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Old 30-06-2007, 12:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Love + Sex = Relationships? Commitment?

Hey ppl, i got a question here see whether anyone can find the best answers?
Love + Sex = ??
Hmm.. wot do you think?
I got some friends male and female who attached up to 13 years without sex in their life. Some even married couple and they claim having normal lifetime relationship as hubby and wifey. Wot do you have in mind? Do you think its normal? Do you think real love do exist without sex?
For me i cant live without sex honestly. BUT only with the man i love.
If your man or woman refused to have sex with you but still claim they love you, how do you feel? Dang.. im confused. HELP!!
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Old 30-06-2007, 12:15 PM   #2 (permalink)
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love doesn't mean must have sex... sex is just a physical way of 'thing' in life... i have frens who's dating but nvr have sex together at all... they wait till their marriage day before 'having'... to them, its' an enjoyment that both will like, especially on a 'special' day...

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Old 30-06-2007, 12:29 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hi What about sex without love would be precious and lasting? There's nothing precious and lasting about sex unless you love the person, so I think the answer to this is pretty obvious.

I think I'd rather be with someone I love and I'm in love with and not have sex with them rather than have sex with someone I don't care about and be alone forever .

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Old 30-06-2007, 12:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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sex is merely sex, without love, but love is still love, without sex..

how you balance, and allow urself to commit, all depends on your love for the other party.
and with or without sex,
you can STILL make commitmentss.

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Old 30-06-2007, 12:48 PM   #5 (permalink)
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sex is merely sex, without love, but love is still love, without sex..

how you balance, and allow urself to commit, all depends on your love for the other party.
and with or without sex,
you can STILL make commitmentss.
i have to agree..


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Old 30-06-2007, 12:49 PM   #6 (permalink)
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btw, thanks TS for finally makin a topic ppl COULD discuss, there's barely anything these days, all we could do was read and say "how touchin"
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Old 30-06-2007, 01:04 PM   #7 (permalink)
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sometimes with sex is better in relationship to stay close. But love is more important.

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Old 30-06-2007, 01:48 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Guys want ---> sex
Girls want ---> love

sex + love = guy + gal?
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Old 30-06-2007, 02:03 PM   #9 (permalink)
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well to have love and no sex involved= possible, but sex with no love= miserable... So therefore I would say that love+sex= happily forever. :biggrin4:

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Old 30-06-2007, 02:55 PM   #10 (permalink)
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having sex = making love.

I believe making love is a process of making the couple one step closer to each other.


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Old 30-06-2007, 03:05 PM   #11 (permalink)
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hmm... i have been in long term relationships without sex before. but i was young then.

for me, i would say sex comes naturally when 2 persons are deeply in love. but if one day my husband or boyfriend is unable to have sex (physical reasons), i will NOT leave him.

Happiness is not found at the end of the road, it is experienced along the way.

So take not for granted each moment of your life and you will find a reason to be happy each day.
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Old 30-06-2007, 06:54 PM   #12 (permalink)
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mmm, then what abt those who have sex alrdy but are not married yet. will it be harder to break away or rather break up with the other cuz they feel that it's like a commitment kinda thing? :shifty3:

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Old 30-06-2007, 07:35 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Without love, sex is just nothing!

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