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Old 31-07-2008, 12:55 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Im curious. which would u choose?

Just ytd, I came across a blog whose bf has just died. It's heartwrenching when your loved ones have died. But, if you were given a choice, would u rather your bf die, or the one you love deeply dun love you.

i duno which to choose.. i noe it doesnt have any meaning. but ive been thinking... lol.

i broke up with my bf once, and the feeling is just so unbearable, crying everying, missing him every moment, seeing him close with other gals..

if the guy i love died, i would also have the same feeling..

so pple, which will u choose?
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Old 31-07-2008, 12:58 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

Eh? No.. I wouldn't wish for anyone to die.. so no such scenario for me to choose .. if possible. -__-;;;;
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Old 31-07-2008, 12:58 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

the one i love deeply don loved miie.. cos even if it's someone i knw .. passed away .. no matter hw many tears or words.. it could nv bring the person back .. unlike someone u love who don loved u .. afterall , u culd still be frens =) ..


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Old 31-07-2008, 01:17 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

Do you mean...

would you rather your boyfriend who loves you and whom you love back just as much die OR the same guy whom you love deeply but just doesn't like you a single bit?

Hmmmm..... tough choice. But i'll choose the latter cus in reality.... I hardly fall deeply in love with someone whom I'd not started a relationship with.
So i guess it would be easier to move on for me.

If my guy died, I would be devastated needless to say.




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Old 31-07-2008, 01:39 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

to me,i would rather he died before me.cos if you really love him/her to the extent,you would not want to be sad when you had died.so you will rather be the one that is sad and see him go peacefully...

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Old 31-07-2008, 01:45 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Just ytd, I came across a blog whose bf has just died. It's heartwrenching when your loved ones have died. But, if you were given a choice, would u rather your bf die, or the one you love deeply dun love you.

i duno which to choose.. i noe it doesnt have any meaning. but ive been thinking... lol.

i broke up with my bf once, and the feeling is just so unbearable, crying everying, missing him every moment, seeing him close with other gals..

if the guy i love died, i would also have the same feeling..

so pple, which will u choose?
eVen if I have to choose to let him live but he will not have a single trail of memory about our love, I shall choose to let him live . and watch him from afar . smiling to myself . satisfied . contented . I shall be happy

no Im not gay . merely put myself in a girl's shoes.

The only verdict, is vengeance..
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Old 31-07-2008, 01:51 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Just ytd, I came across a blog whose bf has just died. It's heartwrenching when your loved ones have died. But, if you were given a choice, would u rather your bf die, or the one you love deeply dun love you.

i duno which to choose.. i noe it doesnt have any meaning. but ive been thinking... lol.

i broke up with my bf once, and the feeling is just so unbearable, crying everying, missing him every moment, seeing him close with other gals..

if the guy i love died, i would also have the same feeling..

so pple, which will u choose?
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Do you mean...

would you rather your boyfriend who loves you and whom you love back just as much die OR the same guy whom you love deeply but just doesn't like you a single bit?

Hmmmm..... tough choice. But i'll choose the latter cus in reality.... I hardly fall deeply in love with someone whom I'd not started a relationship with.
So i guess it would be easier to move on for me.

If my guy died, I would be devastated needless to say.
heehee! think water-sprite have help TS to phase it in a better way wor!

i will choose the 2nd option, the same guy whom you love deeply but just doesn't like you a single bit, cos knowing that he is still alive and able to heard abt all the good things he had went through in his life... maybe it is going to hurts knowing abt his new love life but it is better than missing a person whom u love and knows he also love u deeply, yet u can only see in ur dreams... and in ur heart u know that he can never be urs again..

both choice would have its own pain level... but at least the 2nd option, we can always use positive thinking to pull us through... beside i won't go and find out and won't wanna listen to anything abt that guy either... that can be too painful le... slowly time will heal de...

for me, the worst case is when u know that the person whom u love deeply and also love u deeply have passed away... that kind of HURT and memories will sure stays in the heart forever de... cos deep inside ur heart u know that the love is there... it may take a person her/his lifetime to forget that memory alone!

ahem dunno why lei... this song suddely pops in my mind... keys of heart!


this is the better version but got to enter the site to watch!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkZrB...eature=related


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Old 31-07-2008, 07:38 AM   #8 (permalink)
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i choose he die....

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Old 31-07-2008, 07:48 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

I reaD that girl's blog too...i think she was the gf of the army guy who died...

I was so saddened by it la....

And every life is precious....i rather he lives even though he may never love me back....yahz still can be friends lorrr...

Better than he's gone from this world forever yah...that he still able to lives his life as he wants even if i'm not the star of his life.


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Old 31-07-2008, 09:48 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Sorry I not Gay, I dun like guys.... So this question is not applicable for me..

Serene I had love you since then, and I will always do
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Old 31-07-2008, 09:57 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

Of course i rather he dont like me.. at least I can still see/ hear him even if it may be unpleasant scenerio... I mean he is still ALIVE.. and whatever unhappiness can still be forgotten with on-coming happiness (that is life, have to always look into the future)

If he is dead, even with pleasant memories, it is not enough... and scar will almost never heal...
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Old 31-07-2008, 09:58 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Sorry I not Gay, I dun like guys.... So this question is not applicable for me..
gay or not gay, the qn implies on death. BOO!!

for me no die better.
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Old 31-07-2008, 10:04 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Im curious. which would u choose?

one you love deeply dun love you

either choice is bad maybe i choose i die then no worries lol

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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