afiy

i still don't know why people like to use violence to settle problems .

i mean in my school when u did something wrong . u face the music and either getting beaten by whole lot of group or one to one sparring session at secret area or toilet .

or some even if people not happy with u they will tend to use "u watch out before i whacked u"

IMO
its like plain childish to me . for nothing u get bruises all over the body and waste ur parents money and demoralised ur parents reputation .
or even a police case .
why can't they use verbal to settle disagreement issues ?
it stuppid .

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Kaze.YonGMinG

but but.. this is complain zone. LOL

anyways... they think they're still in barbarian age where fist fight decides everything
in sg quite okay liao.. at least... ah bengs still scare of police

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just like what u said, they are childish..

Their mindset are not mature yet =)

afiy

why can't they use verbal instead to settle disagreement ?

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debbielmy

WAHAHA

so true.

like fighting u break a limb you'll feel cooler?

using violence just shows tt you're a whimp

can't settle things calmly.

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Sillyporeans

It's either they are in SS, which they like to use violence to bully the weak or they are still kids and their brain have not fully developed yet.

tkdg3

You know, sometimes when you get into huge arguments and tempers flare, its quite difficult to stop yourself from wanting to strike out at the other person.

It's easier said than done to settle things peacefully when your full of emotion and cant think properly. I'm sure everyone's been in a situation where things get so heated that you lose control of yourself and shout vulgarities or behave inappropriately to vent your anger

stinky_shawn

well cant say sg justice system is so right also...who can say that raise ur hand...violence against the weak or elderly i dont agree...but against an equal...i say.....oh helll yeah....some people need to know where they are placed after an old fashion beating....

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nono

remember..

middle age like 30+ also use violence sometimes

if too angry.. violence will always be there xD

but if those small thing.. BERII CHILDLISH TO USE VIOLENCE !

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freedomkira

Always use legal method to solve. If they threaten, immediately send for the police.

If a fight break out, then fight to defend. Don't entertain group/ arranged fight. A fight should occur spontaneously. When dat happens, you won't be fighting with emotions, it's more like natural instinct. Hence it won't turn u into aggressive person.

Go pick up some self-defense course.

Verbally solve issues should only happen when the other party is ready to heed.


*the fighting thing might be profound 4u to understand.. try reading martial art book for more insights.

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stinky_shawn

martial arts...partial arts.... it all boils down to individual...fight or flight....u hv it or u dnt hv it... actions speaks louder than words?....sg society is breaking down becoz we always depend on ppl...like we depend on police..if police fail we only blame them....but we nvr blame our self....

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They don't know how to explain with words.
they thought violence = control

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freedomkira

Agree. We're always our own first line of defense. Start taking up ur own responsibility.

Agree. Violent is used bcos it has become their last resort.

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Weiwei

what u mean by "u face the music" ?

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haloez141

simply because they cant reason well with their mouth. as a result they have to resort to violence to settle their dispute.