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Old 25-08-2007, 12:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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how do you guys deal with a close or good friend of yours who have a habit of/mostly never reply your missed calls and SMSes AT ALL? have you guys ever experienced this? how do you feel?

for me, i've this good female friend of mine who seems to have a habit of not replying my SMSes and missed calls. and whenever i called her back again and she answers the call, she will say that she has forgotten to reply. but most of the time this has kept happening over and over again.

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Old 25-08-2007, 02:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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lolz. why bother? if i sms my friend and he/she nv reply. i just dun bother. unless you're interested in that person. lolz. but they need to have their own time space also ma. cannot possible like expect them to reply everytime right?

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Old 25-08-2007, 08:37 AM   #3 (permalink)
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i experienced that too .. and i my self some time also will forget to reply back the sms~s or missed call .... bec some time i m busying for my work... and after work , seriously too tired already ... thus forgot abt all the call or sms i have missed out

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Old 25-08-2007, 09:15 AM   #4 (permalink)
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i will definitely reply sms
but for missed calls, it depends whether is that number familiar or not...haha
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Old 25-08-2007, 09:35 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I agreed with Kaiten... Unless u interested in that some1... that if he/she nvr reply, u will feel sad or whatever ba... if just a normal friend even though she/he is close to me, I will not bother if she/he answer or reply my sms lor...

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Old 25-08-2007, 09:53 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Most Thai gals I know have that habit of not replying SMS or returning missed calls. It happened so often that if they reply the sms or return the calls, I will be surprise.

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Old 25-08-2007, 02:05 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: just enquiring..

i never reply to miss calls, but will reply to sms. but depends on what contents for the smses. importance of the sender etc. if i do not reply to that sms....most prob i felt that the sender / msg is not important~ as easy as that.
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Old 25-08-2007, 02:55 PM   #8 (permalink)
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sometimes people are really busy. they say they forget means they forget.. what to do? they are good friends to us.
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Old 25-08-2007, 03:05 PM   #9 (permalink)
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haa. i will see whether if it is important first. i will tend to forget to reply sms.

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Old 25-08-2007, 03:30 PM   #10 (permalink)
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This people are the can't be bothered with you unless you are a important person kind. It's how they put and level you in their heart. The fact is, the person does not feel that you are so important to her that she needs to give you the attention straight away. do be careful.

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Old 25-08-2007, 09:41 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Most Thai gals I know have that habit of not replying SMS or returning missed calls. It happened so often that if they reply the sms or return the calls, I will be surprise.

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Old 26-08-2007, 09:54 PM   #12 (permalink)
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sometimes might be really forgot. sometimes might be purposly dun wan reply or ans de but when finally ans is bo bian, press tio the button or wad. hahax.


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Old 26-08-2007, 11:20 PM   #13 (permalink)
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hmmm for me i'll take it as it is..anyway is just a fren..hmmm but if is gf or bf then should demand more..coz is e person that u would want to live together forever...but for me...i will at leaast sms the person...ask if there's anything important...hmmm
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Old 26-08-2007, 11:43 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Ha! (No offense here.) If she is your good friend, then I am certain that you are not in her good friend list unless her cell phone does not have caller id but cannot say the same for the SMSes right?. She is totally irresponsible and purely taking you as transparent. Sorry, but I really cannot condone to this kind of response from any friends of mine. I have a good mind to tick and write her off if I were you. Anyway that decision of what you want to do next is totally yours and yours alone.:disgust2:


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Old 27-08-2007, 11:58 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: just enquiring..

well... i am also guilty of that charge. sometimes i do 'forgot' to reply sms. unless the message is really important. sometimes, also because i am still thinking of how to reply then later forgotten.

if i am the sender, i will probably just send another one like 'so how? what do you say?' or 'oi! got receive my sms or not?'

ah... dun forget that sometimes sms can go 'missing'. especially between singtel and m1, somehow they just 'dun like' each other....
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Old 27-08-2007, 06:36 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Sorry, i myself is someone who doesnt reply calls or sms i've missed out on.

especially when i'm in a foul/not so good mood, i silent my phone and leave it aside, until i totally forget where my phone is.
Later i pick it up, and see, but wont reply. dont see the use of replyin over-due smses.

important ones will call my house.

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