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Old 30-06-2007, 01:55 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How often do you meet your gf/bf?

As above. How frequent should a couple meet, in your opinion?

I've got a friend who practically stick with bf 24hrs a day everyday. So close til need sleep overnight at each other's house frequently. Meet own friends/class gathering his bf also tag along. Getting kinda irritated by that...not becoz jealousy but its a friends' gathering. Can't he give her a little space of like 3-4hrs before they can stick like you tiao again? Duhz. :speechless:

For me, I meet my bf about 1-2 times a week. Sometimes work commitment/other activities, can meet like once every 2 weeks only. If ask mi to meet bf every day 24hrs, I'll go mad.

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Old 30-06-2007, 01:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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haha last time i see my bf everyday, coz we were in the same sch, so i see him every morning when we go to sch n in the afternoon when we go home. but now, he's in NS lahz, so every wk only can see him during the wkends lorz..

i think to stick until liddat is abit overboard lahz.. coz its like they dun have their personal time at all. but if both of them dun mind abt it, there's nothing others can say also lahz. let them be lorz.

sometimes i bring my bf to gatherings too, or my bf will bring me to his class gathering. although we're not very close to each others' classmates, we'll still bring each other lorz for class bbqs n all tt. coz its sorta like "expected" liaoz.. haha..


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Old 30-06-2007, 02:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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for me during weekdays i'd prefer short meetups perhaps during his lunch time or after work to eat and for a lil chat.

weekends will meet up longer ba. see where we can go.

i also cannot stand ppl stick to their bf/gf whole day long. abit no life; their whole life revolves around their partners. to me this kind of ppl their life will become very small. :mellow3:
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Old 30-06-2007, 03:26 PM   #4 (permalink)
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i meet mt gf almost everyday for meals or to pick her up from wk if she's wking nite shift

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Old 30-06-2007, 04:32 PM   #5 (permalink)
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well, it's life. you'll want to stick with him very single day during courtship. Once u get married, the story will be different liao.... so, enjoy your every single day of courtship! :rock:
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Old 30-06-2007, 09:30 PM   #6 (permalink)
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i meet my bf practically everyday..

but usually he dun tag along when i meet my frens and vice versa.. unless we are meeting our common friends lah!

it's good to go out with others w/o bf.. different kind of fun..

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Old 30-06-2007, 09:34 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Uhm, my boyfriend is in NS so we can only meet during weekends when he books out, or if he gets nights out or something. I don't bring him along for class gatherings, it's just plain WEIRD and ya, a little sticky.

But other than that I have to admit that we are kinda sticky too, he sort of stays over regularly.
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Old 30-06-2007, 11:11 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i meet my bf everyday lor, our working place is very near to each other so we always have dinner after work, and we dun like if anyone disturb us oso~ lolz.

What's wrong with stick to each other 24hrs? me & my bf is dying to do that leh.. lolz! too bad we're working then can only meet for a few hrs after work..

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Old 01-07-2007, 12:51 AM   #9 (permalink)
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i think it depends on how long u have been together... the new ones tend to spend more time with one another bcause welll... yah... they are new... the not-so-new ones will spend less time

i think trust is a factor too... the not-so-new ones trust each other more, so they dun mind if they meet less
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Old 01-07-2007, 01:14 AM   #10 (permalink)
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certainly not everyday. cos i believe absence makes the heart fonder. =D
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Old 01-07-2007, 03:28 AM   #11 (permalink)
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i also cannot stand ppl stick to their bf/gf whole day long. abit no life; their whole life revolves around their partners. to me this kind of ppl their life will become very small. :mellow3:
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Old 01-07-2007, 03:37 AM   #12 (permalink)
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hmm for me, of cos i'd like to spend alot alot of time with my bf, but because of work we also have compromised time..

We have made a pact that sundays will ALWAYS be our day, so no matter what we will spend it together. hmm, other then that, we will sometimes go for impromptu dinners?

So in average we meet about 3 times a week, depending on our personal schedules..
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Old 01-07-2007, 09:34 AM   #13 (permalink)
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i think it depends on how long u have been together... the new ones tend to spend more time with one another bcause welll... yah... they are new... the not-so-new ones will spend less time

i think trust is a factor too... the not-so-new ones trust each other more, so they dun mind if they meet less
not really leh.. me & my bf is already 3 years, evenso we're still dying to stick to each other for 24 hrs. We're like one already, we cant stand doing things without each other by our side.. dunno why oso~ lolz :rock:

Even on sunday he asked me to meet up at 6am in the morning cuz he doesnt want to waste a single second when we got a chance to spend the whole day together (cuz i oso work on weekends most of the times)..

so yea, only 1 day we dont meet up at all which is most of the time will be on sunday, cuz normally on saturday he will come over to my working place to have lunch with me :mellow3:

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Old 01-07-2007, 11:46 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: How often do you meet your gf/bf?

I think this topic has been created before.. hmmz.

Anyway, I think it's up to individuals. For me, my BF and I stick together all the time too. I don't find it disturbing or sian or whether he's blocking and kicking away all my privacy. First thing first, both he and I don't value friendships that much and we do not have that many friends. I'm very fortunate to have found someone who has e similar personality like me.

We meet each other daily without fail and spend time with one another. Even 1hour is good enough. One advantage to us is we both stay just one level above/below one another. Hence travelling is not a problem.

No offence, but I've always think of couples saying thing