Go Back   Singapore's Online Community - Singapore Forums > Leisure & Entertainment > Love & Relationships
Register FAQ Member List Calendar Mark Forums Read

Love & Relationships
Tips and advice for love and relationships.


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 11-09-2008, 07:03 PM   #101 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Default Re: is it just me..

y'know what guys, thanks. thanks for not flaming me like that geeky dude. srsly, thanks.

hope you all had a nice day.. or at least, a better lunch than me lmao.
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Sponsored links
Old 11-09-2008, 07:09 PM   #102 (permalink)
scarywater
Registered Members
scarywater is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 30
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Serangoon
Total SGC$: 40.00
Default Re: is it just me..

seriously i cant find the right reason to flame someone when they are in trouble.. like what for make things difficult for everyone yea
scarywater is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:09 PM   #103 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
its good to do some ' homework' before entering into a relationship with someone i've a friend, she slept with a guy in his school. the next day, she got ditched and that guy went to tell everyone that she seduced him and they slept together
singapore's such a small world lol. but hey, that was completely uncalled for. so what if she slept with someone he knew. it's not like they were close buds, or that she slept with the dude while they were together. isn't whatever she did before she entered the relationship none of his business, unless it was smthg serious like idk, she raped the dude maybe lol. :\

ursie added 3 Minutes and 22 Seconds later...

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
seriously i cant find the right reason to flame someone when they are in trouble.. like what for make things difficult for everyone yea
well if she was ridiculously unreasonable etc. etc., i wld make her see sense. only if i knew what happened, otherwise i'm in no position to give specific advice man. :\

Last edited by ursie : 11-09-2008 at 07:13 PM. Reason: Post Bumping
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:13 PM   #104 (permalink)
RaiNova
Registered Members
RaiNova is on a distinguished road
 
RaiNova's Avatar

Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 277
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Singapore
Total SGC$: 283.50
Default Re: is it just me..

yeah all guys are such assholes.. men pfft who needs them
RaiNova is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:13 PM   #105 (permalink)
scarywater
Registered Members
scarywater is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 30
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Serangoon
Total SGC$: 40.00
Default Re: is it just me..

no, she slept with her boyfriend and her boyfriend ditched her the next day and spread the rumour D: but i dont know why she dont learn her lesson. she slept with 4 guys already.. from what i know. as of now, i dont know
scarywater is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:16 PM   #106 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
no, she slept with her boyfriend and her boyfriend ditched her the next day and spread the rumour D: but i dont know why she dont learn her lesson. she slept with 4 guys already.. from what i know. as of now, i dont know
..still kinda lost man. so what if she slept with her boyfriend. she wasn't sleeping with anyone else at that time. it's a free world. :\

ursie added 0 Minutes and 47 Seconds later...

Quote:
Originally Posted by RaiNova
View Post
yeah all guys are such assholes.. men pfft who needs them
lol, talk abt sarcasm.

Last edited by ursie : 11-09-2008 at 07:17 PM. Reason: Post Bumping
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:18 PM   #107 (permalink)
scarywater
Registered Members
scarywater is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 30
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Serangoon
Total SGC$: 40.00
Default Re: is it just me..

im trying to say that guy was a jerk for ditching the girl right after sleeping with her. but oh well, she chose to let it happen
scarywater is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:19 PM   #108 (permalink)
boltzz
Newbie
boltzz is on a distinguished road
 
boltzz's Avatar

Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 733
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Singapore
Total SGC$: 566.97
Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by ursie
View Post
..still kinda lost man. so what if she slept with her boyfriend. she wasn't sleeping with anyone else at that time. it's a free world. :\

ursie added 0 Minutes and 47 Seconds later...


lol, talk abt sarcasm.
well, not every guy are such open minded in this kind of thing, esp in asia.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
boltzz is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:20 PM   #109 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Wide Grin Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
im trying to say that guy was a jerk for ditching the girl right after sleeping with her. but oh well, she chose to let it happen
..i'd think that if he wanted to be with her, he wld've accepted her for who she is. oh well.

ursie added 1 Minutes and 2 Seconds later...

Quote:
Originally Posted by boltzz
View Post
well, not every guy are such open minded in this kind of thing, esp in asia.
i guess.. funny how at least 50% of indo men/workers (i forgot) visit hookers though. one of my classmates recently mentioned that in his presentation. fun fact of the day haha.

Last edited by ursie : 11-09-2008 at 07:21 PM. Reason: Post Bumping
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:23 PM   #110 (permalink)
scarywater
Registered Members
scarywater is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 30
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Serangoon
Total SGC$: 40.00
Default Re: is it just me..

haa~ lets get back to the topic. so hows things going on at ur side/
scarywater is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:25 PM   #111 (permalink)
PiDanBeR
Experienced SGClubber
PiDanBeR is on a distinguished roadPiDanBeR is on a distinguished road
 
PiDanBeR's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 3,972
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sengkang
Total SGC$: 1,341.87



Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by ursie
View Post
yeah.. like i always say, shit happens. that's just.. disheartening man.

marriage is nthg to me but an official document & a huge*ss fancy party. i'd rather live w/ my life partner & be happy (well, sure there are ups & downs, but you get what i mean) all my life, than get married & end up getting a divorce. it's sad but true. marriage has lost it's sanctity.
Strongly agreed... marriage is just paper... proof to be together... but not confirm being together... haiz...
Living together sometimes have its own problem too... but again, at least more easier to let go, rather than going through marriage... Once married, when want to let go, also difficult...

Honor Member of X-Man Club (Who want tio 'X')

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


'President' of N.S.A. Club

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

------------------------ TheOne 'X' -------------------------
PiDanBeR is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:29 PM   #112 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Wink Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
haa~ lets get back to the topic. so hows things going on at ur side/
meh, alright i guess. surprisingly it doesn't hurt as much this time cuz well, it's happened before, so oh well. whatever. i'll live haha.
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:30 PM   #113 (permalink)
Bartholomew
Registered Members
Bartholomew is on a distinguished road
 
Bartholomew's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 37
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Jurong East
Total SGC$: 52.50
Default Re: is it just me..

you will never know who is your real husband or wife until the day he/she die.
Bartholomew is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:31 PM   #114 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by PiDanBeR
View Post
Strongly agreed... marriage is just paper... proof to be together... but not confirm being together... haiz...
Living together sometimes have its own problem too... but again, at least more easier to let go, rather than going through marriage... Once married, when want to let go, also difficult...
marriage just screws things up i think. i mean, what's the point of gng through the whole wedding-planning process? it's so troublesome.. & unnecessary. frankly, i think the whole idea generally appeals to us girls more than it does to the men haha. change is scary. may be good, but not always necessarily good.

it's gd enough that you're in love; why not celebrate it everyday. doesn't hv to be smthg elaborate & fanciful.. love is best shared between just two people. it solely concerns just them two afterall.
ursie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:31 PM   #115 (permalink)
scarywater
Registered Members
scarywater is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 30
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Serangoon
Total SGC$: 40.00
Default Re: is it just me..

hmm lets just move on and hopefully you wont fall into his trap again
scarywater is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2008, 07:33 PM   #116 (permalink)
ursie
marker-sniffing snark.
ursie is on a distinguished roadursie is on a distinguished road
 
ursie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 789
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Location: Sydney
Total SGC$: 787.45
Default Re: is it just me..

Quote:
Originally Posted by scarywater
View Post
hmm lets just move on and hopefully you wont fall into his trap again