Artemis86

Now with the 'rage' of blogging and the hype, do any of you still keep a private journal/diary (those books de)?

If you do, would u let your bf/husband or gf/wife read?

If you no longer do but still keep your old journals, would u let him/her read?

If you know your bf/husband or gf/wife keep private diaries, would you expect him/her to let you read??

Would u still read it if he/she din explicitly give u the permission, but u know he/she won't find out if u read??

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Artemis86

For me, i still do keep private diary though i din update it as often as old times.
And i still keep my old ones.

Personally I won't let my bf or even my husband read my private diaries. I'd rather tell him myself all the things i want him to know or he wants to know.

And I'm fine with him keeping his own private diary - i mean even in long-term permanent commited r/s, one is still entitled to his/her own privacy.

I'll not read his diary even if he may not discover my doing, cuz i'd feel uneasy to know i've invaded his privacy. Unless exceptional case such as i suspect him hiding something major from me like an affair or like, still I'd ask him first before resorting to this..

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robin

Its depend on the person, does he or she want his or her parnter to know their serect.

Chriz

I guess the difference between blogging and keeping a personal diary is the kinda of stuff you want others to know or not.

For me, I've tried blogging. Didn't work out for me cause I feel that a lot of my inner thoughts are pretty personal to me. That's why I would prefer a personal diary.

It's quite an enjoyment flipping through the diaries you keep over the years. You can see for yourself how you've grown through the years.

Syaoran

hmm..i have a blog..but no 1 knows it! xD
seldom update it though..=x

loonshi

hmmm.. i'm used to keep a diary when i was in school. i wrote dwn many things... but when i start to work.. i hav no time for tat not even bloggin.. gettin veri lazy.. so nw i learn that if there's any unhappy moments forget it lor cos u need to move on..

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Chriz

Blogs should be public de mah. If not, might as well keep a personal diary right? >.

xiaoekin

ya.... i believe that blogging is to let everyone noe wad u are thinking and wad is interesting life that u are living in... so i will still let my gf/ wife see..


bt sure wont write ur past experience wif ur ex gf or wad in the blog lar.. haha:biggrin4:

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MamaRos

Piangz..allow or don't allow is not in my dictionary for married couples.

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bWey

blog can be made personal. I still prefer to blog online rather than writing. One main reason is because I type faster than I write =.= which means easier for me to type out all my thoughts at one go. and I always misplaced my dairy when I still kept it. so ...

I will not let my other half to read my dairy/blog. Some things are better not to be read by other people. Keep it to myself. On the counterpart, she should trust me since I'm her other half already. I will tell everything I think she should know and not everything She think she should know. Anyway, it's is still my own life. I have all the rights to reserve my trivial yet funny secrets.

Artemis86

Its great that u dun have such rules..i know every married couple has different expectations n stuffs. But personally, i still think even in marriage, there'll sure be smth 'NO-no' and those 'yes" de. =)

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ix0r4

Now with the 'rage' of blogging and the hype, do any of you still keep a private journal/diary (those books de)?
Private blog, mayb yes.. books? Nah..

If you do, would u let your bf/husband or gf/wife read?
If he asks, yeah.. Y not?

If you no longer do but still keep your old journals, would u let him/her read?
As above..

If you know your bf/husband or gf/wife keep private diaries, would you expect him/her to let you read??
Of coz, out of curiousity, i will wanna read. But if he insist not, then so be it.

Would u still read it if he/she din explicitly give u the permission, but u know he/she won't find out if u read??
i wouldnt do that.

huishan

for me .. my diary is online blogged .
so im okay if my BF sees it .
he even sees the diary i writes .
nothing to hide from him (:

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angelica

i've a public blog and also a private blog.
i'm fine with him viewing my public blog and not the private ones as its written more into details about my feelings and all.

if he has a private diary or anything, i wouldn't want to invade, so therefore i would want him to respect that as well.

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