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Old 07-02-2007, 09:47 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Well, in this world got guy and girls... but how they judge each other? how about a guy judge a guy/girl? how about a girl judge a girl/guy?

wat is ur views on it?

judging can be body figure, eyes, hair, head, ear, leg, hand, breast, voice....etc...
so how u judge?


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Old 07-02-2007, 10:00 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I believe I am in no position to judge anyone. This is because NONE of us are perfect. The very complexity of our human psych makes us volatile creatures swinging from the ability to be very very nice or very very nasty depending on the situation we face everyday.

People can bring out the best in us or the worst in us. How then can we classify someone as a 'good' person when he/she can be equally bad to others?

If you talk about the appearance, then what you mean is first impression bah. Again, that is very subjective. What you see as attractive might be viewed as non outstanding by others.

Hiazz...no one can please everybody lah. :handsup:

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Old 07-02-2007, 07:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
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hmm hw to judge?!

i c dat person behavior 1st!

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Old 07-02-2007, 07:21 PM   #4 (permalink)
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for me,

in order of importance
1. behaviour
2. attire
3. looks

behaviour and attire usually comes together, if you have a decent combination of both, looks is just a bonus


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Old 07-02-2007, 09:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Studies have shown that most ppl judge others by the first impression...The first 10 secs is very crucial...If the first impression is doesnt impress or at least is the kind of standard the other party is looking for, then it will take more effort to fix it.

The reason is bcoz our brain will register a positive/ negative mental picture of the person, just like shopping, you will look at the prettiest not the ugliest display...

Thats the reason why personal grooming, is important...(Tuck in your shirt, cut your hair, sounds familiar?)

To a certain extend, there is no such thing as 'dont judge the books by its cover', In the reel world yes, but we are living in the real world...


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Old 07-02-2007, 10:51 PM   #6 (permalink)
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hmmm character, attitude.... follow by looks.... i choose looks to be the last cos looks can be deceiving....
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Old 08-02-2007, 09:08 AM   #7 (permalink)
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i would rather 'view' the person than putting a judgement on him/her straight..

normally, i dun care how he/she looks, physical appearance does not matter.. most importantly is his/her heart/actions/behaviour/attitude..


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Old 08-02-2007, 11:55 AM   #8 (permalink)
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i wun say judge.. but maybe what kind of impression i had on that person.. and it would be base on how the person talks..


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Old 08-02-2007, 11:57 AM   #9 (permalink)
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See the attitude and stuffs.
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Not looks, hairs or anything
Cause I mean, hair doesnt mean that wow, she got rainbow hair, must be an ah lian or w/e.

Looks? Fate leh.


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Old 08-02-2007, 12:21 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Studies have shown that most ppl judge others by the first impression...The first 10 secs is very crucial...If the first impression is doesnt impress or at least is the kind of standard the other party is looking for, then it will take more effort to fix it.

The reason is bcoz our brain will register a positive/ negative mental picture of the person, just like shopping, you will look at the prettiest not the ugliest display...

Thats the reason why personal grooming, is important...(Tuck in your shirt, cut your hair, sounds familiar?)

To a certain extend, there is no such thing as 'dont judge the books by its cover', In the reel world yes, but we are living in the real world...
actually Ican says it all..
very true indeed..
humans judge by the look..
so the way u dress up and appeal to others is very important!


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Old 08-02-2007, 12:44 PM   #11 (permalink)
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for me, 1st impression plays a big part. and then comes the friendship where u can really see the "true colours".
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Old 08-02-2007, 05:34 PM   #12 (permalink)
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True.. Impression come the 1st part. Neva judge a person. Sounds kinda rude.

But the first thing I would see will be his dressing and foremost hairstyle :mellow3:

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Old 08-02-2007, 06:09 PM   #13 (permalink)
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