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Old 28-04-2007, 09:41 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How to make gals feel more secure?

i can sense that she isn't feeling secure with me.. but i am not one whu will go round to flirt. based on previous threads about gals feeling insecure, guys also partly has to be responsible.. what can the guy do?

little actions like giving her surprises do work.. but i don't know if she is truly happy or not.

she also told me before that she is the paranoid kind.. but i assured her that i will understand.. gals.. what u all think about feeling insecurE?
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Old 29-04-2007, 12:53 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Gain more of her trust by showering her with sincere tender loving care.
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Old 29-04-2007, 01:14 AM   #3 (permalink)
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be able to support her for life.... i think tat should make her secure

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Old 29-04-2007, 01:19 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: How to make gals feel more secure?

action speaks louder den words bah. den all talk n no action.

r u (very) popular wif gals? if yes, tis maybe one of the reasons. Have a talk wif her. Find out watz causing her to feel insecure


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Old 29-04-2007, 01:22 AM   #5 (permalink)
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u assured her that u will understand, den make sure u understand. whatever she do, u have to forgive her.
dont flirt ard lor. best is dont contact any girls. make do with ue guys buddies!
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Old 29-04-2007, 02:43 AM   #6 (permalink)
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guy we got no freedom at all..


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Old 29-04-2007, 02:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
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To make gals to feel more secure,
you have to make sure that you will be able to invoke feeling in the girl first...
After that, you need to make the girl comfortable....
I guess that will always be the basic for girls to feel secure
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Old 29-04-2007, 01:17 PM   #8 (permalink)
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u assured her that u will understand, den make sure u understand. whatever she do, u have to forgive her.
dont flirt ard lor. best is dont contact any girls. make do with ue guys buddies!

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Old 29-04-2007, 01:37 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I think you must give her time. As time passes, she will know that how mcuh you are really fond of her and this is when she will feel secure with you.


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Old 30-04-2007, 09:16 AM   #10 (permalink)
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is it due to lack of communication??
sometimes girls very sensitive one.. a bit only can feel insecure...
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Old 30-04-2007, 10:57 AM   #11 (permalink)
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woman are often hard to please..


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Old 30-04-2007, 02:21 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: How to make gals feel more secure?

erm try to assure her all this with actions bah some ppl always worried a lot and it is for nothing bah

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 30-04-2007, 05:47 PM   #13 (permalink)
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woman are often hard to please..
agreed !!


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Old 07-05-2007, 01:51 PM   #14 (permalink)
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coax her happy^^ try to understand more about her.. best let her win everytime.. be more serious ((:
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Old 07-05-2007, 05:12 PM   #15 (permalink)
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haha u are much beta den e guys ive been tru with.
i dun feel secure with them.

prove to her dat u're reliable and u can gif her security

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Old 11-05-2007, 02:30 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Default Re: How to make gals feel more secure?

Actions are a ways of making a girl feel secure. Like my bf will protect me whenever he knows guys are trying to be funny. He goes out with my friends and even discuss girls who walk by together. That's better than to have him looking secretly in front of me. But again, if shes paranoid then I think its not you she isn't secure of but rather, herself. Shes needs to have more confidence with her choice and decisions.


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Old 11-05-2007, 09:47 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Gain more trust by showering her with sincere, tender loving care (TLC) and action speaks when you talk nice words..

Women are not that easy to pls unless you know how to communicate, sense of humour and know her heart deeply as for that try to show more concern and care..
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Old 12-05-2007, 02:01 PM   #18 (permalink)
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watch e show, mars vs venus.

gals loves to be dote on, listens to mushy stuffs.
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