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Old 13-04-2008, 11:02 PM   #1 (permalink)
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hmm..

ok.. there is this girl whom i met her through an online game, and we added each other through msn, and we chatted.. but not everyday.. its like on and off kind of chatting.. and some how the chat just go along just fine..

but one thing.. i'm always the one who starts the conversation, and i'm always have this thinking that she dosen't notice me or something..

and some how i kind feel like wanting to know her better, then i thought maybe i could ask her for her number so we sms each other and don't have to wait for both to be online.. but i don't really know how to ask.. i'm afraid i might just ask it in a wrong way..

soo erm.. a little help here .. thanks

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Old 13-04-2008, 11:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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By the way, do you have sms joke but they are in chinese form? if you have den you during the middle of the conversation in msn, you may wan to say this. Hey, my friend just sms me a joke written in chinese, hahas is very funny.Pause for awhile, and you say, you should read it to is very funny. Den if she say Ok or blah blah blah, take her number down and send her the joke. i have try this method b4, kinda useful cos it won't be directly asking for her phone number.
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Old 13-04-2008, 11:43 PM   #3 (permalink)
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'Say, do you think you can give me your contact number? 'Cause maybe we can hang out outside the Internet, you know. Go for drinks or something. I think it would be great to have you as a real life buddy too. *smiles* '
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Old 14-04-2008, 09:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
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woo...kk note taken

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Old 14-04-2008, 11:47 PM   #5 (permalink)
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one of my online frenz tried tis on me, "hey i nid to wake up by 12pm. call me. my number: XXXXXXXX"

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.
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Old 15-04-2008, 12:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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wow.... u guys are so clever....respect.
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Old 15-04-2008, 03:59 AM   #7 (permalink)
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we haf a hormones ragin guy here....
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Old 15-04-2008, 04:21 AM   #8 (permalink)
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one of my online frenz tried tis on me, "hey i nid to wake up by 12pm. call me. my number: XXXXXXXX"
alot of ppl do that! normally i will just ignore. lol
and i have seen msges from online guys, stating their name, age, contact num. -.- i have seen addresses too! zz
and theres this type who still uses those super old methods like" hey, i think i used to have ur num, but i somehow lost it. can you give meyour num again?" .____.
i think you can just ask normally la. if she dun think u are a bad guy den she will most probably give you. thats given that u 2 know each other well enough that she consider you as a friend.
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Old 15-04-2008, 08:42 AM   #9 (permalink)
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just dont make urself sound too despo can liao

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 15-04-2008, 09:24 AM   #10 (permalink)
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yah...agree, dun make urself sound cheap......maybe u shld ask for her photo first
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Old 15-04-2008, 09:28 AM   #11 (permalink)
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aiya just let nature take place bah

maybe just find a correct time den pop the qn "Mind xchanging contact"?
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Old 15-04-2008, 09:28 AM   #12 (permalink)
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use ur balls to think... just ask la

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Old 15-04-2008, 10:06 AM   #13 (permalink)
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just ask her sincerely, if she dont give you doesnt mean she dont like you, some girls are very conservative.

yeah, sincerity.
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Old 15-04-2008, 10:08 AM   #14 (permalink)
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ya if she has been msn-ing with you for sometime u already have 50% in your hand to get her contact. d other 50% is on luck, tactic, sincerity and guts!!!

GAMBATE!!!!
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Old 15-04-2008, 10:10 AM   #15 (permalink)
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ya if she has been msn-ing with you for sometime u already have 50% in your hand to get her contact. d other 50% is on luck, tactic, sincerity and guts!!!

GAMBATE!!!!
lol, Tactic?
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Old 15-04-2008, 10:13 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Old 15-04-2008, 11:47 AM   #17 (permalink)
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well.. i have seen her photo, knows what her name.. has her friendster.. the only thing is asking for her numer..
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Old 15-04-2008, 11:48 AM   #18 (permalink)
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