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Old 07-04-2008, 03:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

If one of your friend is dead, and u still have him or her in your facebook or friendster list..
what will u do? will u erase it? or u will just keep it?
coz i actually want to erase it.. but kinda hard to click the delete link
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Old 07-04-2008, 03:27 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

Keep lor no harm keeping it as a memory being part of ur life.....and leave comments even though he cant log on anymore....
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Old 07-04-2008, 03:27 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

i don't know, but delete seems so.... practical of a person. being dead doesn't mean he/she is no longer your friend right? how long is errm, your friend dead? hope this doesn't sound too blunt. if it's a recent thing, then maybe you should wait (if very long, maybe can delete)
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Old 07-04-2008, 03:57 PM   #4 (permalink)
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i don't know, but delete seems so.... practical of a person. being dead doesn't mean he/she is no longer your friend right? how long is errm, your friend dead? hope this doesn't sound too blunt. if it's a recent thing, then maybe you should wait (if very long, maybe can delete)
actually i've lost quite a few last year.. and they died just like that.. and the issue that makes me thinks that all my friends that die last year, all of them is really a good person, no smoking, no drugs, no drinking, (maybe theres one taking ecstasy regulary) still around 20-25, and one morning they just dont wake up anymore...
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Old 07-04-2008, 04:07 PM   #5 (permalink)
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actually i've lost quite a few last year.. and they died just like that.. and the issue that makes me thinks that all my friends that die last year, all of them is really a good person, no smoking, no drugs, no drinking, (maybe theres one taking ecstasy regulary) still around 20-25, and one morning they just dont wake up anymore...
hi there vitro_tan, i get what you mean, even though i haven't been through anything like yours (yeah, relatives died, but some are those i never heard of, and stuff like that. my family is very big. i have more than 50 uncles and aunties, if you really go count them all). you mean, it's something like, "natural death" kind? but of course it's not natural. i hope you can cope on well (if you need, all of us are here for you). people come and go, and now what you can do is remember them well (maybe don't delete them. whenever you see it, you will remember the happy things of them)
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Old 07-04-2008, 04:16 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

i'll kip it. cos thy r stil my friends. and will browse their page occasionally when i miss them.

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Old 07-04-2008, 06:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
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keep liao...
the reason u add him/her to ur friendster, facebook s becos he/she s ur frd...
when he/she dies, surely both of u r still frds ya...

death ends a life....
love n frdship doesnt....

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Old 07-04-2008, 07:05 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i will keep them....treasure ur friends preciously
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Old 07-04-2008, 07:11 PM   #9 (permalink)
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i'll still keep them on my list.. OF COZ.

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Old 07-04-2008, 07:21 PM   #10 (permalink)
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death ends a life....
love n frdship doesnt....


yeah, i will keep them for sure! they are my friends!! why did you even think of deleting them..
i like the quote david gave, it's very true~

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Old 07-04-2008, 10:30 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

i will keep too...
but kind of weird to see birthday reminder of ur fren who is already dead.
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Old 07-04-2008, 10:56 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

keep bah at least u know they r still friends no matter where they go

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 08-04-2008, 12:38 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

well, i haven encounter this kind of event, but i will still keep it.
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Old 08-04-2008, 12:46 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: n friendster What will u do with ur friend's list iwhen they already gone (dead)?

keep definitely. my friend passed away last year and up till now, I still have her HP contact and emails. It's just my way of remembering her cos she was a wonderful person.


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