xueren

ppl,especially girls, do u like it when your date or yr bf only contact u last minute about a date?
(on the day of the date without informing you prior to the day of the date).how do u feel?

is he treating u as a spare tyre ? or that you are not important to him and he isnt that interested in u?for girl,if you want to play hard to get and dont wanna appear that available for dates, would u agree to the date if he only contacts u in the morning and asks u out in the evening?

what is the best arrangement for a date? how many days in advance is considered appropriate when fixing a date?how about guys ? how do you all arrange dates with yr gf? last-minute? or many days in advance to seek her agreement?

silencedreamer

i won't mind if my bf suddenly wants to see me at the last min lahz.. esp if long time never see him liaoz.. but if he always do tt n make me rush liddat, i'll feel pissed off after a while.
usually my bf will ask me a few days before.. or at least the day before lorz.. so tt both of us got time to plan for the next day..

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prince_piggy

agree..haha..

xueren

he did ask me a few days before..but not concrete plans as in confirming the time and venue/

personally i dont like it when he plans date at the eleventh hour..it doesnt reflect his sincerity and interest in me........especialy when we are not offically a couple yet and he should put in more efforts and times in dating and wooing me...

tangerinez

if it is only a date, not yet a boyfriend, yes i would mind. even if i free, i might say i not free. if not he think i got no life, very easy to woo me.

if it is boyfriend, all my time is reserved for him anyway, so if he can meet me at the last minute, i will surely meet him, unless i already have something very important on

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Kayerth

I dun think i mind much but i would abit if he was supposed to meet his friends or what but end up his friends couldn't make it then finds mwe out, i would feel as though i'm juz an extra thingy fer him..

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fuyumi

if I'm not doing anything then why not? I always get last minute outings from friends and as long as they don't make it look like I'm their spare tyre every single time then it's fine. If they make an effort to meet for the sake of spending quality time as friends, why not?

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finaldust

some ppl wan to give their parnter surprises ma so they prepare and wait until last minute then ask u out de

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

sihwee

sometimes i'll mind, sometimes i dont.
for example, if he ask me out last min but when i'm late, he still gets angry. then i'll be v pissed.

i gort a fren who asked me out last min and i was late for like 1 hr. but my fren didnt mind. lol

queenie

I might not go.

DONT respesct enough for ME.

I wanna feel as de most IMPORTANT want !

Lonely_Guy

no i dont tink tat way.. cox u will nv knw, whether last min wat will happen.. anyting will happen.. if u plan le, nv go.. also lyk tat.. rain? no movie ticket? no $$$? no time due 2 sch? or watever.. all sort of thingy will happen last min de.. so i dont tink tat last min = spare tyre!!! if tat the way, i wont even ask u not.. spare tyre mean waste $$$.. so it jux tat the women is so sensitive le ba.. Hehe.. =D

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xechizon

Nah. calling up a date last minute.. i dun think it called spare tire. Its just like "hey we should just go out and have fun" since both not doing anything or just staying in at home.

Same for my friends, last min rounding up every1. And just say lets go out. Its surely more fun that way. sometimes its just hard to plan things in advance.

i like to think on the fly. =D

just my 2 cents.

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wenwen

i think it depends on how both treat the r/s..
of cos if u feel that the guy is not really into u... then u sure will feel that it's a last min date..
but if the guy is really someone who dun like to plan ahead then u might have misunderstood him as treating u as a spare tire..
but if u think he is treating u as one then maybe can let him know u dun like such last min date?? if not u can just reject him direct.. to let him know u r not always 24/7 there for him??

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Shyraiiyann

y last min cannot eh. last min cancel maybe i cant take it, otherwise, I'm okay wif last min stuff though my bf never does tt, he ADVANCED booking me since forever, once he book out of camp, first person he see will be me, last person will be me too. MUAHAHHAHA

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