old 08-08-2008, 10:10 PM   #20 (permalink)
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