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Old 07-12-2007, 10:26 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

I am just wondering cause personally I do not know how to tell between just being nice or its like being nice to you cause he likes you.

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Old 07-12-2007, 10:30 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

actually as a man when i treat someone too good i will fall in love too i dunnoe why

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Old 07-12-2007, 10:38 PM   #3 (permalink)
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u can listen through their tone... those who wan u to be gf.. will like hint u in their words..


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Old 07-12-2007, 11:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

well, when guys treat me good, i often fell into this trap to fall in love with them. but i was too naive.
So dont fall into this trap ^^


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Old 07-12-2007, 11:36 PM   #5 (permalink)
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juz see, if he treat u better than he ought to treat u normally... like, he suddenly buy u stuffs for no apparent reason, meet u very often, and, hinting you now and then... then... bingo!

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Old 07-12-2007, 11:55 PM   #6 (permalink)
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sometimes, love just so complicated that it keeps me running round and round in circle.

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Old 07-12-2007, 11:57 PM   #7 (permalink)
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GUT FEELING... there may be a better answer, but this is how i think you can tell lol.

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Old 08-12-2007, 09:39 AM   #8 (permalink)
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A guy wouls most unlikely treat a gal super nice and good unless he likes her.

You can also compare how he treats other gals whom both of you know. From there you can judge.

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Old 08-12-2007, 07:55 PM   #9 (permalink)
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u can listen through their tone... those who wan u to be gf.. will like hint u in their words..


not very accurate leh, i think most guys would purposely drop hints & flirt with the gal
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Old 08-12-2007, 08:01 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

It really had to depends on how well you know the person.
Sometimes, guys just flirt around, cause they like the feeling of being *liked* by girls.

And it should be pretty obvious whether is he flirting or not.

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Old 08-12-2007, 08:26 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Lol.. i cant follow my feeling coz my feeling always tell me the wrong things.. kekeke
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Old 08-12-2007, 11:17 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

Is there a problem if a guy is being nice to you? A guy will naturally be nice to a gal in the 1st place and it would not help if you get suspicious everytime he is going to be nice to you. In the 1st place why do you accept him then?

I do not think you should go on suspecting everytime he is doing nice things for you right? If this is going to be so then you should not continue this r/s. Again, it is just my perception. It is really up to you.


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Nice to you for a few months .. and the his' REAL motives is starting to show up ..


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Old 09-12-2007, 01:38 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you tell if guys being nice to you is just being nice or there is a hidden meaning?

Hmm... just wondering cause last time I have this person when at work he can find other people to do things duno y find me... and then some more he is my boss's boss. Though he is like only 8 yrs older than I do la... duno he trying to make fun of me or trying to be funny.... then say something stupid that a normal boss will not say to a subordinate also... so that time I was like -____-

haha... but it shldnt affect me much now la, cos I oredi moved on to another coy le... but just wondering what is he trying to do back then...

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Old 09-12-2007, 03:25 AM   #15 (permalink)
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lolz like that also can.. ok la frankly say la a guy were to like a girl will show a great care to a girl but then the ans can be found by letting other guy bully u to c if there is any reaction if no then dun guess too much. guy can reali treat girls well and even treat them too well like a sister. so dun guess wan to noe come out a plan. buy things for girls is common lolz. And Mint, guy like girls is not a trap. do u believe that a guy can even use his life to woo that girl so that is not a trap. if u like him u go with him dun like say sorry i need time to think or other excuse but dun go over bored cos once he cannot think onli u will regret and feel gulity for ur life
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