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Old 04-07-2008, 05:15 AM   #1 (permalink)
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How To Woo A Girl

By deversole

The following is a step by step process of how to woo a girl, but be warned the consequences maybe overwhelming.

Things You’ll Need:
Understanding, emotions and some cash.

How to woo a girl

Step 1
Wooing a girl begins with the mind, always start there. Talk to her, discuss things you may have in common with each other, such as sports, television shows or music. Girls are looking for someone to connect with beyond the physical attraction.

Step 2
Find a way to demonstrate that you can commit, not be committed. Don't start talking about kids and a house on the first date, but show the lady that you are open to a relationship. Let her know that dating and building a bond is important. Always call her after a date, don't hesitate to make another date and be on time for each date. Little things like this show that she is important to you.

Step 3
Speak openly about what you are thinking. When she asks tell her, otherwise her mind will start running through all the bizarre scenarios. Don't avoid questions about how your day was, go into some detail. Talk to her about what you do when she is not around. Never make her feel like you are hiding something.

Step 4
Ask her about herself. Show that you want to learn more about her with conversations that share both of your thoughts, likes, dislikes etc. Inquire about her job, hobbies, friends and family. Listen when she is talking about things not related directly to you. Remember there are times when being a listener is far better than being a talker.

Step 5
Be a man. Too often in today's society that line is being blurred, but the fact is woman want you to open the door or pay for the meal. In other words, chivalry is not dead and make sure she knows it. Make her feel like she is a princess by opening the door, holding her hand in public and quickly paying for all expensive on the date.

Step 6
Most important, if things are going well and the relationship is moving forward make sure she knows that you want her and not just sexually. She needs to feel at ease and know in the morning her bed won't be empty. When you have taken the next step, make sure that sex doesn't cloud everything else. Continue talking to her, holding her and giving her your full attention even when sex is not on the menu. If you stop doing these things after going to bed with her, the relationship will suffer.

Tips & Warnings
Wooing a woman can be tricky business and sometimes you will get bit.


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Old 04-07-2008, 06:06 AM   #2 (permalink)
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cool ~

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Old 04-07-2008, 09:46 AM   #3 (permalink)
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all lies!

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Old 04-07-2008, 10:43 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Theory is 1 thing, application is another.


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Old 04-07-2008, 10:47 AM   #5 (permalink)
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most importantly, be urself and this kinda of things cannot be forced.

u cant force a girl to like u
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Old 04-07-2008, 11:15 AM   #6 (permalink)
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thanks for sharing whaha, but dun mean all this work on all the gal ah..


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Old 04-07-2008, 01:11 PM   #7 (permalink)
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in this world all ppl have difren chracter...
but anyway, can giv a try~ ^^


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Old 04-07-2008, 01:16 PM   #8 (permalink)
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no 3 was interesting..lols

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Old 04-07-2008, 01:42 PM   #9 (permalink)
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actually these steps r quite useful...most girls i know respond better to these steps than guys who try to come on too strongly...

frankly if the guy trying to woo me start talking abt marriage n kids...i'd be scared liao...LOL havent even be together officially leh.

And most girls appreciate guys who can carry on conversations well with them. N they don't want a r/s thats all abt sex, unless they looking for flings.

Wooing a girl takes time n effort n money...n most importantly sincerity n persistence lor. However u also need to know when to let go....esp if its been 1 or 2 years n there's no positive response from her. or got negative response...pls move on...

Also know more about her le then decide to woo her....she may not be ready for r/s or emotionally unavailable or etc which u will know if u get to know her 1st b4 wooing.


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actually these steps r quite useful...most girls i know respond better to these steps than guys who try to come on too strongly...

frankly if the guy trying to woo me start talking abt marriage n kids...i'd be scared liao...LOL havent even be together officially leh.

And most girls appreciate guys who can carry on conversations well with them. N they don't want a r/s thats all abt sex, unless they looking for flings.

Wooing a girl takes time n effort n money...n most importantly sincerity n persistence lor. However u also need to know when to let go....esp if its been 1 or 2 years n there's no positive response from her. or got negative response...pls move on...

Also know more about her le then decide to woo her....she may not be ready for r/s or emotionally unavailable or etc which u will know if u get to know her 1st b4 wooing.
yap yap...
i agreed wz wat u say...
u r really a deep one...
really noe a lot ya....
actually u r givin away the secret soft spots of a gal already....

to b honest, communication will b the most important...
when wooin a gal, dun really need to bring her to movies or try to impress her in watever way...
jux talk can liao, n believe me, the chances r v v high...
but most guys dun noe how to carry themself well enough to converse wz gals comfortably...


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all lies!
why you alway negative huh ??

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Old 04-07-2008, 05:13 PM   #12 (permalink)
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den if woo teenager how?
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Old 04-07-2008, 05:35 PM   #13 (permalink)
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+1 guys should learn about this. some guys i know are jerks and arrogant.
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