shuangyuren

i wonder ...wich is better? ppl coming to u or u comin to ppl? for example , some ppl juz attract alot of ppl without doin anithing while some juz goes around interactin with ppl but are nt as populaR ..does it mean tat when ppl come to u means u r popular?

MelvinLee

no i disagree , somebody is popular because they speak well, type well, and good in many things, for me must wait for ppl coming to me, if i come to ppl, i might well get insulted and shame of myself, so i must wait for other come to me

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mixzkholet

popularity.. is sumthing wen u r exposed.. exposed in a way that people always remember u.. like the actresses/actors in diff. countries.. they become famous/popular becuz dey r exposed (by means of tv).. but.. popularity without using cameras.. is sumthing u hav wen u expose urself.. like being always there in evrything.. sum s2dents in ur skul.. myt be popular becuz dey always hav awards.. or dey r vey gud in doin sumthing?..

**hope that helps..**

restless

people are generally attracted to out going personnel. so the more out going u r generally the more popular u should be.

i prefer ppl coming to me. coz then, they will be the organisers for the day haha. if i jio people, then i'll have to plan activities and so on.......

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shuangyuren

ya ppl comin to me is better ...i oways hav bad luck organising things ...ppl dun come or busi n evrytime is 热脸贴冷屁股

friendshipz

both way, depending on situation, if you would like to be a actor/ singer or watever has to do with much exposure, you sure need to have a good personality and good interaction skill and to make yourself amiable to ppl, so if there is a day u get to me famous, ppl will start to come to you instead of you going to look for ppl. anyway like i have stated earlier on , it really works both way.

nerdismyname

I am always passive in making frens. Juz waiting for someone to jio me out. But seems like no one ask me out 1 leh . Some guys juz need to act cool also can get gals to jio them out. Some ppl juz try too hard to be friendly also to no avail. I am always in awe of those who dont need to lift a finger and can get dates easily. Maybe i doomed to be lonely? Anyone has any fantastic ways to be popular? I am not gd at anything leh. And i dont want to try to hard too impress and not be myself. Haiz..i hate my life.

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brissygirl

You shouldn't hate your life, at least you know people here. It doesn't really matter if you're popular or not, it's whether you actually have true friends. If you have a million friends, like say on Myspace, can you truly count on the whole million to come help you in times of need? And dates aren't important either...they're not always fun! Sometimes they can be real disasters...so you're not missing out!

Splendid

hmm..i think they both have their good n bad points.

People coming to u: doesn't mean u r popular. it could be the few close ones that come to u cos they prob feel comfortable with u? Or ppl may want something from u n so they come to u. Or ppl wanna make use of u for something. It doesn't mean u r popular. N ppl coming to u all the time means u dont have ur own privacy.

U going to ppl: doesn't mean ur unpopular. sometimes u nee to approach others for help cos they may see u as a strong person or independent n dont require help from them. or u just wanna be with someone. doesn't mean nobody likes u if they dont come to u.

is it that impt to be popular?

urawks

i think both bah..its depends lars..

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shuangyuren

ya i gt frens whu realli is nt the cool type de but after they gt gd results, ppl flock around him ,i oso dunno y .....den some is gt fei wen de but they dun like, but ppl juz like to come round n mingle wif tat ...aiya .....i hate ppl who juz come to ppl for some purpose , like por those strong ones ...v disgustin, like its nt for the sake of true frenship

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shingshing

Maybe it feels good to have group of people sucking up to you...But noti. is right. Most importantly, you gota love yourself and be comfortable with yoursef. If you're not the out-going kind so be it. Work on self-development and social skills, things will improve somehow.

gloh

flower attract all the bee
cowdung attract all the fly

as long u are special / different ppl will come to u, of cos with different intention.

u can gain popularity with ppl sending u flower & gift or
gain popularity by getting thrash by ppl

shuangyuren

well i noe popularity is nt important ...the impt thing is hw the ppl make u feel special

restless

i think to making friends should be from the heart by genuinely interested and care for the person.

i feel those social skills that you so call develop are more superficial and deep within you, you are not acting based on what you feel. its more like, its the way how things work, so i have to be this this this to make it work.

when you act from the heart, things will just flow.....

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shuangyuren

ya agree wif tat ....u make frens frm the bottom frm the bottom of the heart ..有缘千里来相会 ..but wun u get disheartened if u gt superficial ppl surroundin u ?

Syaoran

i am not sure about that..probably? i am not popular around with people and i always got bullied by my friends =x

shuangyuren

lol tat is kinda great i tik ? at least u hav a certain place in the hearts of ur frens

JonTan

You can surround yourself with people but you will only know your true friends when the shit hits the fan and everyone disappears except those who really care. So I think popularity is one of the most over-rated things people seem to worship.

shuangyuren

of cuz if u hav true frens tat u wanna share anithing n open up, tat will b great ...

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