BasTaI2d

I have a question for the ladies here. Well, guys can answer it too.


Is it true that once you have loved somebody with everything you have got, I mean everything......and once that relationship ends, you will never fell in love or can't love another person 101% again?

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taku

Don't quite understand the question, you may love another person giving hin 101% of love, it just wouldn't be the same... It can not be the same with another one... thats it

BasTaI2d

I rephrased it. Sorry if it sounds confusing, basically, it simply means, can you love somebody else again if you've been hurt by someone you truly love?

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Lovely Inn

hmm for me I will still fell in love again but will not give 101% anymore... in order to protect myself..
I rather the other party give me more den I can give him.

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wetdreamx

yeah, be loved more, or you will definitely be the most hurt when the relation fails..
there are more fishes in the pond dude.. there's no 1 indispensable.. get movin' gogo!

GeneKoh

It's not that you cannot love someone 101% again. With time, you can always love someone 101%, if you don't have a conscience or if you're not human.

It's human nature to compare. You can love another person 101% and you'll always eventually end up comparing any new relationships you'll have, to the previous one. And if any problems occur with ur new relationship, you'll always start longing for the previous relationship where the problem didn't happen.

MiRyung

It takes time to heal.
Once bitten, twice shy.
But of course, if the new guy is proving to be much worthy than the first bastard, sure can open the heart 100% (or more) to him.
Love is about taking chances. If we hold back, we might miss out on something great.
So fret not, if you're the second guy that comes along. You stand alot of chance to be The One to make a difference in her life.

tancyee

ya i agree.. falling in love again might be difficult...

but if the guy really proofs that he loves the gal the same as the ex (or vice versa) why not give him a chance?? i believe everyone should be given a chance...

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Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you're going to do now and do it."
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toothburs

Ok... as a guy... i will say no.

At least for me its no, i use to love my ex so much and thought i can't forget her... but after a year without contacting i have finally met my girlfriend now... and i think i love her more than my ex lor

~sakuranbo~

i used to think that after i broke up with my 1st bf, i will nv nv love again.. cos i thought i loved him very much..

but slowly as i start to forget the hurt and pain, i found someone new, and i can say i love him with every bone of mine.. i am definitely giving him 100%..

Sonic Bear

Well u have to learnt to leave yr past behind when starting a new relationship. Never let the past shadow hunt u in your new relationship.

Yes, It takes time to heal but it does not mean that we cnnt go on and love another person wholeheartly again.

give u an example, when u buy a pair of basketball shoe, how do u know how long yr shoe will last ?? Does it mean that when yr shoe is spoilt, u are never going to wear another pair of basketball shoe again?? just a small comparsion....

Hope u understand what i am trying to say....... life's journey is full of ups and downs but along the way, we learnt how to manage our problems and overcome them.

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Casper26

Each Rs, give 101%

khellvinne

i agree with all above. once bitte, twice shy.
also need time to heal...
after my incident not long ago, i'd no more feeling of getting a new relationship,
and abit having this “被爱是幸福，爱人是痛苦” feeling.
so, i wil wait until someday got gal come to me...
that i knw is the true love of mine~

BasTaI2d

Haha, thank you for the comments. Most of the comments made sounded as if it was directed to me.


The reason I asked this question is because a few close friend of mine told me that they can never love again because they loved their other half too damn deep and the scar may never heal. I do agree with what most people have said here.


On a personal level, I give my 110% for every relationship. But looking at how hurt they are, it just makes me wonder if they can ever stand back up again and accept another person.

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