NingNing

Hi guys.. need abit of help..

mi and my bf seems like.. drifting apart..

is there anyway to make him fall in love with me again? O.o



any pros/guys that know? we used to be very happy and sweet but.. erm.. we have abit of problem.. we dun have initimate momments.. dunno issit coz of me.. maybe im ugly or fat or something.. anyway, he has no interest in me physically.. we click because we are compatible in terms of intellect / status / money.

so is there any ideas?

MiRyung

Firstly.... physical intimacy (i'm saying sex) is not everything in a relationship. However, don't say you guys never ever touch.. like hug or kiss, 'cause that would be really abnormal in a r/s.
Secondly, don't ever demean yourself like that. You make yourself feel inferior and insecure, and sometimes that may be reflected in your daily actions/behavior.. which could be a turn-off for some guys, who might want their women to be confident and not clinging.
Another possiblity, maybe he's being gentleman to you or he's not comfortable with intimacy.
Whatever it is, it's best you try to talk to him abt it. Maybe the root of problem isn't you. Something else bothering him, maybe?
Good luck.

Spade

ah why u so nt confident in urself.... if u can try to be pretty la can one. and second no such thing as money status and wadeva reason u ppl get together, u jus got together cus u both found sth in each other.last of all if its urs its urs relex

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finaldust

maybe u can try to give him some surprise to spice up bah it is easier to start but hard to continue bah

require both parties to put in effect to keep it going maybe can go to the place ur first dating place? do thing which can bond both of u tgt?

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to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
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NingNing

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would it help somehow if.. maybe u know.. i leave him alone and be independent and dun whine?

g2gcya

lol if he only interested in money then really no point le

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NingNing

i tried to give him surprises.. but he doesnt seem to like it..

any ideas on things interesting things to do?

and.. lol.. i wear night gown everynight.. the next step is to not wear anything at all.

NingNing

no la.. we are both interested in money de. im a workaholic tho.. dunno is that part of the problem..

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put love potion into his drink!

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if the display picture is ur real self, then he muz be stupid to lose interest in u...

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yunise

there's no ugly girls, only lazy ones..

try putting on more make up? o.o

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well if really drift apart , then maybe the feeling he used to have for you , has started to fade away. Its kinda hard to maintance relationship alone .it takes two hand... also ..guys should love girls more . so they can cherish them ...erhmm anyway , if you think its your physcial self has no longer attracted to him . maybe try to do something ? uhmm or have a good talk?

your question don't really have a start point..did something happen ? that's why you both drift ?

otherwise , maybe your value to his heart is no longer the same

finaldust

-.- then try discuss the problem with him? discuss wat is happening between both of us give both of u some time to think through?

maybe he got some personal problem?

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

raven894

perhaps try giving him some time... maybe he working on a way to tell u??

NingNing

firstly, ya tts me.. secondly ya, i also think he losing interepst in the physical me..

i tried to put on make up, he commented he dun like.. so i stop also.. i dun really noe when he started to lose interst.. hai..

whenever i try talking to him about feelings, he freezes and sorta run away and talk about something else.. hai..

i dun wanna corner him until he refuse to talk about it.. hai.. hw to make him comfortable enough to open his feelings up to me.. he refuse to communicate and talk about his feelings.. why is tt?

are most guys like tt or only mine?

NingNing

guys are there things that a ger does to touch ur heart and make u all weak inside?

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