DaNnYbOy

No la. Sign on will be good for him. He will have a comfortable amount of lump sum by the time he end his contract, at the same time more discipline.

No need to be forever inside la. Regulars get to go home. Haha. But still i think service side will be good la.

I am not a regular, i don't advise ppl to sign on actually but to instil some discipline maybe SAF can make him more mature.

I think all of us who went through NS will agree that we tend to miss home food, the wonderful parents who has done alot for us. And we tend to love home and our love ones more.

Maybe by then he will think the same way as you liao. =)

But is a cocky idea to sign on la.

Shyraiiyann

why cocky idea to sign on?


and to ican.
ya.. i agree wif wad ur tryin to say bah.. but, if there is no love i wonnt bother staying, because i'm a very practical person.
he is a freakin gamer, however, there is alot of good sides of him.
Only this is horrible. i didnt want to change him, jusst want to make him understand bah.

if i find someone who haf nth and onli willing to work hard, i think there'll also be other problems. there is no perfect relationship, as far as i know this is quite good for me liaos. tts why i thinkin of ways to make sure the problems we will face in the end be solved asap

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xechizon

NO LA. lol. sign on depends on the nature of work. it might be 5 to 10 year.

(i think that...)
... it would be like work liddat. day in and out can go home.

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xechizon

hmm. most guys are gamers but normally to a certain extend only. hmmm. yes, its very impt for a guy to understand, its normally toooo hard to change. habits are habits.

hmm. prefect relationship might have but not easy to achieve. hmm. i reckon that u 2 sit and talk abt it and think togethers, its better in a way. trashing things out in a way. hurting but might be useful.

just my humble opinion. =D
good luck. u can do it.

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cloudzero

muz realli wake him up man... ahahx..

Shyraiiyann

yeah lor.. hope so bah. anyway thannks for all those advice. its 7 more days to his NS. lets see wad happens then... hahas

i hope he come out crying to me. lOL

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cloudzero

yeah...haha.. all the best.. =)

loonshi

sorry to say but seriously no offence... i jus feel tat that's u dun love yr bf enough... u should b glad that at least he still can tell u his plans.. it doesn't matter at wat age he start workin.. but u should b proud n glad that he still wanna study.. he has plans for his future.. unlike some jus slack all the way doesn't have any plans at all..

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hmmm.. dun mind me saeing this, if u love someone, love him or her for wat that person is, not whether his qualification.. ITE is not really a bad sch, ITE grads also alot of jobs wat.. nt only sweep floor..

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Shyraiiyann

yup. maybe i dont love him enough, but how much is enough?
how enough is enough?

Dreams, many people have, but how many actuali is practical to be realised?
so many ppl wanna strike rich, so mani wan buy ferarri, so mani wan this wan that, wanna be millionair, want kill the mother, kill the father, slap the teacher, but many times, its just say say onli..

i just didnt wan him to continue those dreams that are not practical.

i think u never read everything tts why. Given his damm character, it is quite obvious he is gonna be the same,
he got better talent in tryin to earn so money because at least at work he is hardwork. that is wad i realised.

imagine you have a girlfriend lidat, dun say he never slack all the way, coz he did, he slack for 2 entire years without studyin or goin NS, den after graduatin frm ite, he slack all the way until NS comes. from nov 06 until april 07. no work no nothin, only games, and stayin at home. U worry anot?


How many actuali love ur partner ENOUGH to think and care about his future, because you want his future to be YOUR future also?


yes, i might not love him enough, but thats the most i can give out of myself. i think i know him by the back of my hands so much to know that Studying, is not wad he Likes/want to do, it is something, he THINKS is the correct thingy to do.

at least, thats wad i see, and thats wad he SAID during the times he was studyin.

thanks for the advice though. i understand what u were tryin to bring about to me. :biggrin4:

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