Love turned Obsession - Singapore's Online Community

**Itsygo** · 27-03-2008, 03:15 PM

Let me start with my story.

There's this girl that I really like in school.But I'm only going to make my move after the major exams at the end of this year. A few nights ago, I had a dream whereby she was taken away by someone else. I was forced to watch their new life together and they both seemed happy about it. I woke up and started crying for awhile.

Usually everyday at school I would make at least 1 small conversation with her.But now I feel like there's a wall blocking me. I couldn't face her because of the fear of rejection and pain. It's not as if I can't concentrate on anything else but I feel like my heart could break anytime I see her with another guy.

Anyone experienced or is experiencing it?

**YNWA** · 27-03-2008, 04:23 PM

u sound super young......

blahblahblah · 27-03-2008, 05:02 PM

dude .. do your homework .. stop thinking bout such things lol

**sgelite** · 27-03-2008, 05:25 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Itsygo
	Let me start with my story. ....... I was forced to watch their new life together and they both seemed happy about it. I woke up and started crying for awhile. .................................................. .But now I feel like there's a wall blocking me. I couldn't face her because of the fear of rejection and pain. It's not as if I can't concentrate on anything else but I feel like my heart could break anytime I see her with another guy.

I think you are being stressed out by the exam preparations and you are now over anticipating. Just relax and take some deep breaths.

Exams and relationship should be separated for now. You should just remain normal and casual as you have always been. Do not be over conscious on what is to come and the outcome. Dreams are just dreams no one is going to rob away your opportunities be it your exams or relationship. It makes no difference, whatever will be, will be. Just do what you have to do and let the results come back in due time.

misterKIDDY · 27-03-2008, 06:30 PM

yea , by your thread's name i know that you can think*.

**sarcastic** · 27-03-2008, 07:26 PM

school? imho, better concentrate on ur studies.
there are still years to come leh.

**Peuan Sanit** · 27-03-2008, 07:33 PM

Relationships can come later. Right now you should concentrade on your studies. Be a normal friend to her and see where it leads.

**xRebornZ** · 27-03-2008, 08:27 PM

haiz dude.. jus focus on ur studies la.. lol.. thinking too much oso bad for u de..

**Kelis** · 27-03-2008, 08:38 PM

since most comments suggest tt u shuld concentrate on ur exams & studies r more important, let me give a comment fr another perspective. if u feel lik tis thing keeps bother ur mind n is affectin ur studyin, y not take a big step lik a man n confirm if she is the rite one for u rite now? tis will end ur prob fast. but she is also into studies, so she might not want tis kind of things rite now, which is also y u need not worry bout some1 else goin into a relationship wif her 1st, but still depends on her char. if not, u shuld calm ur heart down til exams end, by den if she is still single, fate will bring u 2 together if u 2 r meant to be together

**sarcastic** · 28-03-2008, 01:00 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Kelis
	fate will bring u 2 together if u 2 r meant to be together

wow, sorry for being crude. i dunno now still got ppl believe in fate.

**LReaction** · 28-03-2008, 04:00 AM

Hey, I'm 20years old and living your dream! XD

SupahStrider · 28-03-2008, 04:21 AM

ask her so you could get this over with.

yunise · 28-03-2008, 01:43 PM

just don care abt ur dream.

haha.

**mxstryker** · 28-03-2008, 01:47 PM

if shes urs, shes urs, if not let her go, u can also love her by letting her go

YoursTruly · 28-03-2008, 02:38 PM

Do someting den, bro! Be more initiative. Jia you!

**Casper26** · 28-03-2008, 02:45 PM

Ask her str8. Once and for all resolve your issue.
No point thinking about this and that; letting imagination run wild than studying.

If you wanna wait til end of this year, you might as well start forgetting her and concentrate on your studies.
When it comes to feelings; there ain't anything predictable.

haunted2 · 28-03-2008, 04:19 PM

Study for exams 1st la then settle it -.-'''

**TotalNV** · 28-03-2008, 07:12 PM

it's definitely not an easy thing to just cast her aside and concentrate on your studies... yeah, it's a textbook answer... 'concentrate on your studies'! so i know how you feel.

as hurtful as this may seem, it looks like you don't really have much choices. at the end of the day, if you fare poorly for your grades, the girl ain't going to compensate you for anything. so yeah.... put it aside... cry all you want, then when you wake up next morning, hit the books!