Qane

Hi all...
This is gonna be something different...
Everyone here talks about getting girls but this is about rejecting...
My bestfriend is dating this girl...
She is 21 and my friend is like 18...
He never said he loved her..
He also made it clear that he did not want to commit in a relationship...
But they already had sex..
Maybe it was becos the girl offered? never bother to ask..
anw..
The girl nevertheless "self-shiok" consider herself as his gf..
Now the girl don't want to let him go...
She almost attempted to commit suicide when my friend asked for break-up...
wtfh???
Anw...i already gave my friend the"don't say i didn't warn you" comment and said "i told you so..."
He understands his mistake...

Our last resort is asking my bestfriend's parents to talk to her...
but if there are other alternatives...
Do share....

PS: Girl's views are encouraged because you guys know more on what that girl is actually thinking and how she thinks...

Straight x Edge...

MiRyung

Maybe he wasn't clear enuff that it's just for fun. Some girls .. if intimacy is involved.. would expect the guy to take some kind of responsibility in the r/ship and acknowledge her as his gf.

Qane

So how do we tell her to stop?

Straight x Edge...

cute wormz

unless she gives up on ur friend herself...maybe get ur friend to do things that make her feel disgusted..things she hate a guy doing...and ask ur friend to show all of his bad habits or even fake bad habits to make her feel disgusted abt ur friend...dun let ur friend to do things like having another relationship or things like this to get rid of her..it might lead to...u know wat i mean

souma

well imo to most girls having sex = being attached with the person alr wat
and to girls imo that is very important oso... then ur frd just go have sex with her like that <.< with no intention of being with her like abit bad leh

even if the situation is that she offered... the guy should have rejected mah

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Moz

=/... oh my what was both of them thinking ...

diesopain

.....i dun think your best friend's gf is a obsessive psycho.....u think for her position....u would have understand how she feels....she is serious about the relationship that is y she had sex with your best friend in hope that your best friend 'll love her even more..or more responsible towards her....but now your best friend play with her...and want to break-up....

Plus your best friend play with fire and got himself burn serve him right anyway y bother.....
Honestly speaking your Best Friend did her wrong....the only way to stop her is to be responsible towards her....otherwise u can try to stop her attempting suicide once...but can u make sure she won't attempt another suicide.....

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souma

i totally agree.. to have sex = make love mah
and im gonna keep my 1st time till marriage i know its old fashion and stuff but i still believe in this

PS:i have a feeling that best friend is u tho =xx

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Sepherline

a despo girl -.-" your friend should continue the "relationship". however, avoid the sex, avoid being (too) good to her, always go MIA...sooner a later she will leave your friend voluntarily

Qane

Well....(Ans some of the post above...)
-The person is not me...hahahah...
-Refuse sex? Tell that to to a horny man who gets alone in a bedroom with the girl and after being seduced...hahhaaha
-Yeah..don worry.. My friend knows he's in the wrong...
-Actually, i volunteered to hang out with him more often so that if the girl msg/call him, he can just say that he is out with friends....
-I'm not open to casual sex either...
But my advices to my friend have only fall on deaf ears...

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anberlin

maybe it is the girls first time and she is feeling apprehensive now about maybe getting pregnant. it could be also that your friend is her first boy friend....

You think you're unsafe but it's not over. Accept for who you are, You are not alone.... There is always beauty in one's imperfections, so do not go hysterical about anything you deemed to see not up to your liking..... I am not one of them....

water-sprite

I disagree.

People have sex during ONS ... Men hook up prostitutes and pay for sex...

Sex = just plain pure PHYSICAL SEXUAL PLEASURE in the form of fornication without any feelings involved.


Make love = sex with feelings and intimacy involved... like the bonding of 2 bodies and souls.....

I don't know what advice to give cus when a girl like this doesn't get what she wants.
She might do crazy shit... who knows?

I heard of this girl who crashed her ex's car into a tree or his house's front gates....
stalked him and even harassed his friends... freaky girl....

apple(:

first.. she needs counselling.. 2nd.. what happened in the past rs will reflect on whats she's doing now.. 3rd.. i dont think she will really die.. 4th tail her but not let her know you and your friend are around her.. then ask yr friend to call and ask for break up.. and tail her see if she's REALLY GOING TO COMMIT SUICIDE... sometime.. girls just love threatening.. so yeahs (:

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Eggtofu

so its about a gal who cant get wad she wants....

the guy.. aiyoh.. make sure u make ur point loud and clear.... girls are sometimes in denial one..lol

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shuangyuren

hmm ...haha mayb ur fren can fake gay ? devastating to the gal if she lost to a "guy "

Loukezxv

o.O hmm TS... ask ur fren to settle himself better.... he likes to play so now let him go handle it himself ba.

from a outsider point of view... i will not help ur fren at all.... want sex ah? now tio fire liao... =X

honestly speaking... i wouldnt encourage any female here to share their views on how to get rid of the gf... -.-"

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DEADevelyn

its his fault!
its nt like he acknowledge wrong jiu can ditch the gal..
the gal have feelings too..

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finaldust

I think the gal is serious but the guy is just playing

it is ur friend fault bah

have to make the girl give up bah

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...