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Old 04-12-2006, 06:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
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hw wld u knw if a guy is suitable for you?

i had a 3yr r/ship before..bt he juz told me out of a sudden that he thinks tt he feels suffocated with me & initiated the brk up..

oso told me lots of crap tings like..hw our family members dun like each otr..frenz cant click together..n hw we shdnt waste time being together aft 3yrs of being together..

does a guy really give crap excuses juz 2 brk off wif u?

is it true that once a guy changes his heart, he will really change?
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Old 04-12-2006, 06:58 PM   #2 (permalink)
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some guys can be real jerks .
but .. no worries girl . u can find better .
not worth to be upset over guys .

cant say totally that their feelings change
fast cos girls too . for tis have to make
fair for the guys here .

maybe there were some problems ??
or .. purely it wasnt meant to be ???
best advice : find a BETTER GUY :devil2:


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Old 04-12-2006, 08:15 PM   #3 (permalink)
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some guys can be real jerks .
but .. no worries girl . u can find better .
not worth to be upset over guys .

cant say totally that their feelings change
fast cos girls too . for tis have to make
fair for the guys here .

maybe there were some problems ??
or .. purely it wasnt meant to be ???
best advice : find a BETTER GUY :devil2:
lol yeah..look for better ones =D
bt stil feel like..hm..i oso dunno hw 2 explain tt feelings in wrds..1 wrd to sum it up : it sure sucks loh
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Old 04-12-2006, 08:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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haha. yeah. i do argee with you guys give lame reason to break up.
when one decided to break up, one will try their best to avoid direct conservation with the other party.

well, everybody gonna move on.
after a 3 yrs r/s, take a long break and enjoy single life.

im sure you will find a better guy next time.
don worry. =D

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Old 04-12-2006, 08:51 PM   #5 (permalink)
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haha. yeah. i do argee with you guys give lame reason to break up.
when one decided to break up, one will try their best to avoid direct conservation with the other party.

well, everybody gonna move on.
after a 3 yrs r/s, take a long break and enjoy single life.

im sure you will find a better guy next time.
don worry. =D
ya loh..tts wat i m doing nw..moving on =D

cheers to all the gals out thr..woohoo..gals can live w/o guys nw loh..

unlike in the past..whereby we haf 2 b dependent on guys.. >.<
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Old 04-12-2006, 08:55 PM   #6 (permalink)
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ya loh..tts wat i m doing nw..moving on =D

cheers to all the gals out thr..woohoo..gals can live w/o guys nw loh..

unlike in the past..whereby we haf 2 b dependent on guys.. >.<
great!
glad that you are able to overcome him.

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Old 04-12-2006, 09:44 PM   #7 (permalink)
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yeah.. u should move on. have some "backbone", show him that without him, u can still live happily! since he said such things to u.. he's not worth it. good luck!
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Old 04-12-2006, 09:46 PM   #8 (permalink)
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HES NOT WORTH IT LA. THIS TYPE OF !@$$@#%@#%@# i see alot liao. c'mon cheer up and jus move on. Surely u deserve someone better out there
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Old 04-12-2006, 09:54 PM   #9 (permalink)
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hw wld u knw if a guy is suitable for you?

i had a 3yr r/ship before..bt he juz told me out of a sudden that he thinks tt he feels suffocated with me & initiated the brk up..

oso told me lots of crap tings like..hw our family members dun like each otr..frenz cant click together..n hw we shdnt waste time being together aft 3yrs of being together..

does a guy really give crap excuses juz 2 brk off wif u?

is it true that once a guy changes his heart, he will really change?
u will never know in the first place whether he is the right guy~ both of u have to experience life together~ overcome obstacles eh~

out of the sudden wanna break?? he is giving lame excuses~ maybe he is tired of u *i am sorry if i am frank* perhaps he still wanna play eh~

some guys will give lame excuses to breakoff once they are tired of the r/s eh~ if u dun have a place in his heart le, then he will find all ways and means to leave u~

well babe, u gotta move on~ he will regret for leaving u~ cos he cannot find a unique one like u anymore~ remember it is his loss~

hope u can move with ur life, i know it takes time to heal but you will make it through~


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Old 04-12-2006, 11:05 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Ya, u must be able to lift it up and put it down. in a relationship, other then the other party can change ur heart, other then that, i dont think anything else can. so most probably the things he said are excuses and not reasons.
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Old 05-12-2006, 02:26 AM   #11 (permalink)
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i hav a fren whu dumbly waited(and is stil waitin) fer a guy fer 2 yrs!! omg! 2 damm yrs. nvr did e guy mit her once!sayin dat he's bzy in ns.and he claims dat he loves her.MY FOOT LA! i say her until i got fed up! cuz of his"i love u" (via sms) she is stil waitin now.
i dun knw hw to knock sense into my fren at all man!
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Old 05-12-2006, 07:03 AM   #12 (permalink)
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i hav a fren whu dumbly waited(and is stil waitin) fer a guy fer 2 yrs!! omg! 2 damm yrs. nvr did e guy mit her once!sayin dat he's bzy in ns.and he claims dat he loves her.MY FOOT LA! i say her until i got fed up! cuz of his"i love u" (via sms) she is stil waitin now.
i dun knw hw to knock sense into my fren at all man!
2yrs n nvr mit once?? :surprised: ur frend have ultra high tolerance n patience sia
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Old 05-12-2006, 11:20 AM   #13 (permalink)
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ya lor..2years in ns sure got time to come out de x.x
Saturday and Sunday sure got one day FREE, if not is holiday also can MEET!

Starrybaby, guys always give crap excuses when they want to break up!
Anyone will have a change of heart de...but since he wanted a break up, holding on to it longer would means nothing to each other...

So just let it go and be carefree for a few months and get over with it~
You will find a better man than him ^_^
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Old 05-12-2006, 12:17 PM   #14 (permalink)
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yeah, show him you can lead a better life WITHOUT HIM too.some guys are real jerks =/

take me as i am ;
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Old 05-12-2006, 12:39 PM   #15 (permalink)
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some guys are just irresponsible. they give all sorts of rubbish to make themselves feel better or less guility.

girl, you really deserve someone better. its not easy to move on, but once you come out of it, you are a whole new person again. =)

jia you!
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should say.. once a human change, everything changed.
lol, it does not apply just the guys, but also the ladies on the earth.
within this 3 yrs, many things may happened.
if he does not know how to treasure you, let it go!
don't dwell onto him and kept asking yourself why is he so cruel and all.
cos, its not gonna help but instead make your life miserable.

you know, like many had said here, find a better guy!
i know 3 yrs is pretty long, but no worries miss, you sure got a chance to meet your right guy!

anyway, what's with this era now? we girls r strong! we don't need men to survive! hurr.:devil2:

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Old 05-12-2006, 08:43 PM   #17 (permalink)
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wah 3 yrs @! hmm yr choice to make


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Old 06-12-2006, 07:11 PM   #18 (permalink)
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i hav a fren whu dumbly waited(and is stil waitin) fer a guy fer 2 yrs!! omg! 2 damm yrs. nvr did e guy mit her once!sayin dat he's bzy in ns.and he claims dat he loves her.MY FOOT LA! i say her until i got fed up! cuz of his"i love u" (via sms) she is stil waitin now.
i dun knw hw to knock sense into my fren at all man!
wah 2yrs! -faint-

mine juz broke off like 1mth ago bah..bt forget it..i m alrdy forgetting about the hurt liao..thanks 2 my gal pals out there..is a gd ting tt we broke off actually..i learned to treasure my gal pals more =D

perhaps 4 ur fren's case..she really got to see that guy with another gal..b4 she can move on bah..
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Old 06-12-2006, 07:14 PM   #19 (permalink)
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thx thx =D

bt really move on le..tink thru alot actually..

i did try to salvage the r/ship back..bt since his heart isnt here anymore..i choose to let go =D
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