I hate it when a girl.... - Singapore's Online Community

lovejs · 23-05-2008, 12:56 AM

lets a guy revolve around her world. Whenever I feels that my girlfrens around me keep complaining or feeling upset all over again because of a guy, I simply shuts of from hearing what they have to say. I'm not being heartless here and I know the feeling of love and hurt cos I've been through that myself. But if a girl keeps saying nothing but about her boyfren, her guy, her whatever shit, I gets irritated. Don't they have a life of their own ?!

And why do some girls turn so needy, it's simply a turnoff!

I'm sorry that I have to say that.

"FOR YOU TO KNOW HOW TO LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE, YOU MUST FIRST KNOW HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF!"

**freedomkira** · 23-05-2008, 01:00 AM

It's their world.

lovejs · 23-05-2008, 01:19 AM

And it's my complaint ...... this is a complaint zone ...... am I at the right place ???

**voodoomini** · 23-05-2008, 01:24 AM

it's abit off . Whenever i heard my gf talks bout her guy .. where they been to .. wad did they do .. and wad they talk bout .. it's pretty sweet .. .. and there she goes on every single day .. whereby whenever im free to jus sit and rest, she will go near miie .. and sae " girl , u knw wad he msg miie just nw? .. he sae.. blah blah blah blah .. *wadever she thinks is nice between them* " .. she wont stop .. even though u went off and back to the same spot.. she'll tel u even mre.. i don mind listening .. but .. it nv ends.. and getting .. irritating .. .. .. why does she needs to sae everything bout their happening to ppl ? don they need their own privacy ? .. hmmm ..

this is a complaint zone.. and i have the same thinking as u do .. lols..

**-Rokugatsu-** · 23-05-2008, 01:31 AM

hmm maybe they just want to share with you or friends
and didnt know it's actually irritating for telling their "Story" everyday every moment bah.. =p

**candykisses** · 23-05-2008, 01:51 AM

Agreeddddddd!

They tend to keep saying and saying and saying and saying............
Until, "Boyf calling, call you back!" thn after that, the whole process is repeated.. =.=

neko_88 · 23-05-2008, 01:54 AM

they just say on and on like there's no tml.. like i am interested in her love story novel.. turn off.

**toothburs** · 23-05-2008, 01:59 AM

Haha i guess most of the girls are like that? Want to show people their sweetness and happiness ma....

shingshing · 23-05-2008, 02:17 AM

Lol, tho i'm a gal i also get turn off when they go "oooooh my bf travel all the way to shanghai to meet mi so sweeetttttt...den gib mi flowersssssss....oooooh....oooooh". Then they look at you in the eye hoping you'll put up a very xian mu look and go "oh how sweeeeeeeet...".

But instead, I just say with a straight face "oh."

**Yongjin** · 23-05-2008, 02:27 AM

complaining bf i still can accept n offering a listening ear... wat i cannot stand is gals complain abt her job.... everyday keep winding... beside ur ear abt hw unhappy hw stress yet refuse to change a jobz....

**Powerful one** · 23-05-2008, 02:28 AM

if they talked to you about the problems they had with their boyfriends meant they treat you as very good friend. thus, they hope you can be listening ear for them.

just my personal view

**raph** · 23-05-2008, 01:15 PM

jus listen and say "orh, orh, orh, ahh!!!" lol

*~ Yutaka ~* · 23-05-2008, 01:20 PM

if u think that u dislike watever your friend complain
then just hack care then.
some times oh oh ars are just wat they need.
be in their shoes.
if u were the one (maybe in other aspect of your life prob)
and u wanna look fopr someone to talk to and someone just turn a deaf ear on ya
you wont feel nice as well.

sometimes...and yes rare very rare oh oh ah saves lifes as well...
i dont wanna say wat i have in mind .go figure

**louisangelatng** · 23-05-2008, 01:22 PM

from wat u say, i can tell tat u have nv been into a relationship b4... (or am I wrong?)

**xRebornZ** · 23-05-2008, 01:25 PM

haiz.. girl