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Old 29-06-2007, 12:37 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default love before 1st sight..??

so far i've heard of love at 1st sight.. but it's the 1st time i heard of this:

recently my gf got to knew a guy online.. exchange numbers.. he din even know how my gf looks like.. they nv meet.. and my gf din even show him her photos.. in fact they barely know each for a few days.. but he's already doing stuff like:

- smsing and smsing and smsing AND smsing her many times a day

- treating her like his gf (telling her dat he miss her, referring to her as his ger, even saying he wanna hug her..!!)

i could be wrong.. but he's trying to woo my gf.. rite? at least dat's wat she and i feel.. so.. is this normal..?? has anyone of u encounter this before? either wooing someone whom u totally has no clue how he/she looks.. or being wooed by someone who totally dunno how u looks like?

my poor gf.. she only wants to be normal fren.. but.. haiz.. any advice and suggestions? thanks in advance..

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Old 29-06-2007, 01:49 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: love before 1st sight..??

I think maybe ur girl friend should state only wan purely make friends bah lol

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 29-06-2007, 01:54 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I think maybe ur girl friend should state only wan purely make friends bah lol
either that or ignore the person?:handsup:
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Old 29-06-2007, 02:22 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: love before 1st sight..??

she shld tell him that she only treats him as a friend. i think hes sorta despo since he treats ur gf as his gf even though they never met before. either that or hes those 'soft' type, as in he does that to all of his friends.

perharps he's bored since he smses her so many times a day. or yeah, as you stated, trying to woo her although they never met before.

i think the best way is still to tell him that she treats him as a friend only.. tell him not to think so much.

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Old 29-06-2007, 02:57 AM   #5 (permalink)
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hmm...jus state is clear that she jus wanna make friends i think that should be fine
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Old 29-06-2007, 12:42 PM   #6 (permalink)
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cyber relationship?u must let ur girl know and to draw the line before that guy misunderstood and go overboard.

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Old 29-06-2007, 12:45 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: love before 1st sight..??

hmm... some guys may just coz of 'flirting'... I guess is veri common esp on cyber world like msn friendster etc... As others says, it's better for your fren to let the other party know that she is just purely searching for friends... or a cruel way, tell him that she aleady had a bf, and ask him not to sms her this type of things anymore... as her bf may finds out etc..
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Old 29-06-2007, 01:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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It's pretty common but this guy might just be reading the wrong signs from your girlfriend.

Perhaps she can try by not replying his messages so often or when he tried to romance her by saying he misses her or something, she can reply back with a serious tonewith a change of subject so he might get the hint.

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Old 29-06-2007, 02:22 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Like many sgclubbers have mentioned here, make it real clear to the guy. I think he's quite desperate, that's why... If all else fail, no choice but has to ignore him le, then only will he get the hint..
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Old 29-06-2007, 04:02 PM   #10 (permalink)
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:speechless: SOunds gross to mi.Why not arrange for a meet-up and send ur gf's ah ma over? Haha..
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Old 29-06-2007, 05:04 PM   #11 (permalink)
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gf ah ma.. thats bad to do tat leh.. online guys are always tat flirt and despo de.. i oso encounter a few, n i just told thm directly i wan to be pure frds with thm thn they just ignore le lor.. they just wan to find a gf or bf. tats all

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Old 29-06-2007, 05:05 PM   #12 (permalink)
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:speechless: SOunds gross to mi.Why not arrange for a meet-up and send ur gf's ah ma over? Haha..
Hahaha.....
Wait he really go and hug her ah ma how???
Then this guy become her ah gong in the end how???
Hahahaha......
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Old 29-06-2007, 05:16 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I don't think such relationship will turn out well. Though it seems possible, but yea, the chances are real slim.

For me, a definite no.

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