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Old 05-04-2008, 10:00 PM   #1 (permalink)
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ytd got drunk.. accidentally confess. she reply that too sudden le and want to let nature take it course. how? what should i do now?
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Old 05-04-2008, 10:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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confess wad thing 0.o
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love is complicated same goes to u know .
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Old 05-04-2008, 10:06 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Just get normal hangout and start treating her like she is yours.


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Old 05-04-2008, 10:09 PM   #4 (permalink)
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let nature take it course lor.


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Old 05-04-2008, 10:09 PM   #5 (permalink)
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intercourse? =)
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Old 05-04-2008, 10:17 PM   #6 (permalink)
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just have to be consistent in your intereaction with her.
Let nature take its course ba.
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Old 05-04-2008, 10:39 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Old 05-04-2008, 11:22 PM   #8 (permalink)
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u sure u drunk or not? or using alcohol as an excuse to confess? heehee

anyway, u no need do anyting, she already tells u wat to do le rite?

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Old 05-04-2008, 11:36 PM   #9 (permalink)
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drunk den confess? tai xun le. i don tink gals lik it tt way. ermm yap let nature take course is th best? act like nth.

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Old 05-04-2008, 11:40 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: i need advice too... =(

continue with it maybe u can try confess again when u r not drunk lol?

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 05-04-2008, 11:55 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Let nature take dun push her to hard


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Old 06-04-2008, 02:35 AM   #12 (permalink)
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drunk den confess? tai xun le. i don tink gals lik it tt way. ermm yap let nature take course is th best? act like nth.
i know that. but only when i wake up in the morning then i realise $~!~!@$~ jialat liao.
i did had plan for confession.asking her out dinner etc..not suppose to be like ytd. but it happen so too bad .

i sort it out just now.. u all are right.. just be normal.

just one question for the gals here to answer though, if u dun like that guy. straight away u will just reject rite? i mean no point letting the poor guy wait for nothing. i mean i dun want to make thing hard for her. if that was actually a rejection msg, then her words are my command. i mean i dun want one day suddenly i ask for a date.. she will think "thought i make the msg clear" or wat .
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Old 06-04-2008, 02:39 AM   #13 (permalink)
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u think too much. maybe becoz u r too afraid of rejection so u tend to do otherwise. btw u mentioned u sort it out alr, mind if i ask wad actually happened...?

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Old 06-04-2008, 03:33 AM   #14 (permalink)
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u think too much. maybe becoz u r too afraid of rejection so u tend to do otherwise. btw u mentioned u sort it out alr, mind if i ask wad actually happened...?
i admit i think too much. you see i never bother about relationship in the past, so this is my 2nd time of confession. nothing actually happened, i confess , she reply take thing naturally. that all . and i dun want to start up something that might lead to a burden to her.
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Old 06-04-2008, 02:16 PM   #15 (permalink)
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hi hi...
jux 1 2 share my view here....
u made a BIG mistake, confusin when drunk....
u had left a very BAD impression unless she really like u v v much...

the worst s to pretend nothin had happened afterwarrds....
it s like showin ur irresponsibility for the words n actions u took....
when u r sober, u pretend, it s bad enough....
when u r drunk, u pretnd, it s REAL BAD already....
tat wont happened unless she really like u v v much....

no point cryin over spilled milk....
if i were u, as a gentleman,
take the heat all the way....
admit to her tat u r drunk tat day n had confess to her...
tell her tat u had made a terrible mistake doin tat....
but the mistake is the drunk part, not the confession part....
tell her tat u noe u will probably made a v grave mistake n realised tat it will sort of reflect u as been insincerce n probably a jerk who haf no guts but to resort to drinkin to take a certain advantage....
apologise but confess to her about ur feelings towards her....
u had done it wrongly earlier, n u had to make it up to urself n her in a sober manner....
i think by doin tat will improve the overall situation....
u can choose not to follow it, or will feel embrassed or simply dun haf the courage....
but u will surely grab tis opportuniy if u really like her v v much....

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Old 06-04-2008, 03:21 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Maybe she thinks you're joking / don't mean it because you were drunk.
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Old 06-04-2008, 04:20 PM   #17 (permalink)
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not good. she will think u not sincere de..
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Old 06-04-2008, 05:14 PM   #18 (permalink)
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hi hi...
jux 1 2 share my view here....
u made a BIG mistake, confusin when drunk....
u had left a very BAD impression unless she really like u v v much...

the worst s to pretend nothin had happened afterwarrds....
it s like showin ur irresponsibility for the words n actions u took....
when u r sober, u pretend, it s bad enough....
when u r drunk, u pretnd, it s REAL BAD already....
tat wont happened unless she really like u v v much....<