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03-07-2008, 02:11 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 38 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 65.48 |  $$ issues for couples..
Am wondering how to couples manage their finances..For eg. having meals together outside, do you pay for your own just pay for both? Expenses (eg. watching movies)? | 
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03-07-2008, 02:15 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 702 Gender:
Total SGC$: 662.03 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
My guy pay for all =x my wants, food, movies, other entertainment
>< unless i got work, i wil treat him a day - movies, dinner, entertainment | |
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03-07-2008, 03:32 PM
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| | Dolp Lagoon Mistress
Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,486 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,141.05 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
If both working and earning a comfortable pay, then maybe sometimes go dutch, sometimes girl treat, sometimes guy treat. =)
But if one is earning a starkly lower pay or not working, then the other party might automatically want to treat the former.. Tho have to be done in moderation lah...
(I had an ex in my poly days, who kept depending on me for treats, when I don't even come from a well-to-do family nor earn any income, except from tuitioning ppl)  Those who say they care really don't. Because those who do, don't need words to justify their actions.
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04-07-2008, 01:24 AM
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| | the labi
Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 5,071 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 8,487.45 |  Re: $$ issues for couples..
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by yohurt | | | | | | Am wondering how to couples manage their finances..For eg. having meals together outside, do you pay for your own just pay for both? Expenses (eg. watching movies)? | | | | | managin finances will b more than payin for meals or expenses like watchin movies...or who to pay wat etc...
since tis s in the $$$$ section, do u meant by financial plannin within a couple???
in case u r mistaken, insurance s not financial plannin in full...  i like to START A MATURE THEMED FORUM for MATURE issues...
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04-07-2008, 08:30 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 38 Gender:
Total SGC$: 65.48 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
Hmm..i guess for bf/gf it revolves around paying for meals and expenses when going out bah..the part abt serious finances will be more for married couples bah.. | |
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04-07-2008, 11:01 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 53 Gender:
Total SGC$: 27.00 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
For movies, etc, if it is a show my bf suggested to see, he pay for the tickets. If it is a movie I suggest to see, I would pay for the tickets.
As for meals, if we eat at restaurants, he paid. If we eat at food court or coffee shop, I paid cos he not cash-rich but card-rich.. always dun carry cash with him  .
As for finance planning, too early to think about it no. Wait for after marriage bah. | |
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04-07-2008, 12:08 PM
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| | Experienced SGClubber
Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,619 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,500.14 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
Think it should be depending on earning power too, it's ok if you pay lesser, but never never din pay at all.  To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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04-07-2008, 12:52 PM
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| | Experienced SGClubber
Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,481 Gender: Location: High above the Mucky Muck
Total SGC$: 1,778.52 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by dolp | | | | | | (I had an ex in my poly days, who kept depending on me for treats, when I don't even come from a well-to-do family nor earn any income, except from tuitioning ppl) | | | | | Well good thing he's an ex then.
As for myself, I pay most of the time, makan, movies, entertainment, holidays. My gf shares the costs by paying for these things sometimes, and by driving her car (petrol and parking) half the time when we go out cuz I'm lazy. | |
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06-07-2008, 10:49 PM
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| | the labi
Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 5,071 Gender:
Total SGC$: 8,487.45 |  Re: $$ issues for couples..
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by yohurt | | | | | | Hmm..i guess for bf/gf it revolves around paying for meals and expenses when going out bah..the part abt serious finances will be more for married couples bah.. | | | | | actually serious financial knowledge n plannin shld start as young as possible..
i noe some secondary kids who haf already developin a v v strong financial knowledge foundation liao...
the younger we start, the better...
even for unmarried singles...
it s our $$$$ after all...
if the issue s not clear b4 marriage, dun expect to clearanything after marriage..
it s either nvr or a bit late liao... i like to START A MATURE THEMED FORUM for MATURE issues...
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07-07-2008, 11:55 PM
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| | Mew mew :3
Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 63 Gender:
Total SGC$: 79.00 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
Hmm me and my gf (now wife :3) fight to pay for meals, outings lolx | |
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15-08-2008, 02:28 PM
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#11 (permalink)
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Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 636 Gender:
Total SGC$: 597.80 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
everytime stay at home together sure can save money one To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. *** PM me if any job to recommend! *** | |
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21-08-2008, 04:55 PM
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| | WoShiPaul
Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 70 Gender:
Total SGC$: 90.37 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
money is the root to all quarrels for me i pay for all and i do complain and stuff but if i dun pay she does not want to come out cuz she say nothing 2 do? cuz we all know singapore so small every entertainment needs money and free entertainment such as walk,playing ball games,fishing could be boring when u do that often | |
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21-08-2008, 05:09 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 3,954 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,319.01 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
Well.. I think that is normal for guy to pay all... Of course, if both are working, perhaps share among... eg: makan guy pay, movies girl pay... etc etc... but to me, even i have gf, i mostly oso pay all ba... unless she want buy things herself, eg: clothing or what, then she pay lo...
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21-08-2008, 05:21 PM
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| | 菓子、デザート Fan of LV/Coach
Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,494 Gender:
Total SGC$: 3,232.03 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by quincyjx | | | | | | everytime stay at home together sure can save money one | | | | |
How can everyday stay at home 1 | Quote: | | | Originally Posted by PiDanBeR | | | | | | Well.. I think that is normal for guy to pay all... Of course, if both are working, perhaps share among... eg: makan guy pay, movies girl pay... etc etc... but to me, even i have gf, i mostly oso pay all ba... unless she want buy things herself, eg: clothing or what, then she pay lo... | | | | |
Yeah normal for guys to pay all, but for me i am quite okay with going dutch but of course i hope for my guy to pay lar Tokyo is a cool place to go & i want My Root Beer Float, Ice-cream Waffle, Curly Fries back!
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21-08-2008, 05:22 PM
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#15 (permalink)
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Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 17 Gender:
Total SGC$: 24.00 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
ya sometimes i pay.. sometimes my gf pay.. | |
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21-08-2008, 05:43 PM
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#16 (permalink)
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Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 211 Gender:
Total SGC$: 240.74 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
Well, it all varies from couples to couples.
Some gals preferred guys to pay for everything. But some gals preferred to go dutch. Some preferred taking turns to pay for each treat/meal.
For me, normally I would pay, unless my gal says she's paying today. But if we're to go to a restaurant instead of foodcourt, normally would take turns to pay. | |
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21-08-2008, 05:46 PM
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#17 (permalink)
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Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 21 Gender:
Total SGC$: 32.00 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
my guy usually will pay for everything but sometimes i will initiate to pay half of it as i think its abit unfair for him. anyway, i'm working and he is not my husband. i don't require him to fork out every single cent from his pocket. | |
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21-08-2008, 05:46 PM
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#18 (permalink)
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Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 63 Gender:
Total SGC$: 62.63 | Re: $$ issues for couples..
take turns to pay, that's the fair way. she dun feel paiseh, u wouldn't burn your pockets To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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