ursie

or are all the men i meet assholes.

is anyone in the same situation as me?

-Fairytale-

*HUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS TIGHT*

Not all are, just some. It's probably because nowadays most people take things for granted. You know, the 'pampered' generation... It's alright, learn from experiences. Be it a good or a bad experience, it's still an experience.

Muack muack~

xXHolyknightXx

The men u meet all have assholes, in fact every men in earth has one =P Okay back to topic, not all men are... Perhaps you have not met the one that can click with ur character etc. But hey the world is so big and you still have a long road ahead of you, so i guess you will meet ur mr right sooner or later =D

The innocence can never last...
To free myself... from the cruel reality of life...

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ursie

..i've had way too many bad experiences to tahan & no gd ones to fondly reminisce abt. god, i hope i don't have to wait for thirty more yrs like the girls in sex & the city. D:

charlotte: i've been dating since i was fifteen! i'm exhausted; where IS he?!

ursie

meh, everything's always fine until it comes to the whole "commitment" bit.. i don't get why they say yeah sure, but in the end back out & vanish or come back looking for more, & then the whole cycle repeats. i guess i make lousy decisions..

some random woman in the sex & the city movie: she was a smart girl, 'til she fell in love.

that line so speaks to me.

-Fairytale-

I know what you mean, but have you look at it from a different angle? If it happens all the time, could it be the problem lies in you and not the men? Sometimes, we don't see it as clearly as people around us does. Why don't you try seeking some advice from your close ones? Ask them if there's anything extraordinary with the way you deal with your men?

svpam_ms

I think its just you. Haha

Freedom at last. It does feel good!!!

ursie

prly, but then again how wld you know lmao.

ursie

..my best friend doesn't hv luck w/ them at all. we both know what our "issues" are lmao, it's just that.. there has to be someone out there like us, despite how.. unique, our situation is, right? >.<

otherwise i'm ****ed man. D:

& i'm sure it lies in both me & that particular person. -.-
but c'mon, nobody's perfect. & i'm as close to perfection as you can get.. loljkjk.
but no srsly, i've seen worse girls out there get boyfriends & i'm like ..wtf.
scary bit is, i'm not alone.

GeekyPrince

To change your situation, one must blame yourself, and you must first blame yourself, my dear hiding in some monk outfit.

If all your life you attracted assholes, then it is YOUR fault for attracting them because of your personality. The way you display yourself determines what kind of guys you will attract.

Lets put in a nice example.
What does prostitutes attract? Mainly pervert old men who like to just bang their cash away for 5 minutes of fun.
Looking at this sentence alone, it is VERY VERY VERY hard to find a man who can truly and sincerely love a prositute. It's like striking toto, all numbers exact.

You are somewhat there also. U are in no position to properly or easily find the kind of guy you are looking for because of the personality you display.

If you want things to change, you first must change.
If you want your perfect man, YOU must first BE the perfect woman FOR that perfect man, and right now, you aren't.

Take the blame to yourself and change it. No excuses.

-Fairytale-

Birds of the same feathers flock together~

My advice is, change a best friend. Get one who's popular with all the not so assholes..

ursie

you don't even know my situation in it's entirety, so f*ck you & yr unfounded assumptions. :\

nobody's rly answering my question here: are you in the same situation as me, yes/no.
& yes, thank you all for yr advice, unwanted as some may be.

ursie

haha yeah i agree, but i love her, so oh well. what to dooo. see this is the exact same mentality i've w/ my love interests. i guess i rly shld stop being all "i love you for who you are, you asshole" ish. -.-

but then, who wld love me. D:
oh twisted, twisted..

GeekyPrince