Raidaime

Back in few months ago,
Me and my clique fall out recently because of some quarreling.
Now, it's been months since i last talked to them.

I told my one of the girl in the clique that they had neglected me because recently they had been talking & together with their NPCC mates. I felt a bit jealous but more upset because it seemed like they spend more time with them than me. One day i told them on MSN how i felt & i actually said i hate them.. so 1 of the girl printed out the whole chat log and showed to the clique.. and they never talked to me since then.

Sometimes i really feel like talking & be together with again, but i'm afraid they won't talk to me, and instead, detest hate me more.
Right now, everyday in school i could see them happily together during the recess.
I guessed they have moved on, and i think i should too.
And at the same time again, i'm afraid of losing them.
After my N level, i'm leaving school for ITE next year, i wouldn't be seeing them anymore! Was it my fault for all this thing that had happened?

I am so tired of seeing people hating each other and backstabbing people in school..
sigh!

TeoJY

chill mate.
im working and the politics are much more than u are having right now.
nv stress urself out with this kind of small problems. treat them as ur HI BYE friend.
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DEADevelyn

I gt yr prob b4..
n i guess others too.
go find other clique..
maybe those in yr class or sch whom r understanding n nt so childish..
somehow u wil find yr wae..
trust me..
focus on yr studies.
find ppl tt wil motivate u in yr studies n stuff liddat..
tt tym i n them quarrelled.
i stayed away from them from months..
till they asked me to go back.
but i refused.
but stil found my wae back.
but somehow now also drifting..
when u grad..
u wil have new frens n wun be so close wif yr old clique aniwae.
juz focus on yr studies for now!!
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ScryonX

its already been a few months so yeah you should move on dude.
if you really miss them and would like to get back to them, muster your courage and talk nicely and sincerely to them. tell them what you have done wrong, explain everything clearly. but if they refuse to listen, i guess its a sign you should forget about them too.

cheers.

Raidaime

But, if i tell them i wanted to get back with them, they'll probably think that:
What you said and what you had done all this time, now you want us to BELIEVE You again? No more second chance!

And if i don't talk to them they will ALSO think:

He doesn't talk to us because he's guilty and doesn't dare to face us.

Haiz..

Morrot

oO.. jus becos your friends talk with other friends make you feel neglected?? waaa.. don be so sensitive ma.. but your friend which you trust and spoke with her about how you feel did the wrong thing too.. printing out a private conversation and showed it to others... i guess maybe the friends you preceive are not your friends.. not worth it to be your friend.. so move on with your life... also do keep your heart open and make lot of friends without putting in too much emotion and pressure into it

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hooolahoop

you just have to muster your courage, and talk to them. really. i had a similar case (just with one person from the clique), and we didn't quite talk for the entire year. went to same jc at first, kinda got talk, but not one-to-one. then, we never talk for the next 2 years. after that, when we went to class gathering, we put that thing behind, and became friends again. i mean, don't expect everything to be the same as before. but, it's better for you to acknowledge your fault... even if you're not entirely to blame etc.

i told my friend off for flirting too much with my buddy ('cos he got retained due to his illness; can't afford to play that much when he lost most of his knowledge on the subjects and it was O levels that year). and my friend was pissed, and she told everybody i called her a b***h. i'm not that kind who will use vulgarity, but then again, my friend is some popular girl, so everybody believed her. my last year was torturous, but i still tolerate those bullying etc, 'cos i know, it's not worth to sacrifice my studies just for some lousy statement somebody made....

corp25

ah dude

the same problem as me..

but my was that i got into a fight with one of my best pal..
and i decided not to stay together with them.. since there were many hatred..
but after my N level, i still contact some of them.. but not that close any more

find true friends..

true friends who are always there to help no matter..and not friends that neglect you for a simple misunderstanding or a small qurell

Stanstan

its not as messy as u thought, if im u i will be glad, to see through someone.. I mean.. although i might be disappointed at the same time

s t a n

joann.sienna

n_o_r_i_k_o

arrr... maybe they are waiting for u to approach them again??
cos u said u hate them??
so they dun wan to make u hate them more... (so they chose to leave u??)

this kind of feeling sux...
i been through this before
where my whole group of friends suddenly condemned me... lol...
but lucky for me.. we managed to talk it out..
and so...
take the first step... try talking to them bah...

gnelak

concentrating on such matters can really jeopardise your chances of getting good grades. like what many above me have said, such things happen in life now and then so don't brood over it. Perhaps it's the chance for you to make new friends? Also, since you did mention to one of your friend that you hate them, naturally they would have a negative reaction against you. If you really do cherish this friendship, then pluck up the courage to have a chat with them again. At least, even if they do not forgive you, u know that you have tried your best.

All the best yeah!

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Raidaime

Thank you everyone for all the advices and concern!!
I've decided to moved on no matter..
because somtimes talking to my girl-friend won't help ..tsk.

Once again, thanks everyone.
i felt so better after reading everyone's replies..^_^

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