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**napoleonhill** · 19-04-2008, 05:21 PM

Anyone will care to share your romantic experiences or what you have done for your love one on a very special occassion?

**loveyunki** · 19-04-2008, 09:39 PM

watch sunrise together

**MiRyung** · 19-04-2008, 09:41 PM

Cooking together... both being amateur cooks. xP

**dearludear** · 19-04-2008, 09:47 PM

Hello,

Just to share...

All this while, one of the romantic thing I thought is to pick saga seeds with my boyfriend. I had told all my boyfriends this and none had picked with me. All told me it's hard to find in Singapore or they simply don't care....

Till one day, while I was lunching with this male colleague, on the way back to our office, I'm so thrilled to realise there's saga seeds along the way. I happily picked up these seeds and my male colleague helped me too... I thought then, too bad, wrong guy to pick up with...

Fate is sometimes very unexpected.... After twist and turn.... This male colleague is going to be my husband....

Romantic...? Coincidence....?

**loveyunki** · 19-04-2008, 10:06 PM

oh gosh! that's romantic... really romantic... fate...I am so happy for u!

**dzpliu** · 19-04-2008, 10:08 PM

lols? so nice

**joyeo** · 19-04-2008, 10:18 PM

wow super romantic... so sweet...

**zeneeon** · 19-04-2008, 10:23 PM

... *claps*

**dearludear** · 19-04-2008, 11:21 PM

Hi dears...

Mmmm.... You all refer to me right? Hehe...

I would say, after all the hiccups in my life and relationship, he's the sweetest reward that I got. And also the most frustrating one sometimes.

I once heard this... God take away something good from you, in order to replace a better one. I'm not a Christian... I just know that at times we have to go through bad relationship so as to appreciate more in a good one.... Hehe...

Hehe.... Next romantic event please...

**phindol** · 19-04-2008, 11:58 PM

myself what i do tt i think is romantic. lol. =p

i prepared a mini restaurant for dinner at home.
cook myself for my just finished ns bf then.
prepare the set up for the room (my bedroom)
bought alot of items in order to create the ambience. like candles, wine glass, nicer plates, glass jugs, a lil pressie, etc.. smt i am proud of ish i even created the menu for the day and a restaurant name and logo. LOL!!

so i guess the romantic part for me ish.. cos bf very tired come back den like open the door and surprise!! hahaz. though not a special occasion. its just a xin xue lai chao. hehe.

can try if u guys are free and dun mind to use your bedroom. haha!!

my boyfriend romantic part ish more on giving.
he takes note of what i lack and give it to me. always the best type though he is not tt rich.

and i like when he created night cycling. wow~ for me ish wonderfully romantic already. loL! simple and nice. enjoy the breeze~ and the best part ish it rained.. hahah!! and he is very sweet to run all the way to 7 eleven to get me a towel and hug me tighly when he himself is shivering too. hah! tt moment was sweet. laalaz.

**napoleonhill** · 20-04-2008, 02:32 AM

Thanks for sharing guys...

Well, one of the things I did was... during school days in ITE, happened to know a girl whom I felt pity of when she is so popular to a point that everyone assumed she has someone to spend with during her day of celebration. The saddest point was that her relationship came to an end 2 weeks before so truely I understand how she felt.

Well, she was actually crying after school while I went over to talk and comfort her. That's when she told me her problems so taking out my courage if she doesn't mind if I celebrate it for her.

What I propose was actually for her to enjoy and for me to set it all up for her. As you guys know that Fireflies are never easy to catch locally and also base on season if I remember correctly to see them but over 1 part in Johore (I can't really remember the street's name), you can get them so I actually made the effort to do that and simply telling her that I can't give you fire works but after a tree dinner, closed to midnight to her actual birthday, brought her to a nice garden and released the fireflies over the sparkling stars in the sky. This perfects a beautiful celebration.

All I got for her is a great dinner and on the spot slice of cake with a custom made candle for her. The rest is self effort.

simplepris · 20-04-2008, 06:06 AM

wah, so romantic sia..

hmm.. for me.. usually i like to write love letters to my bf.. then this ex confessed that he dun like to read my letters cos they are very wordy.. so i started to give him love 'drawings'.. i even created the cartoon versions of us.. haha!

and then he entered army.. he nv said anything abt fearing i may have a change of heart.. but i wanted to assure him anyway! so i drew 1 page for him every single day. during his 3 mths in tekong.

but alas.. the thanks i got? he two-timed me during his 1 wk break after pop.

**dearludear** · 20-04-2008, 05:03 PM

Mmmmm....... Think being romantic is to put in our very best effort to make an event special.... It might not be very costly... More importantly, it's our effort...

I always like to cook for my guy. But with him, I don't have the chance to cook. Coz in the end, I'm the one who do the washing and the cutting... & he's the one who cook.....

While most of the readers find that the saga seeds is romantic, his proposal is very unexpected and rather frustracting and disspointing....

shypineapple · 20-04-2008, 05:06 PM

cook for her chawamushi,dont knw how to spell(the jap steamed egg)... lolx

**dearludear** · 20-04-2008, 05:08 PM

It's sad to hear that, Simplepris... At times, we can be very sweet to them, but they don't appreciate us...

I hope it won't leave you a scar that you would still treat the same for a good guy.. =)

**napoleonhill** · 20-04-2008, 11:26 PM

Actually handcraft work can be items made on a romantic occasion when effort and time is put into making something out of them.

**SephoriaX** · 21-04-2008, 02:06 AM

i made a scrapbook filled with our pictures.. and i wrote in the book once a day.. and gave it to him on our anniversary

**napoleonhill** · 21-04-2008, 01:50 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by SephoriaX
	i made a scrapbook filled with our pictures.. and i wrote in the book once a day.. and gave it to him on our anniversary

That's touching... nice.

`BeRRies-* · 21-04-2008, 02:47 PM

i never did anything romantic.

i only prepared a home-cooked dinner for him when he was back from his camp.

**co0l_giirl18** · 21-04-2008, 03:06 PM

is all this counted as romantic?
i dont think so ba...
juz a little xtra effort when thinking of wat to give him n things like tat..

cook for him
bake a ice cream cake for him for his 21st birthday (wif his favourite ice cream flavour)
bake biscuits and cookies for him (wif i love you wordings)
write diary every day letting him noe how much i miss him (while he's at tekong)
put our pictures into a photo calender
got summore but cant think of it at this moment