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Old 09-04-2007, 01:20 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Is this fair?

Lets say that a guy likes a girl and chases after her (bring her out n stuff)
But then the girl doesn't show clear signs of wanting to be with the guy. So the guy bo pian wait lor. But then, as he waits for an answer, another girl caught his eye so he goes for the other girl.
If the first girl suddenly tells the guy she wants to be with him but the guy says he already found another partner le... is it fair to the girl? And what would the guy do?

For me... I personally think that too bad le lor.. the girl one step too late. Must know that guys tend to be more flirtatious and hua yan (flower-eyed?). But then the first girl quite sad also. So the first girl how?
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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the guys fault..no patience..seems like the guy really intimidated by other girls easily
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:24 AM   #3 (permalink)
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the guys fault..no patience..seems like the guy really intimidated by other girls easily
Erm... Intimidated? Dun really understand. Sorry. Can explain?
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:27 AM   #4 (permalink)
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easily tempted by other girls, that guy really have no patience to wait...
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:27 AM   #5 (permalink)
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How long the guy wait be4 findin the second girl?

Nothing is fair in the world
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:31 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Hmm.... not really sure. Its sort of a similar circumstance I came up to ask you all cos 1 of my fren experienced something like that...

The time he wait should be around 1 month plus bah...
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:32 AM   #7 (permalink)
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hmm..he has no initiative to call back the girl for answer
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:37 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Or maybe his didnt catch the hint ba..
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:37 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Hmm... probably... but do you think its wrong for the guy to chase another girl while waiting for an answer? If possible, why leh?
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Old 09-04-2007, 01:39 AM   #10 (permalink)
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that guy cant wait..scared he waste his time waiting for the 1st gal
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Old 09-04-2007, 02:02 AM   #11 (permalink)
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hmm no ger opinion yet eh... but from the view of a ger, i really think thats too bad.. i think sometimes, relationships have to do with timing la.. anywae, since the guy 1 mth plus like another ger. so i guess. maybe he doesn like the ger that much too? so, both not really to blame bah..

no offense to ur fren kies? jus giving an opinion?
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Old 09-04-2007, 02:04 AM   #12 (permalink)
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sad for the 1stgirl who took time to think over for the period
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Old 09-04-2007, 02:06 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Nah.. i dun tink he'll mind it. Anyways I also dunno whether he like the first girl more or less la. Perhaps he paiseh (and also very difficult for him) to dump his current stead also... I also agree its on timing lor.

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Old 09-04-2007, 02:09 AM   #14 (permalink)
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haiz..hope things go i=on smoothly la..but the 2nd girl really extra..haha
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Old 09-04-2007, 02:15 AM   #15 (permalink)
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haiz..hope things go i=on smoothly la..but the 2nd girl really extra..haha
extra.. -_-'' Is the gUy de fAult Le. If he reAlly lIkes the 1st Gal, wOnt fAll for Another Gal sO eAsily de. Anyway i dUn thInk dat gUy lIkes the Second Gal alot toO. He mAy jUz fall for another Gals wHen A better 1 cOmes along.. srY silverxx If its Ur fren.. thIs Kind of behavIor Are cOndemmed..! eh. nO offences..
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Old 09-04-2007, 02:56 AM   #16 (permalink)
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haha. some pple take quite a few relationships before they really learn what is love i guess. maybe hes just still unsure..
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Old 09-04-2007, 07:47 AM   #17 (permalink)
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hm...... nth is fair in this world.....

To me , if the ger doesnt show clear signal , it means , that ger are not interested in me at all , just that she dont know how to reject me , so she will act ignorance ....

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Old 09-04-2007, 09:36 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is this fair?

i think the guy should have asked the girl outright first.. to get a confirmation mahz.. although its abit weird to ask liddat, but since he's jio-ing her, he should at least ask her whether she's interested in him before getting close to another "target"..


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