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Old 18-04-2007, 08:09 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Loving an older man...

what do you guys think? is it appropriate? say if the guy is 15 yrs older than u...is there true love?


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Old 18-04-2007, 08:11 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Loving an older man...

there can be true love lahz.. but i think it'll be quite rare..
love conquers all.. n i believe tt we all have a soul mate out there..


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Old 18-04-2007, 09:38 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Loving an older man...

i think there might be true love.. as long as u'r able to communicate.. be able to stay with the partner til both of u age.. be willing to take care of him (since he is so much older..) and of coz be able to handle harsh remarks since it's not the social norm.. but in the media, ppl usually critise those young socialites who get married to old men a slut or juz insterested in their money..
i've a fren who is only 20 this year and she's with this taxi "uncle" for a few years. her bf is not very gd looking.. doesn't earn a lot.. 17 years older than her.. and yet their relationship still seem to be quite smooth going.. and i juz receive the news that she's pregnant thus getting married soon.. i think only time will tell whether such love is true.. but we cannot totally deny the existance of true love in such relationships..
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Old 18-04-2007, 09:48 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Loving an older man...

If you're 15 and he's 30 - no way.

If you're 25 and he's 40, not so bad.

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Old 18-04-2007, 10:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Well as long as both of them love each other should be ok like I got a friend cousin who got married to a guy older than her 16 years and she just 24 this year but she dun mind how people look at them.
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Old 18-04-2007, 11:09 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Age matters for true love??

its subjective bahz...frankly if its true love...nothing ever matters except the bond between e 2 of u. its not how old u r or he is, nor is it how rich u r etc. Its abt understanding and loving each other for whom u r. Who are we to say that true love cannot happen for a couple who are 20 or more years apart in age??


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Old 19-04-2007, 02:52 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Well, I didn't say that age matters. It's just that if the girl is too young...I mean, is she really mature enough to judge for herself?

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Old 19-04-2007, 02:10 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i agree.. 15 is too young ar. Not even reached 18 for maturity -.-

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Old 19-04-2007, 02:12 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Age gap is not a problem But it'll depends on the age of the girl, is she underage? Then it is not advisable.

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Old 19-04-2007, 02:40 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: Loving an older man...

Yes, 15 may be young to judge for herself, but yet there are also a handful of people who get matured way early, even when they're still in secondary school. I believe it all depends on each individuals upbringing and how much they have learnt and know about this society.

In fact, I do think that age is not a matter. So long a clear understanding is there and that the relationship is mature enough.. I believe things will work out fine..
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Old 19-04-2007, 02:52 PM   #11 (permalink)
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yap. There is no limitation for a love to blossom . But having said that , can a age 15 young little ger really assure that , the man she fallen in love to , really love her ? Or should he have some other ultimate motive behind his beloving front.

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Old 19-04-2007, 02:57 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: Loving an older man...

age is not a problem. i ever have a bf whose age is way older dan me


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Old 19-04-2007, 09:07 PM   #13 (permalink)
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age is not a problem. i ever have a bf whose age is way older dan me

mind me for being kpo,so wat is ur age n ur bf age then?...hehehe


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Old 20-04-2007, 03:58 PM   #14 (permalink)
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