Tristanity

I wanted to continue a reply from a thread that was previously created by MamaRos but i wasn't able to submit a reply. Ain't sure why so here comes another thread regarding quarrelling with ur significant other.

And in a quarrel, who is the one that usually give in and why?

relentless pursuit for perfection;
thats taking a toil
in my health.

Somebody said they saw you,
the person you were kissing wasn't me.
And i will never ask you;
I just kept it to myself.
I dont wanna know;
if you playing me, keep it all a low.
Cause my heart can't take it anymore.

What do i do to make you love me
What do i do to make you care
What do i do to make you want me
Its sad, Its so sad,
Its a sad sad situation

faith14

i never quarrel with my bf =X haha..

“Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw.” - Fran Lebowitz

Bunneh

Usually if we quarrel, i would shut up and he would keep asking "i really dunno what u want" blah blah blah.. but i still shut up and either continue do my thing or slp.. then at night.. if i'm slping he would hug me and i dun resist lor.. let him hug lor..then tmr morning okay liao HAhA!! but if i doing my own thing then he come and di siao me.. i kock his head lor.. then we laf laf then okay liao ^^ haha

1 Corinthians 13:4-13
The verse from a friend which brought me back to the one I love
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Royunster

I have never quarrel with my gf. We both care,love, respect and trust each other very much. We chat via internet phone everyday for at least 2 hours...Due to LDR.

ellabaretto

how can not quarrel? every relationship must have ups and downs. if you dont quarrel there must be something wrong. cause sometimes when you quarrel, it brings the both of you closer and you learned something from each other.

Royunster

It takes 2 hands to clap and 2 mouths to quarrel. There is definitely disagreement within a relationship. For my case, any issue arise me n gf just sound out and discuss over it in a peaceful manner... why quarrel and make things unpleasant leh?

silencedreamer

i agree with royunster. disagreements will not necessarily turn into quarrels if both parties are willing to settle them peacefully.
for me, i've never quarreled with my bf before also. sometimes i've felt tt its weird tt we've not quarreled even once in our 3 yrs together, but i realise its becoz we know when to avoid conflicts when the other is not in the best of mood.

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uyen

for me and my dear,it should be Cold war.W
e will ignore each other for a few days then one of us will start talking.

clement

best is to avoid it generally, solve it before the fire from the stoves get bigger then take action.

GreenShell

A few days ar. wah siao. isn't that torturing.. ><

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Royunster

I feel that cold war gives both parties sometime to think about what is going wrong with the relationship. Is much better than quarrelling... I suppose.

faith14

hmm.. ya.. cold war is a more mature, rational thing to do =X i didn't mean those who get into quarrel are immature, impulsive.. =)

“Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw.” - Fran Lebowitz

superciliousme

Hmm about once a month? hahaha.. We have regular quarrels over small issues usually. My bf gives in more than me, but I always insist that we discuss everything right on the spot and try to resolve it.

True sleeping on it may mean you can better control your emotion during discussion, but if it's used as a way to avoid dealing with problems (as a certain type of personality is prone to do), then it won't do us any good.

The important thing is we learn what went wrong, try to correct things and always go back to normal and stay as loving as always... =)

fuyumi

Once in a while but I never keep track of the frequency. Seldom I suppose and usually he give in first. ;p Maybe cos I like guys to give in to me no matter what.

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YOURLOVER

depends lo. got mood what oso quarrel de. no mood cold war. quarrel den got more interaction ma. healthy.

theright0ne